Just wanted to say very nice thread so far.
I have enjoyed doggin for a few of years now. There are still lots of things I haven't seen or done, but would vey much like to.
I think there is a need to tempt the shy and curious away from there cars and into the world of dogging. It does take a while to grow in confidence and approach or attract people, but it really is worth it.
"Once you start you can never stop"
Just keep turning up and practice the ancient art of dogging. You will be rewarded.
Good luck to all
:P
mal609 wrote "i don't analyse,i just do it",which is a fair point,in truth,we leave this shit at home too................however,its a point i keep coming back to on the forum,as,the power issue,once recognised,can often be seen as a large factor in dogging disasters!!!........we musn't get the word out of its context,as used a basic human desire,but is need for satisfaction has made otherwise rational people do some pretty irrational things........in this context,it can be as innocent as the imagined admiration a boy-racer feels when he races his souped up wild fuck pig down the not the reality we are concearned with here,its the perception that is important..........freud is a good read,a breif history of time,a fine book,personally,i haven't been able to get beyond the the first paragraphs of either!.............what is real to us,here,is the recognition of this desire in both partners of a dogging couple.......at the time of writing,there are several threads on the forum,which,quite simply can be brought back to this examine the individual branches,but the problem is in the root.(thats mine,not freud's or carl jueng's,however you spell it,they were just perverts).
beep beep,that illustrates my point,you are taking it to the feminine sense of ego..when a guy jumps out of the car,ranting that the doggers are too pushy,when he wheelspins out of a carpark because the doggers were on the car too quickly or he loses it because a dogger assumes he can touch without permission,its not the girl's ego he is concearned with!!
i love the exhibitionism and the voyeurism!!
i do seem to think that people think that a couple is a single entity. It is not, the couple is made up of two individuals each with their own Id's. Do the guys in a couple on this forum go dogging thinking of what they would like or do they talk to the other half about what they want as well? i think judging by some posts (like the one about the guy who turned his back on a dogger and then found him groping his wife up which she was enjoying) that the majority dont, which is a shame as in sex the "power" or control does lay with the women.
but that is a perfect example of the male ego!
Out of interest, how many of the couples photo ads on here are placed by the male half with little or no input by the female. Is it the male ego saying i suppose if i have mine she can have hers, its makes you wonder how many seriously open couples there are. Dirty as the female half what is your opinion on the validity of the couple ads? are they really from a couple or just the male Id?
i feel the real issue with the guy that had his missus groped,lay in the fact that the game started before the ref blew the whistle,undermining his perception of you are in a carpark,and a copper asks you to move,for no good reason,its best to move,he's hardly going to walk away saying "fair enough"if you press the point that you aint doing nothing wrong.......we dont need to quote the academics,we only have to go dogging and read the forum to see that the male ego is a fragile thing,most of the recurring issues regarding etiquette reflect aspects of only have to look at it to see it exists...................mrs dirty wont join this debate,she reckons its shit,but wants you to know,"the master" took the picture,she liked the knickers in it,i chose the shot,the one she liked by the lorry was too dark cause the number plate made it go all funny..she just added she has the power...................i replied,yes,she does,but if the blokes are pushy,they dont get a show,so i have more than them,not as much as her,and she dont drive,so that shags her theory!
ooops,just seen serendipitys bit,wasn't there a minute ago!hi babes.....yeah,in the main,i think the regulars here have good communication.i've always said to mrs d,when we come home feeling less horny than we when we went out,we should months later,and its better than ever,met some great people and some good laughs along the way..sometimes the posts get a bit deep,we see the issues we debate every night we go out,we speak from our experience of these things,which is ironic really,as most of the guys at our venue moan that we clown around too much and dont take it seriously enough!
Well i think they serendipity is right, see you all tomorrow!!!
BBx
Umm, really dont know what to add to this excellent topic (sorry been away for a week and lots of catching up to do). Personally as the female side of a dogging couple I really do enjoy the Power aspect (and I have fully detailed this previously) but I am also attracted by the something may happen, something may not happen aspect. Its the thrill of the unknown. Will there be someone to watch me?
I am a fairly quite, shy person (by day) who hates being the centre of attention, but when I am out dogging, I feel liberated, I feel beautifull, I feel like I am the most important person in the world (or at least in that particular car park). The lumps and bumps have vanished, I am sexy and a stranger is stood at my car window lusting over me! And Yes, I have the Power to decide what does or does not happen. I must also stress that I am not a person who craves power, or who likes being on display, the dogging 'me' is my alter ego who just gets let out every so often.
As for Mr NWC, he says its the thrill and exitment of watching someone lust over me. The unkown, will it or wont it happen, and of course, the randy mood I am in afterwards! He says he feels like a 'peeping tom' who's been given permission to spy on something naughty happening (and thats only me with my plastic friend). Its like being in a real life Porno Movie!
Well, considering I didn't know what to say, I said a lot! Tonight we just might do some 'Indoor' dogging - got back from Holidays this morning to find out the central heating had packed in, so it is 'Car Park' temperature in here at the moment!
hello naughty,we had noticed your absence of late....i think you speak for all the girls,its wonderfull that you can experience this,then feel the afterglow during your daily routine......its wonderfull too,that the guys get the oppertunity to watch you play,nothing matches the thrill of seeing a lady genuinely feeling good about herself,throwing her inhibitions to the wind!......when i escort mrs d on our excursions,i too feel good,important,maybe like presenting a big cheque,on behalf of a small company,to a deserving charity!.......and when its gone,its gone,until the next time!.....everybody wins.
