dogging in derbyshire

4 Jan 2005

hi folks, im new on this site but have been an avid fan and dogger for 3 years now. due to my more recent evenings out and about i feel the need to update and possibly comment on some of the practices of so called "fellow" doggers. at a well know notts site last sunday i had enough of one individual following a couple like some sort of rabid dog. they were obviously becoming quite distressed at this guy parking so close they couldnt even open their door. i got so pissed off that when they moved off for the seventh time in as many minutes i pulled out in front of him allowing them to leave without being followed. needless to say he became quite irrate but to my surprise other doggers on site began heckling him calling him a stalker with the desired effect of him duly getting lost. now im not saying that we should all abuse anyone we consider a nuiscance but for crying out loud, if youre into our lifestyle and want some results then use youre fucking head and show some respect !!! (sorry if this is a bit strong but im sure there are some out there who will see where im coming from) happy new year all and have safe fun....... lol

4 Jan 2005

Well said, we could not agree more.
At one well known site in South Yorks mid July we had a car each side so close the doors would not open and a motorbike with its headlight on us and three "so called doggers" smoking ciggaretts lent against the rear of my car, then there were the fifteen or so others just stood staring at us and we had not been there above five minutes, result we went and have not been back.
For the idiots on here, GET SOME MANNERS. mad

4 Jan 2005

good to know ppl see where im coming from, thanks. i just dont get the dozen or more, all smoking having a chat thing?!! its GUARANTEED to put off anyone and everyone. rolleyes

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4 Jan 2005

Just while we are on with a group moan.
Lorrys! most of our local car parks have been bombarded by idiots in articulated lorrys, where these idiots are frequenting the result is a sea of MUD, why should we go in a car park and have to spend 4 hours cleaning our cars, result of this is no more couples vist, best one to date small car park with two artics in it and no room for cars to get in!!!!!!!!!!!! FFS learn.
All of this contributes to a lot of couples in our area going to clubs and each others house/hotel where we do not get covered in mud.
Best lorry driver story we have is: pull into car park with pizza, start to eat pizza, look up to find lorry driver lent on my car smoking, wind window down, what are you doing? A: waiting for you put a show on!!!!!!!!! WTF are you on, can't you see we are eating? A: no problem I have all night, N says how long have you been on the road, A: 4 days, N says there is no way you are going anywhere near me then, you will smell, A: if that is a problem me being dirty I could come to your house with you, have a shower then we can have some fun. My responce to this after a minutes shock was, tell him he is having a laugh and to F O, he says I am going to phone the Police and tell them you are threatning me!!!!!!!!!!!!
We went home then what is the point?
Any other good story's out there?

4 Jan 2005

Sorry no story but i cant believe some of these people!
Dont they realise, that even from a purely selfish viewpoint, if they behave, are polite, clean and well mannered then they are surely infinantly more likely to get a show put on for them, or even some action?
i know if i encounted anything like the people you are talking about i would drive straight out of there and not go back, and be reluctant about it all full stop.

4 Jan 2005

Suffice to say N will not go within a mile of the place again.
We have found a nice quiet spot where not even a transit can get in and they cannot park on the road either without blocking it.

4 Jan 2005

Sometimes you just cant win!
I prefer the larger car parks where you have a little room to move if things get a bit 'heated' but they tend to be full of boyracers etc. So we move to the smaller car parks, no lorries or boy racers, but no room to move, so the 'un-initated doggers' park less than two feet away cause there is no more room :shock:
Surely these guys realise that if they are polite, clean and courteous then they may be in for some fun, act like idiots, they just end up scaring all the couples away!

4 Jan 2005

oh dear,yes it does appear that every major venue has its share of too have had to endure social gatherings using our vehicle as a site we use is what you would call,productive,and as such,some of the residents have less reserve about approaching...there cannot be much in dogging,more intimidating than 12 guys stood by your windows,laughing loudly whilst waiting for the action to start,like its a fucking cinema queue or something!what makes us laugh,is that they seem surprised when the couple leave confused

oh us,those days have guys got so used to us just sitting it out,listning to the radio,we are now officially the biggest timewasters in the place,ha ha :P they dont even come over to look when we are entertaining now!!,but then we are lucky to have several places in our area where we can is also true that these guys are the reason that newer couples to the game find "dogging isnt for them",which is a pity,had the experience been good,they certainly would come back for more.