Dogging???

15 Oct 2005

I know that all aspects of this post have been covered from time to time and bit by bit in this forum, but I am still confused as to the true meaning of dogging.
Have the press perhaps got it nearly right in their defnition of dogging being out door meetings of strangers who partake in sexual activity for their own pleasure, or is even that a little vague? You read in the forums and Ads on this site in the dogging section people seeking all sorts of meets, who are true doggers? Do such folk exist?
Since we got intoduced to the dogging scene quite by accident biggrin

we have met couples, single guys and even the odd single female (only odd by the fact they went out on their own not odd odd I hasten to add lol).
We never usually arrange a meet we just go to various places and see who is around, if we are comfortable we play, be it exhibitionist, join in fun etc. We don't discriminate over singles, couples etc etc but we know what type of people we are interested in, if not first gear and gone :D.
Over the years we have got know some couples and singles quite well and we chat with them about our common interest i.e. dogging/swinging, in the main they are friends within this circle and not really social friends, are we doggers?? Is this dogging??
When we arrange to meet a couple or a guy be it indoors or out we believe we swop from being doggers to swingers, Ads that ask for a meet with couples only outdoors and NO single guys to us are swinging ads not dogging ads, or do the ads mean no paticipation from single guys but they may watch which then makes it a dogging Addy confused

Just interested in any thoughts/comments.
Clint

15 Oct 2005

I suppose (and am prepared to be shot down by more experienced folk) that the term dogging has now taken on whole new meaning to encompass many different activities. To us, we like to have fun together in our car. We've done this many a time and decided to promote ourselves to having fun in our car in areas where there were others doing the same thing. At such places we hoped to watch other couples and have other coupes or indeed a single, watch us. That to us is dogging. Watching and being watched. Like I said, I'm sure it means something slightly different to everyone.

15 Oct 2005

Crikcey, its all the NW gang responding so far, but we do agree with what you are saying ClintEastwood. To 'us' dogging is going out on the chance that there will be someone there to watch us whether it be singles or couples. It is not about advertising to meet another couple in a car park or someother place, as we feel that is outdoor dogging.
However, so long as people are respectful of each others limitations and know that no means no, I really dont think it matter whether people advertise for couples singles or whatever. We just have to realise that everyone has their own preferences and enjoy doing this in different ways. I am also not saying that we havent advertised, and we may at some point in the future advertise again, but 'our prefered way' of dogging is doin it on the off chance there wil be someone there. Its not necesarily the right way, or the wrong way, its just our way.
Dogging has evolved, mainly due to publicity it has been given but also because of things like the internet which makes it easier for people to arrange meets. I supose for people who want certain things from their doggers, this makes life easier, for example if they want someone to participate, they can specify the type of person or persons they want. But as we mainly are a showing couple, it really dont matter what the person looks like, their age etc, as we only want them to watch. If we were asking people to join in, whether it be full sex or just some fondling, then I think it would possibly be easier to specifiy via an ad, the type of people we were looking for.
There are loads of car parks out there and I think they are big enough for all of us to enjoy dogging in our own little way, we just have to remember to show each other a little bit of common curtousey and let each one do it their own way. Be a boring world if we all did everything the same lol

But, to get to the point, yes we agree that pre-arranged meets are more like outdoor swinging :lol:

15 Oct 2005

We want to try somewhere different to our usual spots tonite as they're getting a little too crowded any Nort West folks have any good suggestions? Through PM of course. A decent restaurant close by would be nice too. lol.