Thanks Serendipity and DirtyDoggers, I think that this is the only place (apart from with Mr NWC) where I can truly be myself. At work I am quiet even though my job does involve giving presentations to people, sometimes to a room of over 100 people, but that is not the real me, it is a facade which I put on when I get to the office and take off when I leave. My neighbours and friends would probably be very shocked if they knew half of what I got up to, even though a close work colleague now knows and a neighbour who we are friendly with, also knows about this.
When I am dogging, I am in control, and its nice, in fact it is more than nice, its fantastic. I am not interested in the swinging side of things but really enjoy the exhibitionist side.
One other thing this has helped with is my own body image. Ok I am not grossly overwieght but I am what you would call a larger lady (size 16, with built in waterwings to stop me from drowning or falling on my nose). I used to be embarrased about my size and would be carefull in what I wore in public. Now I couldn't care less what people think. If others dont like what I am wearing then they dont need to look. They have the problem not me! Ok, so I am larger than some girls and not everyone likes that, but it does not mean I am any better or any worse just cause there is a little more to get hold of!
So YES dogging is the best thing that has ever happened to me, both for the fantastic boost to the sex life Mr NWC and myself have, but also for the unexpected boost this has done to my confidence!
Oh yes and the heating guy has done his job and i can now feel my fingers, nose and toes again!
mmmm,wish i was a bird!mrs dirty is introvert too,at night,she emerges,like a butterfly with silken wings,then,having danced in the moonlight,takes the dream to bed,where i get to shag the arse off her....its lovely though,that a plain jane can be a princess too.......i remember the first show i saw,a lady doing her thing,but on a picnic 't see much,so i crept around the trees,it was my first time,so was very nervouse,and wondered if the gathered guys may take exception to my presence if i were at a distance,i watched the show in moonlight,occasionally supplemented by a torch,it just seemed so surreal.i could smell her perfume,and hear her soft moans,i couldn't help but move closer,then i was spotted,shit,the beam from the torch shone in my face,"would you like to play,young man"?,fuck,i was out of there,it was like that scene in et,where he fled through the long grass,jeeez,i wasn't ready for that,i lay awake all night,thinking about what i'd seen,just a magical i think,if we can give that feeling to someone,then thats power,no,ermm stuff,well you know what i mean!
Hi guys. Checking out this excellent topic. Being a couple new to the scene we find the idea of being watched unbelievable and our orgasms are finished in the car. We find that when we get back we are tired and enjoy lieing together as it was probably an exhaustive 2 hour show. We would like to involve others and infact we have only ever seen one couple at the site we use and they enjoyed watching and so we gave a show. Neve seen single women only single men. We have allowed single men to touch my partners tits and that tends to be good enough for all concerned. We would like to take it further but we are worried about the guys being dirty and how do we know who they are. I dont know if this means we should post before or go for the thrill on the night and just see who turns up. My partner is definately in control as we will only go as far as she wants to and I am happy with that but from my point of view the orgasm after being watched is immense. It is best when we finish by getting out of the car and I have her over the bonnet and a car drives by. An unbelievable buzz. Unfortunately no one gets out of the car. Hope I am allowed to join this chat.
S&N
Having just read all the comments here I thought it very interesting that whatever reason people started dogging in the first place you all have the same motive for doing it either exhibitionist or voyeurism
I am a voyeur first and formost so the attraction is more obvious but given the oportunity I will join in but not always, which brings up another point are any of you ladies offended if a guy turns you down. It's not that I don't find them attractive but with certain women /couples I realy do prefer to watch its much more of a turn on.......
After tonight , we'd have to say that what appeals to us the most about dogging is the quiet and isolation . Time to think and contemplate etc.................
wow fenlicks,what have you done? i just got mrs dirty round to thinking a 10 minute performance was normal,then you come up with two bloody hours!! i told her all that porn film stuff was just special effects!!.......dont get the power thing confused guys,its gotten a tad outa context,you say your girl has control,well thats how it should be,never under question,by choice,she allocates some to you,which is yours to use if the situation arises,but you will know that anyway,its part of the sharing,its important,it seperates us from the guy in thedukereids anecdote,he too had power,the dukereid went with it,but its out of our realm of interest here..........dirty doggers,no,not us,lets say unhygenic doggers,god,there are plenty of those,we call the offensive organ,"satan's sausage",i'd like to say,suck it and see,but best not to!
POWER POWER POWER!
the body is a temple is the view of many people, getting back to the Ego, being watched increases the ego and therefore the individual is more prepared to push the lines of their own norms and values.
BTW when i go out i always take a wet wipe it ensure that i clean, as you cant sit in a car for a couple of hours without needing to pee! Go prepared for the best show and enjoy is my motto
well naughty,that reminds me of an encounter we had,a few months had a meet with another couple,"the master" and another single gotton all the introductions over with,we decided on a more discreet location,so,in a four car convoy, to us,the single guy had peeled off,having noticed a following police car,which,then took up position at the rear,and followed us to our new location..............problem was,the girls had got stripped off en-route,and "the master" had been spanking his monkey to ensure maximum "up time"!...........we parked up,the master emerging from his vehicle,trousers around his ankles,tackle flapping around like a sherman tank cannon.....then the girls,giggling,tits everywhere!.............."good evening sir"says one copper to the master,"do you know these people"?,fuck,i had to laugh,well i nearly pissed myself!! no good trying to say we were a moonlight chess league was it?."alright to continue then constable"? i asked,as he left,"do as you like sir,not really my concearn,have fun" made his night,and ours.
...ungrateful, lucky gits!! 