From what I've seen, dogging is predominantly for the older generation, (late 30's 40's), but I'm wondering exactly what ages are out there or are "acceptable" to couples and singles alike.
I can't convince my significant other to jump in a car to be watched by strangers (let alone participate) though that doesn't mean I've not found a few discreet locations.
If you're a couple in Norwich who want a location we've used a couple of times without incident give me a PM :!:
I don't think it really matters what age you are - if you want to do it then get out there and do it!
I get the feeling that most people are turned on by a couple enjoying themselves and not that worried about what age they are.
I was really worried/nervous cos I'm not exactly a "small" girl, and we did bottle it and come home the first time we tried.
But we went again, and had some fun and lots of laughs - moving around in a 3 door car can be highy amusing!. Probably felt more relaxed because there didn't appear to be anyone else there, but now the first time is over, we're up for more and hoping for someone to be about next time.
Get your girl out there for some more fun without an audience - maybe when she feels more comfy with that she might want more . . .
hmm, lets see... vogue? Nah, don't think they'd be interested.
The main reason I ask is because I've tried to join several groups etc with a fully filled in profile. I got turned down for pretty much all of them!
I then changed the pic from my face to an older guy from a porn site, and upped the age to 29. Suddenly not one failure.
Obviously age is a sign of maturity (believe me, if I spent any time in Burbury & white trainers I'd understand - but I don't) I'm just looking to fufil my particular fetishes.
*sigh* meanwhile, if there's any essex girls out there who like watersports or WAM, I'm hanging on your every PM :- )
rofl! lol - I didn't stay in the groups - after all, what's the point of being accepted if you can't actually attend.
I'm 22!
Hmmmm.............. 22 is a bit younger than most swingers/doggers, but there are plenty of members under 25 on this forum..... I'm sure they'll be along shortly to tell you so!
I think as long as you're polite etc etc etc, people will accept you on the scene, whatever age you are. In fact, lots of epople are hoping to meet younger swingers!
True - unfortunately so!
Most guys I know would generally be "oh yeah that would be fantastic" in the pub, but in reality they just don't know how to have a good time. Oddly most my friends are 28+, only recently one of them (when recieving a bday invitation he was 32) found out I was 22, he was completely flabbagasted. Age doesn't mean a thing.
Intimate sex only really happens in deep relationships - something I'm familiar with (4yrs and counting). Swinging is different, but hey, I've probably got another 70 years in me yet - I'm in no rush.
I just don't want to live with any regrets. I want to try everything to my taste (not sure I'd do scat/bondage) so I can feel satisfied. At the moment, I feel far more herded than living my own life.
The age range in the poll would suggest that people stop when they reach 50 and start again when they are 55.
Lets see, there are loads of guys I know of....most are over 30.
there is one still going at 80....watching, that is.
The average would be about 40.
Women ?
About the same.
There ain't many doggers under 20 because they stand out a mile, and in any case, most couples are old enough to feel uneasy with kids....I don't know why !