Dogging first timer advice please

4 Jan 2006

Hey everyone!
Im a single Bi male of 22 years, and went to a little carpark at the end of sandy lane last night, stayed for a while, apart from a guy who was fishing there was only one other car and had a guy in it. Firstly are there symbols and signs to alert people as to what you want and are willing to give? How do you know the sexualtiy of the others! Also anyone dogging soon in south west london surrey area get in contact with me. THanks
Brad x x x

4 Jan 2006

Oh dear - is there no-where on this Site that has any written advice that might help?
Mal

4 Jan 2006

There is some advice, such as open window and interior light but thats it. Is it acceptable to approach a car? Can you just start masturbating at somebody in a car....if they are a random member of the publuic they are going to be terrified no? Hehe hope that never happens!!!!

4 Jan 2006

Quote by sexassembly
There is some advice, such as open window and interior light but thats it. Is it acceptable to approach a car? Can you just start masturbating at somebody in a car....if they are a random member of the publuic they are going to be terrified no? Hehe hope that never happens!!!!

where was it you found this advice?
Mal

4 Jan 2006

oh dear oh dear oh dear no wonder dogging is on the decline mad

6 Jan 2006

thats a little unfair. Offer some helpful advice instead of one line silly comments that help nobody! The advice i found was on the SW dogging section.....

6 Jan 2006

fair point and well made. The guy is asking for help and advice the least people could do is offer some and not just take the piss. At least unlike others he is trying to things right, which means fun all round and noone gets offended

6 Jan 2006

There's a post at the top of the page called Dogging: Hints and Tips which should prove useful for you.
Forget the symbols and signs though as there's no rule book, no hanky code to follow or anything like that - Dogging is much more of a gamble, that's half the fun! wink

6 Jan 2006

I really dont think that anyone was being rude but what they were trying to say is that there is an excellent post at the start of the dogging forum which gives nearly all the advice you could ever want.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
The only other advice I can give, is be patient, dont expect things to happen immediately and dont ever post details of any locations on the forums (You have mentioned a lane, it could be a location, I dont know, but it is always worth making sure that the non-genuine people cant work out the location from anything you post)
Good luck lol

6 Jan 2006

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I really dont think that anyone was being rude but what they were trying to say is that there is an excellent post at the start of the dogging forum which gives nearly all the advice you could ever want.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
The only other advice I can give, is be patient, dont expect things to happen immediately and dont ever post details of any locations on the forums (You have mentioned a lane, it could be a location, I dont know, but it is always worth making sure that the non-genuine people cant work out the location from anything you post)
Good luck

dogging is just like this post. nothing happens initially, it becomes fustrating, then just at the end two come in and make it better

6 Jan 2006

Yea i guess its a learn as you go-take each situation as it comes. Dont like all the warnings about nutters and robbers and so on.... Also its rubbis being a single male, everybody seems to resent you. Its the select few who ruin it, as ever, for everyone else. Thanks all for your advice and posts. Brad x x x

12 Jan 2006

hehe, mabeye they should create some kind of dogging morse code, with torches.
Sex assembly you are right it is rubbish, i have been from one relationship to the next since i was seventeen, one girl for 4 years, have wanted to try getting into this scene for ages, but the girls ive been with have thought it was for pervs and wernt interested, now ive found myself single, i thought i will see what its about, but seems the people my ex`s thought were pervs (and i defended them) now think im a perv because im a single m, crazy. i understand there are some desperate saddos about, but its unfair to slate everyone.
this is the only chance ive had to properly see what its all about, because i havent been lucky enough to find someone who shares my interest, boo hoo hoo. not fair.
well there u go,