Elli I think you would get a great response it is a pity you live so far away. Get out there and have some fun you only live once.
elli,
Go for it - do what you feel comfortable with and enjoy it. I doubt very much that you'll get any less attention then you have before. Have fun and let us know how you get on!
Interesting that all the men who have responded, haven't taken the safety of mother or unborn baby into consideration.
Silk
Actually, it was my first thought - hence my comment about do what you feel comforatble with. Playing to an audience with no contact has little or no danger.. However, other activities would probably be ill advised...
Of course the safety of Elli and all other female doggers is of paramount importance but if it is something she wants to do then go ahead and do it. I am sure all couples that go to dogging sites discuss the safety issues before they go because as we all know there are idiots out there with no respect for anyone.
I think the safety of both sexes are equally important.
Whether this post is a wind-up or legit, I think the most important thing about the lifestyle that people have fun, without offending or putting someone at risk.
I wouldn't personally ask someone to put themselves at risk for my own sexual gratification.
But hey, that's my own opinion.
Firstly............... wasn't a wind up.... was merely an "I'm looking to see what kind of reaction it would get!"
I'd never do anything to put my own personal safety (or the bump) at risk and neither would the OH. And so far our experiences out and about have always been pleasant. We've had the odd car blind us with their lights but never had any hassle and from that point of view...... naieve or not.......... I guess it didn't cross my mind that this would be an issue. We had of course thought about safety aspects. Whilst many will tell you I am blonde... I am not entirely airhead daft........... well not all the time anyway.
Pics and videos are all something already covered and whilst fun aren't entirely the same and lets face it......... it's not just for a month is it? Once the little bean has arrived there'll be no playing for a while. And maybe I won't want to. Unfortunately I have an ever bigger appetite for fun than I did before and that's saying something.
As weird as it may seem we're a bit shy about the lets meet up side of things. Getrting to know people etc whereas the annonymity of dogging allows us to express that side of ourselves without actually "meeting" people.
I certainly didn't mean to offend anyone with my post. I was looking for opinions... many of which I've had and some differ greatly to others.
Silk & Big G are right .....and I would never put myself at risk for others gratification but to a degree that's what we all do each and everytime we venture out. We put ourselves at risk for our own gratification don't we? We don't know who we may bumble into in those woods etc. Not neccessarily those we arranged to meet but someone who just happens to be passing. And there are some serious looney-toones in the woods these days. Yet it's a chance we all seem quite willing to take. I'm not saying I am prepared to risk my bump. Far from it. Took a lot to get this far but since I'm told by all those medical people that I am seriously healthy and doing very well I feel maybe to this point I have been too protective to date.
Still some interesting views have been raised and for now I guess we can lay the subject to bed. One of the main issues I had was whether there is an attraction for pregwomen generally and whether they are a turn on or off but I guess that is dependant on each individual.
Thanks for the pm's with this one aswell........
Elli, if it feels right and you are sure of the site you are visiting then my personal view (for what it is worth) is that you should go out and enjoy yourself. You probably wont have the engery or the time once the 'bump' arrives!
Its obvious from your posts, that you are sensible and wont risk putting yourself or the bump in any obvious danger but it may be worth taking into account that a pregnant woman would be a bit of a novality and you may end up being a bit more popular than you are expecting!
Hope you have fun what ever you decide, and good luck with the new arrival!
Well, since I was at one of your sessions and still have fond memories, I await the next with interest.
Speaking as a dogger, I think most of the guys would be worried about you both.
Whatever, have fun and look after yourself.
Silk and Big G I take offence at the accusation that I was not taking into consideration Elli's pregnancy she stated asked a question and was asking for people's opinion and I gave mine, I will state that I would find the sight of a pregnant woman at a dogging site very sexy, but that is only my opinion. I always have and always will put the safety of anybody that I happen to be dogging with as paramount importance. I am a genuine discreet and respectful dogger who plays by the rules and do not like you making comments about me when you don't know me, never spoken to me and never likely to meet me.
hi there now we havent had a child together but we did meet a cple were the lady was pregnant she was 7 months so forgive me ( male typing ) for me lack of exact knowlege of what diff 7 to 8 months is but we did go and have a little fun we went to a safe place where we all knew who was there and the lady in question at that time was comfortable to have pen sex although very restrained she didnt do anything with others apart from her hubby and a little with me and the pheonix but were well known to them and she found it fun and exiting but we all did have a serious talk about the bump and how it could ofected ( now a her ) it she has since given birth toa beautifull little girl and saw no ill effects of carefull play so if ur confident ( as u seem ) and levil headed ( as u seem ) why not have a little fun cos to steal someone elses quote u wont have chance now for 18 yrs ( dam i still got 4 yrs left on mine lol ) so have fun be safe and enjouy urself xxxxx