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Sooooo................ it's been about 3 1/2 months since we were last out to play in the BEDS area of the world. We're still regularly PM'd about our next outing after the success of the last one. So why haven't we gone? We had a great time.... I'm told those invited had a great time too.... redface surprisedops: :oops: . My dilemma..... I'm now 8 months pregnant but still as outrageously horny as I was when we last went out. confused The problem is last time it wasn't obvious to the world but now.... well there's no disguising the bump or suddenly massive tits I have sprouted (some things are great!!!) biggrin :D
Sadly I feel a bit unsure as to how much of a turn on it would be to watch a preg-girlie getting taken care of. I mean I'm still the same girl and I still wanna be watched and who knows even a repeat of the last events :twisted: though penetrative is definately out of bounds for a cpl months. As with all women have come the cravings and there are a cpl of things I am still very tempted by. The OH finds me horny and we talk all the time about going out to play. Especially with the weather perking up. There's nothing like the great outdoors for some serious fun.... but what kind of reaction would I get??????? Apart from the bump and extra fun up top cool I haven't changed much from my pics but is it a problem for people..... ??? rolleyes :roll:
Advice required on this one please wise ones?????
Quote by Elli
Sooooo................ it's been about 3 1/2 months since we were last out to play in the BEDS area of the world. We're still regularly PM'd about our next outing after the success of the last one. So why haven't we gone? We had a great time.... I'm told those invited had a great time too.... redface surprisedops: :oops: . My dilemma..... I'm now 8 months pregnant but still as outrageously horny as I was when we last went out. confused The problem is last time it wasn't obvious to the world but now.... well there's no disguising the bump or suddenly massive tits I have sprouted (some things are great!!!) biggrin :D
Sadly I feel a bit unsure as to how much of a turn on it would be to watch a preg-girlie getting taken care of. I mean I'm still the same girl and I still wanna be watched and who knows even a repeat of the last events :twisted: though penetrative is definately out of bounds for a cpl months. As with all women have come the cravings and there are a cpl of things I am still very tempted by. The OH finds me horny and we talk all the time about going out to play. Especially with the weather perking up. There's nothing like the great outdoors for some serious fun.... but what kind of reaction would I get??????? Apart from the bump and extra fun up top cool I haven't changed much from my pics but is it a problem for people..... ??? rolleyes :roll:
Advice required on this one please wise ones?????

Good things come to those that wait.
Look after yourself and get yer fella to sort you out. Maybe make a video or two? Rest and take it easy because this will be the last time you will everbe able to put your feet up for the next 18 or so years.
Elli I think you would get a great response it is a pity you live so far away. Get out there and have some fun you only live once.
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Elli I think you would get a great response it is a pity you live so far away. Get out there and have some fun you only live once.
couldnt agree more
elli,
Go for it - do what you feel comfortable with and enjoy it. I doubt very much that you'll get any less attention then you have before. Have fun and let us know how you get on!
Interesting that all the men who have responded, haven't taken the safety of mother or unborn baby into consideration.
Silk
Actually, it was my first thought - hence my comment about do what you feel comforatble with. Playing to an audience with no contact has little or no danger.. However, other activities would probably be ill advised...
I actually started to write something along the lines of the safety of the unborn child being paramount and to be careful, then I thought surely they would have thought of that?
I agree with Silk, for the sake of a month, just play at home. If you need a little 'extra', just invite someone you already know and trust, rather than risk the 'unknown' from Doggers.
Having said all that, best of luck with the newbie, if this carries on we're going to have to start a Swinging Heaven Creche!! :shock:
Mal
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Actually, it was my first thought - hence my comment about do what you feel comforatble with. Playing to an audience with no contact has little or no danger.. However, other activities would probably be ill advised...

Having been dogging one or two times wink we have been places that we have decided to leave because it got a bit too 'busy'. Between boy racers causing their own special brand of mischief and men who get just a bit to damn pushy, I wouldn't recommend dogging for any lady who is pregnant.
Especially in that delicate state, you just don't know what's around the corner. That's why I suggested a video. Hell, if someone likes showing off, what a better memento and you could post it on the internet somewhere, if you want people to watch it.
Sorry, perhaps Im a bit more sensitive about this because I'm a woman.
Personally I wouldn't recommend it, not from a safety point of view (I know zilch about being pregnant!) but more out of concern that tales of a very pregnant woman out dogging will get around quick and those are the sorts of things that the red top (toilet)papers love........sounds extreme I know, but I doubt anyone who ends up in the NOTW expects to be there lol
If you want to be watched, maybe you should post in Lets Meet Up? Loads of men are real lovers of pregnant women's bodies so if you could find one or two good ones, you could have the same erotic thrill but in more comfortable surroundings?
Either that or a dogging spot that is rarely used, if you can guarantee peace and quiet and an appreciate audience wink
Of course the safety of Elli and all other female doggers is of paramount importance but if it is something she wants to do then go ahead and do it. I am sure all couples that go to dogging sites discuss the safety issues before they go because as we all know there are idiots out there with no respect for anyone.
I think the safety of both sexes are equally important.
Whether this post is a wind-up or legit, I think the most important thing about the lifestyle that people have fun, without offending or putting someone at risk.
I wouldn't personally ask someone to put themselves at risk for my own sexual gratification.
But hey, that's my own opinion.
Firstly............... wasn't a wind up.... was merely an "I'm looking to see what kind of reaction it would get!"
I'd never do anything to put my own personal safety (or the bump) at risk and neither would the OH. And so far our experiences out and about have always been pleasant. We've had the odd car blind us with their lights but never had any hassle and from that point of view...... naieve or not.......... I guess it didn't cross my mind that this would be an issue. We had of course thought about safety aspects. Whilst many will tell you I am blonde... I am not entirely airhead daft........... well not all the time anyway.
Pics and videos are all something already covered and whilst fun aren't entirely the same and lets face it......... it's not just for a month is it? Once the little bean has arrived there'll be no playing for a while. And maybe I won't want to. Unfortunately I have an ever bigger appetite for fun than I did before and that's saying something.
As weird as it may seem we're a bit shy about the lets meet up side of things. Getrting to know people etc whereas the annonymity of dogging allows us to express that side of ourselves without actually "meeting" people.
I certainly didn't mean to offend anyone with my post. I was looking for opinions... many of which I've had and some differ greatly to others.
Silk & Big G are right .....and I would never put myself at risk for others gratification but to a degree that's what we all do each and everytime we venture out. We put ourselves at risk for our own gratification don't we? We don't know who we may bumble into in those woods etc. Not neccessarily those we arranged to meet but someone who just happens to be passing. And there are some serious looney-toones in the woods these days. Yet it's a chance we all seem quite willing to take. I'm not saying I am prepared to risk my bump. Far from it. Took a lot to get this far but since I'm told by all those medical people that I am seriously healthy and doing very well I feel maybe to this point I have been too protective to date.
Still some interesting views have been raised and for now I guess we can lay the subject to bed. One of the main issues I had was whether there is an attraction for pregwomen generally and whether they are a turn on or off but I guess that is dependant on each individual.
Thanks for the pm's with this one aswell........
Elli, you sound like you've got your head screwed on, and I can't see the problem at all provided you go somewhere not known for loadsa trouble (or buy a shot gun hehehehe) .... Just go and do it while you don't need a babysitter, and good luck! lol
thank you.................... Was thinking that maybe the scary hormonal side of being pregnant may negate the need for shotgun lol :lol: :lol:
My bark and bite are equally as painful at the mo' :twisted:
Elli, if it feels right and you are sure of the site you are visiting then my personal view (for what it is worth) is that you should go out and enjoy yourself. You probably wont have the engery or the time once the 'bump' arrives!
Its obvious from your posts, that you are sensible and wont risk putting yourself or the bump in any obvious danger but it may be worth taking into account that a pregnant woman would be a bit of a novality and you may end up being a bit more popular than you are expecting!
Hope you have fun what ever you decide, and good luck with the new arrival!
Well, since I was at one of your sessions and still have fond memories, I await the next with interest.
Speaking as a dogger, I think most of the guys would be worried about you both.
Whatever, have fun and look after yourself.
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Firstly............... wasn't a wind up.... was merely an "I'm looking to see what kind of reaction it would get!"
I'd never do anything to put my own personal safety (or the bump) at risk and neither would the OH. And so far our experiences out and about have always been pleasant. We've had the odd car blind us with their lights but never had any hassle and from that point of view...... naieve or not.......... I guess it didn't cross my mind that this would be an issue. We had of course thought about safety aspects. Whilst many will tell you I am blonde... I am not entirely airhead daft........... well not all the time anyway.
Pics and videos are all something already covered and whilst fun aren't entirely the same and lets face it......... it's not just for a month is it? Once the little bean has arrived there'll be no playing for a while. And maybe I won't want to. Unfortunately I have an ever bigger appetite for fun than I did before and that's saying something.
As weird as it may seem we're a bit shy about the lets meet up side of things. Getrting to know people etc whereas the annonymity of dogging allows us to express that side of ourselves without actually "meeting" people.
I certainly didn't mean to offend anyone with my post. I was looking for opinions... many of which I've had and some differ greatly to others.
Silk & Big G are right .....and I would never put myself at risk for others gratification but to a degree that's what we all do each and everytime we venture out. We put ourselves at risk for our own gratification don't we? We don't know who we may bumble into in those woods etc. Not neccessarily those we arranged to meet but someone who just happens to be passing. And there are some serious looney-toones in the woods these days. Yet it's a chance we all seem quite willing to take. I'm not saying I am prepared to risk my bump. Far from it. Took a lot to get this far but since I'm told by all those medical people that I am seriously healthy and doing very well I feel maybe to this point I have been too protective to date.
Still some interesting views have been raised and for now I guess we can lay the subject to bed. One of the main issues I had was whether there is an attraction for pregwomen generally and whether they are a turn on or off but I guess that is dependant on each individual.
Thanks for the pm's with this one aswell........

Elli, I hope you don't think my above post was directed at you. You came, you asked advice because you are unsure and that's cool. You know yourself and far be it from anyone to tell you what should do.
I must admit, my posts above were an angry response to the first few from folk who weren't taking your pregnancy into consideration and in my opinion, people who should be avoided.
Sorry if you felt anything I had said was directed at yourself.
Silk and Big G I take offence at the accusation that I was not taking into consideration Elli's pregnancy she stated asked a question and was asking for people's opinion and I gave mine, I will state that I would find the sight of a pregnant woman at a dogging site very sexy, but that is only my opinion. I always have and always will put the safety of anybody that I happen to be dogging with as paramount importance. I am a genuine discreet and respectful dogger who plays by the rules and do not like you making comments about me when you don't know me, never spoken to me and never likely to meet me.
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Silk and Big G I take offence at the accusation that I was not taking into consideration Elli's pregnancy she stated asked a question and was asking for people's opinion and I gave mine, I will state that I would find the sight of a pregnant woman at a dogging site very sexy, but that is only my opinion. I always have and always will put the safety of anybody that I happen to be dogging with as paramount importance. I am a genuine discreet and respectful dogger who plays by the rules and do not like you making comments about me when you don't know me, never spoken to me and never likely to meet me.

Sorry you were offended. I cant read minds though just the posts that people make. Everyone is entitled to voice their opinion, you did and so did I.
Take care.
Silk
hi there now we havent had a child together but we did meet a cple were the lady was pregnant she was 7 months so forgive me ( male typing ) for me lack of exact knowlege of what diff 7 to 8 months is but we did go and have a little fun we went to a safe place where we all knew who was there and the lady in question at that time was comfortable to have pen sex although very restrained she didnt do anything with others apart from her hubby and a little with me and the pheonix but were well known to them and she found it fun and exiting but we all did have a serious talk about the bump and how it could ofected ( now a her ) it she has since given birth toa beautifull little girl and saw no ill effects of carefull play so if ur confident ( as u seem ) and levil headed ( as u seem ) why not have a little fun cos to steal someone elses quote u wont have chance now for 18 yrs ( dam i still got 4 yrs left on mine lol ) so have fun be safe and enjouy urself xxxxx