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do any couples stiill go doggin or have the idiots won?

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or have the idiots drove everyone away?
I went to a well known doggin spot near west brom last week and the amount of single guys with lights on full beam scared me so wot the fuck it does to couples is beyond me. It seems that genuine respectfull doggin blokes such as meself are being tarred with the same brush as the idiots who i have seen takin pics, tryin car doors when cples are showin and bein downright arseholes
Man it pisses me off cos it spoils it for everyone including the couples who use the sites and themselves
Thoughts on a postcard please
Who cares ?
Who dares, wins !
If you don't try their door you'll never know if you can get a handfull.....and if they go........well, that's another pair of prickteasers well away. More will wander-in later....and maybe they'll be players instead of just fanny teasers.
the game is now full, no room in't c'park...
Quote by lickmidick2002
or have the idiots drove everyone away?
I went to a well known doggin spot near west brom last week and the amount of single guys with lights on full beam scared me so wot the fuck it does to couples is beyond me. It seems that genuine respectfull doggin blokes such as meself are being tarred with the same brush as the idiots who i have seen takin pics, tryin car doors when cples are showin and bein downright arseholes
Man it pisses me off cos it spoils it for everyone including the couples who use the sites and themselves
Thoughts on a postcard please
well you`ve certainly got that one right , its just the same up our end of the woods young idiots flying about mad and and even bigger idiot single guys :x :x .
but it would be unfair to tar everyone with the same brush we certainly dont (we are a couple by the way ) lol .
its the same everywhere we think and we have tried loads of places around the north of england at the end of the day its the gobshites that loose out because all we do is bugger off elsewhere or find a proper respectful dogger and arrange a meet somewhere away from the idiots easy wink ,
we have often wondered what they hope to achieve by this kind of behaviour do they think the lady is going to be overwhelmed by their macho act and dive out of the car naked ready to take on all cummers :cry: nah :x they get me mr angry !!!!!!!!! and they get told to fuck off and learn some manners :x :x .
not very nice i know but sometime its the only effective method left open to you :wink: .
on the whole we think the decent guys far outweigh the knobheads so it does`nt bother us really they are just a minor irritation, but we have spoke to other couple who are frightened to death by it and vow never to go dogging again, sad really :cry: .
finally before i end we have also found up here that these idiots a usually found in packs at just a couple of locations why we dont know confused so we just go elsewhere and dont bother with those sites at all so who`s the loser :wink: :wink: ................. it aint us :lol: :lol:
Quote by jomu
Who cares ?
Who dares, wins !
If you don't try their door you'll never know if you can get a handfull.....and if they go........well, that's another pair of prickteasers well away. More will wander-in later....and maybe they'll be players instead of just fanny teasers.
the game is now full, no room in't c'park...

So you have no respect for anyone at all then jomu? Maybe thats why all the places I've tried have been dead because of attitudes like that.
Sorry, for an activity that but for the involvement of couples would be renamed 'car sitting' it would seem stupid, not to mention downright rude, to offend all the couples who do participate so much that they stop doing it.
If you're that desperate to 'get a handfull' then may I suggest frequenting a suitable establishment such as ones listed in the 'personal services' section of your local paper.
Quote by IT10
Who cares ?
Who dares, wins !
If you don't try their door you'll never know if you can get a handfull.....and if they go........well, that's another pair of prickteasers well away. More will wander-in later....and maybe they'll be players instead of just fanny teasers.
the game is now full, no room in't c'park...

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
So you have no respect for anyone at all then jomu? Maybe thats why all the places I've tried have been dead because of attitudes like that.
Sorry, for an activity that but for the involvement of couples would be renamed 'car sitting' it would seem stupid, not to mention downright rude, to offend all the couples who do participate so much that they stop doing it.
If you're that desperate to 'get a handfull' then may I suggest frequenting a suitable establishment such as ones listed in the 'personal services' section of your local paper.i think you`ll find he`s taking the piss wink
Quote by rick and jools
Who cares ?
Who dares, wins !
If you don't try their door you'll never know if you can get a handfull.....and if they go........well, that's another pair of prickteasers well away. More will wander-in later....and maybe they'll be players instead of just fanny teasers.
the game is now full, no room in't c'park...

