or have the idiots drove everyone away?
I went to a well known doggin spot near west brom last week and the amount of single guys with lights on full beam scared me so wot the fuck it does to couples is beyond me. It seems that genuine respectfull doggin blokes such as meself are being tarred with the same brush as the idiots who i have seen takin pics, tryin car doors when cples are showin and bein downright arseholes
Man it pisses me off cos it spoils it for everyone including the couples who use the sites and themselves
Thoughts on a postcard please
Who cares ?
Who dares, wins !
If you don't try their door you'll never know if you can get a handfull.....and if they go........well, that's another pair of prickteasers well away. More will wander-in later....and maybe they'll be players instead of just fanny teasers.
the game is now full, no room in't c'park...
Look.
You're missing THEIR point.
Believe me, I've had words with many of these guys and been threatened by the majority of them.
Their attitude is: FUCK YOU.
Their behaviour is, in the main, deliberate.
What happens when they start their driving and skiving ?
People leave.
Who remains ?
They do.
Job done.
There are more of them but its really how its always been . Its not alot different to swinging clubs really . They open , they have great couples nights , then they let more and more and more of the wrong guys in and eventually the couples leave . the carparks are the same . Truth is real doggers dont like the big well known sites either and its the carpark you go to where there are maybe theree or four regular cars parked that are always best . The assholes will , just as Jomu says, end up stood alone in carparks moaning at each other - just as they always have . Its all about exchanging information , thats what keeps it alive , but you have to exchange it carefully . Choose people who you think are worth the information . You wouldnt post on the internet that you were taking three grand outta the bank in the high street on wednesday at 3pm , so why post and tell them where you will be shagging your girl ? It has to be said , although I dont preach about the rights and wrongs or rules of dogging - part of the trouble is the high amount of arranged meetings that now happen . It isnt dogging at all , its just outside sex - and thats fine if its what you like good on ya. However it has completely changed the expectation of men approaching the scene and led them to believe that it a really easy shag . Truth is what kept the numbers down in the past was simply the incredible effort it took to actually find a couple - not only that but dogger would have TOLD new blokes that how it was and so they wouldnt stay long if they were impatient easy shag seekers .
Those of us who still do it the old fashioned way , simply move on , and if we find an empty carpark we try another and another or we just go home or up the pub .
well what can i say,, seems i am not the only one pissed off at the momoent.....
well jomu at least you got christmas sorted lol
have to agree with jesster too
the only way i think is to find new spots and start again
The trouble now is that the new wankers are just that....I was rudely woken-up the other night (quiet layby...again) by some total dollop standing outside wanking....(this ain't unusual....most places being "shared occupancy")....so I wound the window down and told the guy I wasn't really interested....he said he thought there was a couple inside...some guys just aren't worth telling...