From the remaks and observations here and elsewhere on SH about dogging, it follows that perhaps a Code of Practise might be a good idea?
Perhaps an agreed recognition system that everyone follows and knows, placed in a "sticky" where it can be read by all.
These would help those looking for dogging fun and also protect those who unaware of such things.
Anyone else agree?
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Code of Practise
Sex God
Most people don't bother to read rules or suggestions on behaviour, but if they wanted to, we already have this in place - it's at the top of this forum ;-)
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Besides, many guys out dogging do not frequent the net for rules on how to behave. They just go out to a car park and try their luck.
If they don't behave, they won't get lucky - simple as that really
TJ
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Besides, many guys out dogging do not frequent the net for rules on how to behave. They just go out to a car park and try their luck.
If they don't behave, they won't get lucky - simple as that really
TJ
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Anyone else agree?
i'd hazzard a guess that your suggestion was in part inspired by my ranting, re a minority of shag seekers making themselves a little too busy?
it'll then come as a surprise to you that having said what i have, i don't agree with the principle of a "code of practice" as such :lol: it wouldn't work anyway 
i've probably got more to say on the subject, than you've got patience to read it :lol: i'll add some comments later..but for now, this..
we have a dogging buddy affectionatly known as "the master"..this name derives from his uncanny ability to bag whatever action is going..in fact, such is his demand, some couples do make a point of seeking him out to partake of his services..
the reason for his success is two-fold..firstly, he is out there..doing it..secondly, and just as importantly..his attitude..he treats any visiting couple as potentially, nervous first timers..if they are not shy and retiring, he'll still cop the result, however..if they are newbies, inexperienced or just not familiar with the venue..his attitude will serve to put them at ease...often, with heightened emotions, couples don't need much excuse to leave..sensible doggers such as the master just don't give them that excuse :wink:
See Mr DD, youse just established a rule....be nice
And another...be patient.
It's all common sense....you don't go into a pub/club, walk up to a woman and say "cummon ya fat slag, let's get some meat-on-meat action going "
It's all common sense....like you don't walk in front or behind a car you're tagging.....not unless you really want an imprint of a tyre over your sad body..
If there's no "meat" showing, then you don't show either....that's "rule" number 1 in the rulebook "how not to provide the law with a cast iron case by being totally braindead"
If I had a fiver for every time I've seen an idiot get it wrong and try to run away....into the nearest ditch or brambles......as in "know your pitch"...
And the latest rule: no dogging in Ipswitch for a while.
And another...be patient.
It's all common sense....you don't go into a pub/club, walk up to a woman and say "cummon ya fat slag, let's get some meat-on-meat action going "
It's all common sense....like you don't walk in front or behind a car you're tagging.....not unless you really want an imprint of a tyre over your sad body..
If there's no "meat" showing, then you don't show either....that's "rule" number 1 in the rulebook "how not to provide the law with a cast iron case by being totally braindead"
If I had a fiver for every time I've seen an idiot get it wrong and try to run away....into the nearest ditch or brambles......as in "know your pitch"...
And the latest rule: no dogging in Ipswitch for a while.
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"cummon ya fat slag, let's get some meat-on-meat action going "
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You smooth talking devil, get your coat, you've pulled
Sex God
Quote by jomu
See Mr DD, youse just established a rule....be nice
And another...be patient.
It's all common sense....you don't go into a pub/club, walk up to a woman and say "cummon ya fat slag, let's get some meat-on-meat action going "
It's all common sense
If there's no "meat" showing, then you don't show either....that's "rule" number 1 in the rulebook "how not to provide the law with a cast iron case by being totally braindead"
And the latest rule: no dogging in Ipswich for a while.
Spot on, but as always there follows a further difficulty...there is a fine line between being patient and being a velcro arse..you see a couple give them time, they think bollox noone is interested and drive off
Why don't you say that in a pub Jomu
: I'm going to try that next time I am in a really rough pub Sounds a good book who wrote it :?:
Depressingly I bet even some of the males on here haven't worked out that one yet :lol:
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Harry Jones
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right..look at the guys that swamp a vehicle as soon as it enters..they aren't vague as to how the etiquette works..they are dogging by their own code of practise..which is simply first come first served..those guys don't hound a car for a "show"..its almost invariably involvement...and it works too, in that minority of cases where the couple play the game so frequently, that such antics are routine to them..in some cases, even favoured..often such couples will be out weekly, maybe even nightly..the manner of approach has long ceased to be a concearn to them...
