So, a couple of whinges from me.....
If you guys are going dogging or maybe on a date, please, please, please ensure your little friend is clean and sweet smelling!
I ALWAYS carry wet wipes with me, and will ensure I'm freshly showered before a meet but had a bad experience the other night when 2 guys turned up, lets just say, their little fellas weren't smelling of daisies!
These guys then had the bloody cheek to turn away other guys turning up telling them they're not wanted here and to turn around and go home! They didn't tell me this on the night, but I've since found out from the guys on here who had been warned off by them! This infuriates me. It should be ME that decides who does and doesn't join in not them!
Any way, a smart, nice looking guy, lets just call him Mr BMW turned up, he was well dressed, clean and smelt nice too. Needless to say he also had more "hands on" than the 2 "Mr Smellies" lol.
One more gripe from me. BRING THE CONDOMS! Some girls may like bareback with a complete stranger but I'm going there so if you decide to meet up with someone at least come prepared which shows respect. The answer will most definitely be NO from me without..............
Update 23/10, so it appears washing the morning the day before "down there" which is well more than 24 hrs is acceptable for some doggers??!!
So if you're too lazy or disrespectful to bring 1) wet wipes 2) condoms you're certainly not very well prepared. I'm not a guy (hey thanks for noticing lol!), but if I was and I "washed down there" say 7. 00am and then went dogging the NEXT DAY at around surely with x number of pisses in more than 24 hours it's obviously gonna be a little uninviting down there......this in my book is most definitely NOT acceptable! Especially as the said guy had just been to Tescos shopping where believe it or not they actually sell wet wipes and condoms!
Do yourself a favour, keep some in the car out of respect..........
I ALWAYS make sure that I am clean and fresh smelling. I've come across a few women mind, when i've been out dogging, who had a strong odor down below and it certainly put me off. There is really only one way to stay odor free down below and that is to wash EVERY single time that you have a wee. Washing your bits every now and then doesn't work as the urine smell becomes 'ingrained' in the skin. And guy's need to pull their foreskin back and at least get a semi on so as the skin is stretched which then enables the proper cleaning of the head of the cock and the foreskin. If you need to go in a bush then carry a wet wipe with you.
As for the bad etiquette of guys out dogging........Sadly, that's how it is now, because they don't know or care how to behave around a dogging couple. They have read or heard about it somewhere and thought to themselves, 'i'll have a bit of that', jumped in their cars and sped off to the nearest dogging site to fuck it up for the 'real' doggers. For them, YOU are there for THEIR benefit, not the other way around. Unfortunately, the damage is done and it will never go back to how it used to be a decade ago. Too many people know about it now!!
Hi,
I was one of the 2 "smellies" that you mention. I was the one that started off wearing a cap and was first to approach your car.
Anyway, nice evening, enjoyed it, thank you.
1. I had a shower and a good wash there the morning of the previous day.
2. There were two other cars there with guys just sitting in them watching us. I was the only person to speak to them, I only spoke to one of them, he had his window down slightly, I asked is he a policeman, he replied no, I walked off. That was the only conversation. I did not tell them to leave at all, that is untrue. The other car I walked towards, looked at it slightly, saw a guy in, then walked away. I told none of them to leave.
3. I did not bring a condom.
It seems I had gate crashed an organised meet. I do the traditional dogging and just sit in my car and wait for it to arrive, I do not organise it. It seems when I had waited a while I was first on the scene and first to your car. Then the other organised ones arrived. Possibly the "nice" one you are after the bmw guy, possibly gate crashed it also and got lucky like I did just waiting. Soon or later the waiting like I do does yield results, but it is hit or miss and does not produce always, patience is required. But it eventually comes along, has done in the past.
Washing; I think the French on average wash once or twice a week, out of interest. I can only suggest that a condom should be used for blow jobs as well as full sex to get past that problem. Or perhaps you can produce a wet wipe before it happens to guarantee a clean one. I am sure this may happen in future at some stage with others. I was not aware I was so smellie down there and I was so awful down there anyway. If I knew I was to attend this event and planned, I am sure I would have showered first. But as I say I was one that technically should not have been there. However, perhaps I have more right to be there than others as true dogging is not arranged it is spur of the moment stuff instead, that is how it should be, unplanned. I appreciate a lot is planned these days though with websites.
Dogging is not always full sex, often just watching at the window is just what is allowed, while they have sex inside, I have had that a lot also and is nice to be voyeur only. Other times I get wanked through the windows or just wank over her tits. I have been caught out before without condom, this time again and always hope to bring one along but it sometimes gets forgotten. I certainly would not indulge in bare back thank you. Because dogging is difficult to find, I will not always be showering on the day of the event, certainly not in colder weather anyway, perhaps if hot summer weather, yes a shower every day. But when you are expected to sit around for ages when mostly not a lot arrives, apologies for not showering every time. Most of the time I wait and end up listening to the radio only and hearing owl hoots, not orgasm screams.
The bad etiquette at dogging locations annoys me also.
Well sorry but in my book washing your cock every other day and expecting it to be clean and sweet smelling for dogging is a no go! Hey they do sell wet wipes and condoms in Tesco's you know.............lol
and as for the guys driving off.....seems a bit odd that 2 from on here told me this and once you thought you were centre stage all the other cars came, arrived and suspiciously drove off after I'D invited them.....? What makes you think you have more right to be there than them?!
I think the person who has the ultimate decision on who joins in or watches is actually ME!!!!
Please remember this next time if we unfortunately bump into each other again......
Just to attempt to keep the facts straight;
1. If I had a specific arranged meet I would have washed before. But guys are meant to sit around for hours in car parks for not a lot, you would not get prepared each time. Perhaps a guy should wear a condom for blow jobs as well as sex. No problem then.
2. "All the other cars came, arrived and drove off"? There were only two, the two I mentioned.
3. I do not have more right to be there than them. I was casually saying that I indulge in dogging as it used to be, non arranged, it was misinterpreted...although I was unfortunate in my choice of words.
4. Yes you have the ultimate decision on who joins and watches, I agree.
5. I repeat... I did not ask anyone to leave. I was just keeping an eye out... families in cars eating fish and chips or star gazing...police sitting there watching... car full of aggressive youths... so the only two other cars there I checked for this.
Best regards, happy dogging.
