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Dogging Hint and tips....wont take this as sexist!

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Hi Peeps,
Just had a read through the handy dogging tips and hints and noticed one omission...the lone female!
Is this because there are only a few of us?
I am a bi f interested in dogging, as an exhibitionist or voyeur, depending on the mood, but notice there isn't much advice floating about for women. I would be grateful with some hints, tips, advice orand locations.
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I suppose the reply should be:
"You need a strong, silent virile he-man with you. Fortunately, there is one such man available...me"
However, I'm quite sure you'll get about 3 or 4 hundred similar replies anyway...and I'm only joking...single female doggers are rarer than hens with root fillings and not to be messed with....they is so VICIOUS man....
Seriously, I'll not give you advice....you need another SFDs' advice here....one will be along shortly...maybe....the weather is warm(ish) at the moment, so carparks may be beckoning....
As to locations.....there are so few reliable places anymore....I'll think about it.....
The best advice I can give you (one SFD to another)...
Scout out a few locations and just see what happens from the safety of your car.
We all have our own preferences of what we want, what we like and what makes us feel safe:
Check the places out.
Become familiar with the area.
Check out what goes on there and how people behave - do people generally stay in cars and flash lights or wander in packs.
Only you can decide if it is what you want and if the location and behaviors there suit you.
Remember:
Don't be afraid to make clear what you want.
If you want them to come closer - tell 'um.
If you want them to back away - tell 'um.
If you want to be followed - tell 'um.
If you want them to wank each other off - tell 'um (but this may take a bit more convincing) :grin:
You will find most doggers are polite and respectful as they don't want you to piss-off.
i fully agree with the above ... my partner has shown a recent interest in sfd and i suggested about us both going down to the site in different cars, myself keepingt a safe distance away just in case anything nasty happened. Would this be acceptable to sfd to take their partners or some one trusted just in case ??
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Don't be afraid to make clear what you want.
If you want them to come closer - tell 'um.
If you want them to back away - tell 'um.
If you want to be followed - tell 'um.
If you want them to wank each other off - tell 'um (but this may take a bit more convincing)
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Or alternatively get another female to do the talking for you. :grin:
Quote by PoloLady
If you want them to wank each other off - tell 'um (but this may take a bit more convincing) :grin:

Not at M1J13....although you may find the doggers not so obliging, the gay guys are not that shy.
Many thanks for the replies.
I think I'll decline the offer of going accompanied by a guy as although I understand this may minimise the risk it kind of defeats the purpose!
I like the idea of going to a few sites and getting and finding a comfortable area and probably a beeter idea what I'm looking for.
With this in mind please let me know any locations you might recommend, bearing in mind I'm in Beds.
Possibility might check these out on Thurs
x's from xsme
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Many thanks for the replies.
I think I'll decline the offer of going accompanied by a guy as although I understand this may minimise the risk it kind of defeats the purpose!
I like the idea of going to a few sites and getting and finding a comfortable area and probably a beeter idea what I'm looking for.
With this in mind please let me know any locations you might recommend, bearing in mind I'm in Beds.
Possibility might check these out on Thurs
x's from xsme
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I don’t know your area that well, but… just look for the brown tourist road-signs which show there is a picnic area lol they are always worth checking out wink