Confused - New - And Nervous

Quote by EsykevLowestoft
Although we have never actually tried the dogging type fun it has always been a curiosity. So we have read the posts, checked the local maps & tried our luck. Usually we sit there, have a ciggy and play games on the mobile for an hour, then get back home to watch telly.
The idea of just wandering up to a car and looking through the window to see what's going on seems most bizare, not to mention an exceedingly good way to get the sh*t kicked out of yourself by an irate motorist.
We have tried to go to arranged meets, seems a bit more secure to us? Last night we went to a local "doggers site" that was supposed to be a venue for some fun. We had a discription of the vehicle the couple we hoped to meet would be in so we had at least one point of contact. I guess we must have missed them somehow because they were no where to be seen. But there was 3 other cars in the same area. Excited, hoping & very willing we waited. But who makes the first move? How do you know the other vehicles contain willing players and not just the local dope heads puffing their crap?
So we played games on the mobile, synchrinised the van clock & the mobiles, had a ciggy and went home.
It seems the fun is in the meeting strangers in a place to be watched or have them join in, but surely it would be better to have prearranged times and places?
Oh well off to do the Sunday housework for her and decorating for him, with thoughts for us both on how to make a fantasy come true..........
Help anyone??

Quote by EsykevLowestoft
So sorry for breaching site rules by bringing to the fore any members who may let others down. I take what your saying with great comfort knowing the site is carefully looked after by a diligent crew. Oh and by the way, i can see why you won the 2005 competition and should you try for the title of arse of the year 2006 you have my vote