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Does anyone ever reply to single guys???
For those who "ad" for a partner, or just to watch, you should read the excellent advice given for single guys in the INFORMATION menu, subheader ADVICE, on the left screen.
As has been said here before, you aren't alone.
You either stand-out, or you blend-in.
Blending in isn't too useful.
Look at it from my viewpoint, why I never ad, I'm OLD, UGLY, BROKE and PARANOID.
I realised at an early age I would never stand out, about the time my folks forgot to pick me up at the hospital after I'd been born.
It never really improved.
If you don't want to suffer the same, sad, fate....read the advice (yes, YOU DO need to)
Just 'cause you're old is no reason to go all blue in de head...I've seen ads for older guys from couples (I haven't seen any for ugly guys yet, but you never know)
I've seen stacks of ads for guys with large genitals, and noted from other posts that there are a large amount of liars replying.
Keep on slogging, you'll get something in the end, even if it's only writers cramp.
As has been said here before, you aren't alone.
You either stand-out, or you blend-in.
Blending in isn't too useful.
Look at it from my viewpoint, why I never ad, I'm OLD, UGLY, BROKE and PARANOID.
I realised at an early age I would never stand out, about the time my folks forgot to pick me up at the hospital after I'd been born.
It never really improved.
If you don't want to suffer the same, sad, fate....read the advice (yes, YOU DO need to)
Just 'cause you're old is no reason to go all blue in de head...I've seen ads for older guys from couples (I haven't seen any for ugly guys yet, but you never know)
I've seen stacks of ads for guys with large genitals, and noted from other posts that there are a large amount of liars replying.
Keep on slogging, you'll get something in the end, even if it's only writers cramp.
The point being misssed here is that this is a swingers site....single guys are welcome (so I'm always being told) but it's in the nature of things that they outnumber the single women and couples.
That's life.
It's not a lonely hearts club, although there are plenty of those on the net.
Too many think that "dogging" means getting laid all the time.
If you've got 24/7 to spend doing it, you may get a regular amount of sex....but I know people who have got loads of time, DO go dogging lots, and still don't get regular sex.
It's one of those things, supply exceeds demand.
Which doesn't really worry me (single bloke) because watching is what I prefer.
Of course, you can go-on moaning and eventually, like other sites do, there will exist a policy on single males....like sex clubs, single guys pay through the nose. Most clubs seem to be ending the single guys anyway. Too many.
That's life.
It's not a lonely hearts club, although there are plenty of those on the net.
Too many think that "dogging" means getting laid all the time.
If you've got 24/7 to spend doing it, you may get a regular amount of sex....but I know people who have got loads of time, DO go dogging lots, and still don't get regular sex.
It's one of those things, supply exceeds demand.
Which doesn't really worry me (single bloke) because watching is what I prefer.
Of course, you can go-on moaning and eventually, like other sites do, there will exist a policy on single males....like sex clubs, single guys pay through the nose. Most clubs seem to be ending the single guys anyway. Too many.
yeah thats true I guess. Many guys just think sex, other guys like think other stuff besides sex but see this as a good way to meet people who like sex. either way, I mean if singles aren't welcomed then they shouldn't be on for their own sake, wasting thier time.
I don't think u should ban them but memebrs should be welcoming of them, if they are nice guys of course.
I don't think u should ban them but memebrs should be welcoming of them, if they are nice guys of course.
Mod
I'm single, I get welcomed, but you need to decide what you want from this site. If it's sex and nothing else, the odds are very heavily stacked against you. If you want friendship and cameraderie, this is the Site for you. But you must be prepared to join in. Sex may or may not come as a by-product of the friendship, but the single guy needs to stand up for himself and stop wimpering that they are not getting laid.
You get out of this what you put in.
Mal
You get out of this what you put in.
Mal
Sex God
Single guys ARE welcome on this site. Lots of swinging couples ONLY meet single guys, and believe it or not there are single females on this site that are looking for 121 or group sex with guys - so there would not be much point banning the singles, would there 
. Some couples only meet certain types of single guys or for certain types of activity, lots do not meet guys at all, and as there are lots of single guys around, you do have to put time in to get to know people - that is the down side.
The problem with a lot of single guys who come on this site is that they're simply not swingers. They see swinging advertised in the media and see sites like swinging heaven as an easy and free way to get laid. It ain't like that fellas! Yeah, some people do want anonymous sex with strange men (cooooooooooool :twisted:
), but those people will just go to a car park or a club and get it. If you're reading this you're most probably interacting with people who DO want to get to know you to a certain extent before you get any action, if only for safety reasons.
As someone said already, this is NOT a lonely hearts site, or a dating site, or a site full of escorts. It is a site for swingers. If you are NOT a swinger, don't bother logging on, but if you ARE a swinger, you're welcome whatever your gender.
. Some couples only meet certain types of single guys or for certain types of activity, lots do not meet guys at all, and as there are lots of single guys around, you do have to put time in to get to know people - that is the down side. The problem with a lot of single guys who come on this site is that they're simply not swingers. They see swinging advertised in the media and see sites like swinging heaven as an easy and free way to get laid. It ain't like that fellas! Yeah, some people do want anonymous sex with strange men (cooooooooooool :twisted:
), but those people will just go to a car park or a club and get it. If you're reading this you're most probably interacting with people who DO want to get to know you to a certain extent before you get any action, if only for safety reasons. As someone said already, this is NOT a lonely hearts site, or a dating site, or a site full of escorts. It is a site for swingers. If you are NOT a swinger, don't bother logging on, but if you ARE a swinger, you're welcome whatever your gender.
I`ve jumped in on all kinds of threads here, replying to posts from people without knowing whether they are male, female, single, couple, gay, bi, animal, or mineral!
I tend not to reply to the vegetables! :P
I thought Misschief was a guy! 
No Misschief, you weren`t being butch, you were doing so well at being one of the lads on a particular thread, and I hadn`t read many of your previous posts!
Venusxxx
I tend not to reply to the vegetables! :P
I thought Misschief was a guy!
No Misschief, you weren`t being butch, you were doing so well at being one of the lads on a particular thread, and I hadn`t read many of your previous posts!
Venusxxx
I instantly see that one of the reasons for my question is being answered by the people here.
Nearly all of you have said, 'this is a site for swingers' etc, etc.
I thought that I had posted the question in the dogging section, which surely is not just for swingers, but I would have thought more for people who enjoyed voyeurism. Both sides, watching and being watched.
I enjoy watching, which is my main reason for visiting this site and so I am really not looking for swinging couples looking for a old single male, but more people who enjoy being watched, which is I thought a slightly different thing.
Nearly all of you have said, 'this is a site for swingers' etc, etc.
I thought that I had posted the question in the dogging section, which surely is not just for swingers, but I would have thought more for people who enjoyed voyeurism. Both sides, watching and being watched.
I enjoy watching, which is my main reason for visiting this site and so I am really not looking for swinging couples looking for a old single male, but more people who enjoy being watched, which is I thought a slightly different thing.
Sex God
Yes, it is slightly different.... but as voyeurism is a big part of dogging, and dogging is a big part of swinging, the same sort of rules apply to your case as those I mentioned above. I'm very much into voyeurism myself, and a lot of what I do whilst dogging or at clubs is watching only, but I still consider myself a swinger.
Even if yo're only looking for couples to watch, the ones that most probably want to know a bit about you before they plan to meet you. The ones that don't care who watches are the ones who don't come on here and look for men - they just go out and do it!
Even if yo're only looking for couples to watch, the ones that most probably want to know a bit about you before they plan to meet you. The ones that don't care who watches are the ones who don't come on here and look for men - they just go out and do it!
