hi there newbie to this and i have been to a so called dogging site near burtonwood on a few occasions maybe its me out at the wrong time but not a thing happening am i in the right place or does the action take place elshere now in warrington
birchwood park car park good very attractive TV there a few times.
Mainly men - yes, that's dogging for you :twisted:
I know a lot of ppl out there blaming single guys for recking the dogging sites. but hey, do not judge every single guy in the same way. When i was single, i never went to a doggin location looking for anyone. The only time i went when i was invited. I know there are a lot of single males recking the peace now and i just dont understand why do they do that?? don't they have the thing, what we call common sence??
You're right blade. It's all about common sense, and, as I keep saying this morn, patience and politeness. The genuine doggers don't ruin locations, it's the impatient wannabees, drive-bys, and boy racers that ruin it for everyone else.
I think we should take some action now to save those places from these so called, moron's, hands. sorry guys dont take offence of my word but that's the only word that i can find right at the very moment to describe these ppl. