Tips I thought would help If your out alone.
no jewelry particulally neclace's
big spanner where you can reach it. I've always had this though.
Dont get out for half an hour or so till you've got the feel of the place even if you've been there before. your eyes need to adjust.
Go different routes home. drive about a bit before you go home.
If you are being followed dont hesitate to drive into any drive that looks lively IE lights on telly... and knock on their door. if the owner comes out simpley tell them your being followed they will understand.
Dont allow yourself to be blocked in. always reverse into your chosen spot so you can drive off quickly. not just murderers here police also.
DO NOT PANIC in any situation. Think about what could happen and how you would get out of it before you do anything.
If you have to ram somebody out of the way they WILL PANIC if you DONT you will have the advantage. Let them leave-thats what you want to do when panicking.
Think about this every day-/worst case senarios/-make yourself as scared as you can to desensitise the panic button then you will be in control.
REMEMBER They dont want to be found out so 99.9% just WON'T make trouble for themselves and we're Doggers not rapeists/murderers, theres no none sites for that anyway.
AFTER GIVING THIS SERIOUS THOUGHT IF ANY OF THE ABOVE STILL SCARES YOU AT ALL,DONT GO.
Hi Hayley, how about some tips for males looking to try dogging?! I am going to give it a go for the first time tonight, and am probably just as nervous as anyone!!
p.s. am still getting the hang of this site, sent you a pm earlier, did you get that?
Some good advice Hayley - though I'm yet to meet a single girl/woman out dogging alone! :- )
TO ALL OTHER DOGGERS.
Be patiente (yes that old chestnut)
Be kind
If you see ANYONE in trouble HELP THEM. because if I see you in trouble I'm gonna help you.
If you come across a female Dogger let her know by your actions that she is in control so she feels safe.
Everyone i've met so far did this for me and it works. Thanks peeps.
When she goes let her go first then go the opposite way, park up if necasary for ten mins.
If she wants to leave at anytime and I mean anytime LET HER, She is more likely to become a regular that way.
Single guys this advice is of more benefit to you in the, albeit very long run than you realise. To move a mountain you start whith the first pebble. You could help change something here.
Hayley
Well said. I wholeheartdly agree with you.
A big round of applause to you!!
Love
Chappylad
I know bugger all about dogging but trying to learn the ropes quick, what Hayley says makes perfect sence to me.
Have fun and be careful
Andy XX
bravo haley - pumapaul north west geniune dogger
i think you advise is good for single males aswell as females hayley. well done
well said, i am lucky i have a close friend who i text to tel her where i am, she does nothing with the text and delets it once she has had the 2nd text to say i am on my way home and safe.
works for me - and ladies (and gents) dont assume daytime is safer than night - take care in the daytime just as much.
Sensible tips for a single gal, but having seen some of the frenzied activity when a couple turn up at the more "popular" venues, it wouldn't be a bad idea for the couples to take note!
GC123