for the boys that use that in-yer-face approach, their objective is not only sex, but conquest..the many couples that reject such advances, or flee in terror matter very little too them..they'll be employing those same methods regardless of published "codes" "rules" or whatever.to those fellas, dogging is a persuit part of their character..if you watch them over a period of time, you'll notice they very soon lose interest in couples that they've played with before..often there will be all manner of antics playing out in the carpark, but the "swampers" will be sat in their vehicles, awaiting their next quarry :wink: it goes beyond a desire for sex :lol:
it is worth bearing this in mind...the overwhelmiing majority of playing couples, were once shy newcommers...let me tell you a little story :wink:
when we started out as an exhibitionist couple, three and a bit years ago..we attracted a lot of attention..it was always assumed that we were going to be moving into involvement..as someone remarked " they all do"..when, after a very short time, it became evident that the mass swarm we attracted on each and every visit wasn't in any way going to sway us..they gave up..but through their frustrations, they got a little outspoken, often making remarks within earshot..
however..after a few weeks, mrs dirty became a little experimental..one or two fellas got lucky..unfortunatly, they bragged about their result to the "swarmers"..this became immediatly apparant on our next visit..for just as we were used to being ignored on arrival, or hearing remarks shouted toward interested doggers such as "don't bother about them mate, fucking waste of time..she is a lady you know...too stuck up for the likes of us"..this happened...suddenly they were all around us, smiling, referring to me as "mate" politeness and charm itself
:lol:
as it was, the experimental phase was short lived..mrs dirty found "the master" to play with :twisted: ..the point being? well, often "showing" couples do move into involvement..when that happens, they'll await the moment where all things fall into place, and she can take that first erotic step..that will invairably be someone she feels comfortable with, and not someone that has persistantly pissed them off on previous visits :wink:
the "swampers" will be there as long as there are couples not sufficiently put off by their approach..the way many carparks are going, there isn't much future in it..whilst there are couples looking to be caught by a stranger, or wanting to experience the thrill of sex with one, free from endless email exchange, and away from the organised atmosphere of a sex club, fellas like " the master" will have a future..if i had to put money on which approach will still be getting results in three years, i know where i'll be putting my stake :wink: the "swampers" are being supplimented by waves of newbie fellas that imagine all couples are old hands, and gagging for cock..in that respect, their own self perception is that they are rather more important to the game than they actually are..the game cannot survive without doggers, that is true..but when those fellas think that couples have to put up with rudeness, given that the male is so important as to be in a position to call the shots, then that game is fucked..
if you struggle to get your head around that way of "thinking", do a search for "naughtywigan's" peterborough thread..its a case in point on how that "attitude" can turn a thriving venue into a desert..the guys there would tell couples where they could, or couldn't park..they'd also try and direct couples as to who they should "service" first..ok..its an isolated case, and i only relate to it through having directly experienced the attitude there..
all guys need to remember is this..as a fella, a polite one..you are crucially important to the game..often the idiots will appear to be getting the lion's share, which to you, will seem unfair..ask yourself honestly..if its just a quick fuck you seek with a woman that probably dishes out free fucks twenty times a night, with anyone that can muster the energy to lob his cock out, seven nights a the idiots..you'll be just fine..
if, on the other hand..your desires run more along the lines of being on your own with a shy newby couple..your attitude being such that their desires to experiment can be freely expressed, the erotic tension building as you realise their whispered assurances to eachother signal they have chosen you as their first shag experience..then stay
polite :wink:
with shows..again..rushing in will serve no benificial purpose..as said before..the "swampers" aren't interested in a "show"..when the couple leave, the voyeurs have lost out..to get the show, you must distance yourself from the "swampers" and the "boy racers"..nothing can happen that will be of interest to you in such a situation..once you are away from the circus, the clowns can't upset the show..its then, and only then, you'll get your show..and when the show culminates in a suck, a wank or a fuck..you'll get that too..not the swampers..they MIGHT get that eventually..when or if the couple become less sensitive or concearned as to their manner...when the "swampers" lose interest, the "habitual shaggers" comprising the married fellas and suchlike wanting a routine poke will get the couple..then it'll be routine..the couple with have their own groupies..it is a pecking order..and however it MAY appear to you...as a polite fella, you'll are at the top of the tree :wink:
just edited to say i wasn't ignoring jomu or naughtyabove..they merely posted whilst i was typing this
:lol:
right..look at the guys that swamp a vehicle as soon as it enters..they aren't vague as to how the etiquette works..they are dogging by their own code of practise..which is simply first come first served..those guys don't hound a car for a "show"..its almost invariably involvement...and it works too, in that minority of cases where the couple play the game so frequently, that such antics are routine to them..in some cases, even favoured..often such couples will be out weekly, maybe even nightly..the manner of approach has long ceased to be a concearn to them...
