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couple - Dogging in Brentwood Essex.....advice please

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Hi all,
It is Minx's birthday on Thursday and I am trying to plan something special for her....
It is Minx's fantasy to go dogging and be watched and wanked over...but more so to watch and be watched by another couple!
We have neevr done this before and although we have heard there is a site in Brentwood, we dont know where exactly it is so I was hoping one of you local couples or seasoned doggers could help us out?
I have so many questions but dont want to annoy anybody so I will only ask a few I promise...
things like, what if Minx only wants to be watched, what signals do we give? If she wants someone to join in? How do we make sure we are in a safe area and dont get held up at gunpoint or something and is there a hotspot to avoid because of the police?
So many questions and more...hope someone can help. feel free to PM us
PS...any couples free on Thursday night?? lol :lol: :lol:
thanks in advance
BigDanny
HI there,
Glad you are thinking of taking the plunge so to speak! We do hope you have some lovely fun and we have sent you a PM
H and H xXx
I dont know what the policy on here is about referring couples to couples but I guess if you searched the adverts for couples looking for couples with the word wank and essex in it you might just come across one from the next county who are looking for something similar.
Doubt if they can make it for Thursday at short notice and neither can I as I am off on Holiday ( but would have loved to watched all 4 of you ).
They refer to a site mentioned here on SH which I took them to awhile ago and it looks like they sneaked back without me - so I shouldnt really be doing them any favours lol :lol: .
However, the normal rules apply there that No means No or just holding your hand up to tell them to keep their distance usually works fine. If not, just stop pack up and move elsewhere then usually the guys sort each other out. What is more difficult is getting just one to join - the simple beckoning of a finger can be interpreted as an open free for all but then you just have to be firm and state what you want. I guess it can be frightening at first as you dont know what control and power you have but as you gain confidence you will soon realise you have us guys eating out of your hands so to speak.
As for the Police and other wasters well this sight is well out of the way so it is unlikely you will be bothered - only during the day by little boys looking to see when they are on their holidays.
Hope this helps.