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
So you have no respect for anyone at all then jomu? Maybe thats why all the places I've tried have been dead because of attitudes like that.
Sorry, for an activity that but for the involvement of couples would be renamed 'car sitting' it would seem stupid, not to mention downright rude, to offend all the couples who do participate so much that they stop doing it.
If you're that desperate to 'get a handfull' then may I suggest frequenting a suitable establishment such as ones listed in the 'personal services' section of your local paper.i think you`ll find he`s taking the piss wink
If thats the case I apologise for taking it the wrong way, but a usually a smiley or something indicates someones taking the piss in all the other forums I go into!
Either way, the sentiment behind what I said is still true, the desperate few should learn some respect and not ruin or for the rest.
Look.
You're missing THEIR point.
Believe me, I've had words with many of these guys and been threatened by the majority of them.
Their attitude is: FUCK YOU.
Their behaviour is, in the main, deliberate.
What happens when they start their driving and skiving ?
People leave.
Who remains ?
They do.
Job done.
There are more of them but its really how its always been . Its not alot different to swinging clubs really . They open , they have great couples nights , then they let more and more and more of the wrong guys in and eventually the couples leave . the carparks are the same . Truth is real doggers dont like the big well known sites either and its the carpark you go to where there are maybe theree or four regular cars parked that are always best . The assholes will , just as Jomu says, end up stood alone in carparks moaning at each other - just as they always have . Its all about exchanging information , thats what keeps it alive , but you have to exchange it carefully . Choose people who you think are worth the information . You wouldnt post on the internet that you were taking three grand outta the bank in the high street on wednesday at 3pm , so why post and tell them where you will be shagging your girl ? It has to be said , although I dont preach about the rights and wrongs or rules of dogging - part of the trouble is the high amount of arranged meetings that now happen . It isnt dogging at all , its just outside sex - and thats fine if its what you like good on ya. However it has completely changed the expectation of men approaching the scene and led them to believe that it a really easy shag . Truth is what kept the numbers down in the past was simply the incredible effort it took to actually find a couple - not only that but dogger would have TOLD new blokes that how it was and so they wouldnt stay long if they were impatient easy shag seekers .
Those of us who still do it the old fashioned way , simply move on , and if we find an empty carpark we try another and another or we just go home or up the pub .
I guess i am fairly new to all this. Only been been around for a few months. But i have learnt that communication goes a long way. Even though we tend to meet the same couples, not that, thats a bad thing smile But the circle grows biggrin We all know there are a lot of undesireables out there. What i have found is that once you are known then there is a sort of bond that you get with doggers for want of a better way of putting it lol and it becomes a sort of commumity that look out for each other. Especialy with all the chavs about! which i why i guess an arranged meeting has its advantages. At leats the muppets are scared off! they are out numbered lol
hope that makes some sort of sense lol it is saturday night :) my one night in on the beer :D
I dare say jomu will tell me if its a load of bollocks lol
Quote by lickmidick2002
or have the idiots drove everyone away?
I went to a well known doggin spot near west brom last week and the amount of single guys with lights on full beam scared me so wot the fuck it does to couples is beyond me. It seems that genuine respectfull doggin blokes such as meself are being tarred with the same brush as the idiots who i have seen takin pics, tryin car doors when cples are showin and bein downright arseholes
Man it pisses me off cos it spoils it for everyone including the couples who use the sites and themselves
Thoughts on a postcard please

Never let the idiots win!!!!! or apathy rules!!!
Thats the spirit !! biggrin idiots are everywhere in every walk of life , theyre just easier to spot in a darkened carpark .
By the way in future if anyone wants to know how to tell when Jomu is being sarcastic the best way to tell is if he has typed anything .
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Thats the spirit !! biggrin idiots are everywhere in every walk of life , theyre just easier to spot in a darkened carpark .
By the way in future if anyone wants to know how to tell when Jomu is being sarcastic the best way to tell is if he has typed anything .