for the boys that use that in-yer-face approach, their objective is not only sex, but conquest..the many couples that reject such advances, or flee in terror matter very little too them..they'll be employing those same methods regardless of published "codes" "rules" or whatever
.to those fellas, dogging is a persuit part of their character..if you watch them over a period of time, you'll notice they very soon lose interest in couples that they've played with before..often there will be all manner of antics playing out in the carpark, but the "swampers" will be sat in their vehicles, awaiting their next quarry :wink: it goes beyond a desire for sex :lol: it is worth bearing this in mind...the overwhelmiing majority of playing couples, were once shy newcommers...let me tell you a little story :wink:
when we started out as an exhibitionist couple, three and a bit years ago..we attracted a lot of attention..it was always assumed that we were going to be moving into involvement..as someone remarked " they all do"..when, after a very short time, it became evident that the mass swarm we attracted on each and every visit wasn't in any way going to sway us..they gave up..but through their frustrations, they got a little outspoken, often making remarks within earshot..
however..after a few weeks, mrs dirty became a little experimental..one or two fellas got lucky..unfortunatly, they bragged about their result to the "swarmers"..this became immediatly apparant on our next visit..for just as we were used to being ignored on arrival, or hearing remarks shouted toward interested doggers such as "don't bother about them mate, fucking waste of time..she is a lady you know...too stuck up for the likes of us"..this happened...suddenly they were all around us, smiling, referring to me as "mate" politeness and charm itself
:lol: as it was, the experimental phase was short lived..mrs dirty found "the master" to play with :twisted: ..the point being? well, often "showing" couples do move into involvement..when that happens, they'll await the moment where all things fall into place, and she can take that first erotic step..that will invairably be someone she feels comfortable with, and not someone that has persistantly pissed them off on previous visits :wink:
the "swampers" will be there as long as there are couples not sufficiently put off by their approach..the way many carparks are going, there isn't much future in it..whilst there are couples looking to be caught by a stranger, or wanting to experience the thrill of sex with one, free from endless email exchange, and away from the organised atmosphere of a sex club, fellas like " the master" will have a future..if i had to put money on which approach will still be getting results in three years, i know where i'll be putting my stake :wink: the "swampers" are being supplimented by waves of newbie fellas that imagine all couples are old hands, and gagging for cock..in that respect, their own self perception is that they are rather more important to the game than they actually are..the game cannot survive without doggers, that is true..but when those fellas think that couples have to put up with rudeness, given that the male is so important as to be in a position to call the shots, then that game is fucked..
if you struggle to get your head around that way of "thinking", do a search for "naughtywigan's" peterborough thread..its a case in point on how that "attitude" can turn a thriving venue into a desert..the guys there would tell couples where they could, or couldn't park..they'd also try and direct couples as to who they should "service" first..ok..its an isolated case, and i only relate to it through having directly experienced the attitude there..
all guys need to remember is this..as a fella, a polite one..you are crucially important to the game..often the idiots will appear to be getting the lion's share, which to you, will seem unfair..ask yourself honestly..if its just a quick fuck you seek with a woman that probably dishes out free fucks twenty times a night, with anyone that can muster the energy to lob his cock out, seven nights a the idiots..you'll be just fine..
