Last night, at a well known location in South Yorkshire I was told that if I don't stick to the established groups “own†version of their ‘Code of Conduct' I would be driven out by the spreading of rumours.
Since when has the local group of regulars instigated 'Codes of Conduct' and kangaroo courts on new arrivals.
I thought the basic rules of this game are:
:arrow: You show respect for others
:arrow: You keep your distanceuntil signalled
:arrow: You never make anyone feel uncomfortable or threatened
:arrow: No means No
:arrow: That it should be funfor everybody
:arrow: As long as a group of consenting adults are all happy, then anything goes within these set limits.
To then be told you are not playing by our 'Code Of Conduct' so we will spread malicious rumours about you to the regulars and you will never play here again is complete and utter bollox
The times I have overheard conversations of singles with couples saying how wrong and irresponsible it is not to carry condoms with them. Only to later see these same guys fumbling and scratching in their pockets before finally admitting they do not have any :shock: and then expect a couple or another single stood by to bail them out is beyond belief. I have never yet left the house without them.
Why should couples also have to supply the condoms..
Why do doggers’ go out looking for sexual encounters without basic protection?
As for spreading rumours, we can all do that and some have better stories then others!!!
As for falling out, that’s your problem and not mine.. I am sure I will have just as much fun.
This is a FREE COUNTRY and we are free to roam where I please. And at 35 years old no-one tells me what I can and cannot do in a public place.
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