:laughabove:
What can i say lol
Quote by Silk and Big G
There are more of them but its really how its always been . Its not alot different to swinging clubs really . They open , they have great couples nights , then they let more and more and more of the wrong guys in and eventually the couples leave . the carparks are the same . Truth is real doggers dont like the big well known sites either and its the carpark you go to where there are maybe theree or four regular cars parked that are always best . The assholes will , just as Jomu says, end up stood alone in carparks moaning at each other - just as they always have . Its all about exchanging information , thats what keeps it alive , but you have to exchange it carefully . Choose people who you think are worth the information . You wouldnt post on the internet that you were taking three grand outta the bank in the high street on wednesday at 3pm , so why post and tell them where you will be shagging your girl ? It has to be said , although I dont preach about the rights and wrongs or rules of dogging - part of the trouble is the high amount of arranged meetings that now happen . It isnt dogging at all , its just outside sex - and thats fine if its what you like good on ya. However it has completely changed the expectation of men approaching the scene and led them to believe that it a really easy shag . Truth is what kept the numbers down in the past was simply the incredible effort it took to actually find a couple - not only that but dogger would have TOLD new blokes that how it was and so they wouldnt stay long if they were impatient easy shag seekers .
Those of us who still do it the old fashioned way , simply move on , and if we find an empty carpark we try another and another or we just go home or up the pub .

Some one mention Banks?? Which ones???????
Clint
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not only that but dogger would have TOLD new blokes that how it was and so they wouldnt stay long if they were impatient easy shag seekers .

Yes Mr G, but new "doggers" don't believe what they're told. Especially if it's "ain't been a couple in here for weeks mate".................they then ask "what the fu*k are you still here for then"
When you reply "I've been in here for quite a while, like years, and had some really good times", they usually reply "sad cunt"......(with some justification).........and then drive to another carpark....and another...and another...etc..
AND, Mr G, we're not all built like brick-shithouses. So the fairly frequent use of threats that is found now tends to be irritating....but then...
I spent a useless night last night...at a good spot (!) and the only thing to come out of it was a loose arrangement for a christmas drink-and-meal....(just down the road from another site so it'll be FROM the pub and TO the site for a spot of whatever...
well what can i say,, seems i am not the only one pissed off at the momoent.....
well jomu at least you got christmas sorted lol
have to agree with jesster too
the only way i think is to find new spots and start again
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not only that but dogger would have TOLD new blokes that how it was and so they wouldnt stay long if they were impatient easy shag seekers .

Yes Mr G, but new "doggers" don't believe what they're told. Especially if it's "ain't been a couple in here for weeks mate".................they then ask "what the fu*k are you still here for then"
When you reply "I've been in here for quite a while, like years, and had some really good times", they usually reply "sad cunt"......(with some justification).........and then drive to another carpark....and another...and another...etc..
AND, Mr G, we're not all built like brick-shithouses. So the fairly frequent use of threats that is found now tends to be irritating....but then...
I spent a useless night last night...at a good spot (!) and the only thing to come out of it was a loose arrangement for a christmas drink-and-meal....(just down the road from another site so it'll be FROM the pub and TO the site for a spot of whatever...
I wasnt havin a go J , I dont think for a moment that the assholes you refer to will believe you . What we do know though is that they expect three couples to turn up within the hour and gang bang the whole carpark and then drive off with Stan Collymore and Phil Mitchell . The abusive cunts lose patience real easy and slope off to their porn collection and to beat their wives . I merely meant that in the past the people who turned up had ALREADY made some effort to discover the game at all , and having done that they would have almost always have been outnumbered by more experinced chaps like yerself . There was way more chance that someone like you would have explained it all to them , and then they would either say kewl I ll hang about and wait , or they would slope off dissapointed . The nature of that has changed by the pure volume of new wankers involved I grant you .
The trouble now is that the new wankers are just that....I was rudely woken-up the other night (quiet layby...again) by some total dollop standing outside wanking....(this ain't unusual....most places being "shared occupancy")....so I wound the window down and told the guy I wasn't really interested....he said he thought there was a couple inside...some guys just aren't worth telling...