if, on the other hand..your desires run more along the lines of being on your own with a shy newby couple..your attitude being such that their desires to experiment can be freely expressed, the erotic tension building as you realise their whispered assurances to eachother signal they have chosen you as their first shag experience..then stay
polite :wink:
with shows..again..rushing in will serve no benificial purpose..as said before..the "swampers" aren't interested in a "show"..when the couple leave, the voyeurs have lost out..to get the show, you must distance yourself from the "swampers" and the "boy racers"..nothing can happen that will be of interest to you in such a situation..once you are away from the circus, the clowns can't upset the show..its then, and only then, you'll get your show..and when the show culminates in a suck, a wank or a fuck..you'll get that too..not the swampers..they MIGHT get that eventually..when or if the couple become less sensitive or concearned as to their manner...when the "swampers" lose interest, the "habitual shaggers" comprising the married fellas and suchlike wanting a routine poke will get the couple..then it'll be routine..the couple with have their own groupies..it is a pecking order..and however it MAY appear to you...as a polite fella, you'll are at the top of the tree :wink:
just edited to say i wasn't ignoring jomu or naughtyabove..they merely posted whilst i was typing this
:lol: Quote by jomu
Yeah..........good job I don't have to re-write the code-of-honour every time you post one of your biblical tomes-of-instruction....I'd have to employ J K Rowling to do the authoring.
Anyway......any fat slags fancy some chipolata-to-rump action ?
:shock: :shock: cheeky git
:lol: i do talk some shite though don't i mate? :lol:this photo kinda reminds us what fun dogging in polite company is..this group of fellas had distanced themselves from the rat-pack...and we found em
:lol: just like the "mood" in this one.. :lol:
I bet Mrs DD ain't baring that bum outside at the moment....not without getting hypothermia !
Oh well, things ain't too bad....just a bit crowded out there....the odd bum and boob present themselves occasionally...some of the hot hatch crowd seem to be getting very daring...had a young lady shake her tits at me tonight...without any clothing on top either ! (I think it was meant to be an insult...but you can't insult an old-time dogger, especially with tits !)
Sorry Waughty Nigan, didn't forget you, just trying to factor the fuel cost to the higher regions of the country...unfortunately, my bank balance doesn't allow more than 100 miles a day (and I exceeded that on Friday night) Oh well, another day/night/month/year/decade etc !
Oh well, things ain't too bad....just a bit crowded out there....the odd bum and boob present themselves occasionally...some of the hot hatch crowd seem to be getting very daring...had a young lady shake her tits at me tonight...without any clothing on top either ! (I think it was meant to be an insult...but you can't insult an old-time dogger, especially with tits !)
Sorry Waughty Nigan, didn't forget you, just trying to factor the fuel cost to the higher regions of the country...unfortunately, my bank balance doesn't allow more than 100 miles a day (and I exceeded that on Friday night) Oh well, another day/night/month/year/decade etc !
so good andy, you quoted it twice the whole thing :shock: ..seeing it like that kinda reminds me of a roll of loo paper..and about as usefull too .. :lol:
i guess what i'm trying to say is.."if you ain't out, you'll see now't" :lol:
i'm sure jomu will echo those sentiments :lol: :lol: :lol:
the whole thing :shock: ..seeing it like that kinda reminds me of a roll of loo paper..and about as usefull too .. :lol: i guess what i'm trying to say is.."if you ain't out, you'll see now't" :lol:
i'm sure jomu will echo those sentiments
:lol: :lol: :lol: I have just finished a complex heuristic analysis of the above. Using the latest algorithms on my dual-core pc, with several Gb of disk space and liquid nitrogen cooling of the CPU (it got hot halfway through).
I have the results in front of me.
Things are not looking good, the psych analysis of the writer reveals latent hysteria with overtones of delusions-de-grandeur.
Apart from that, the deeper meaning of the textual epic has been revealed, it apparently boils down to just a few words: "If you ain't out you'll see nowt"
I have the results in front of me.
Things are not looking good, the psych analysis of the writer reveals latent hysteria with overtones of delusions-de-grandeur.
Apart from that, the deeper meaning of the textual epic has been revealed, it apparently boils down to just a few words: "If you ain't out you'll see nowt"
Quote by jomu
it apparently boils down to just a few words: "If you ain't out you'll see nowt"
i thought thats what i said?
argg, i didn't miss that bit out did i? i knew it wasn't concise enough i'll get back to it later, i'll be able to explain it properly :lol: :lol: gawd, i said i'd stop doing stuff like that two years ago..it was a new year's resolution..i never did that diet either ah well 2007 here we come :lol: 
Sex God
OOh an frontal Shot of the delectable Mrs D !!!!
She has a great figure !!
She has a great figure !!
Quote by Silk and Big G
OOh an frontal Shot of the delectable Mrs D !!!!
She has a great figure !!
ahh, thanks guys..
i've been busy editing posts someone off the website has kindly offered to do some pro pics of me and mrs dirty...so, when she finally gets her new wardrobe of kinky gear together..look out for the updates :twisted: 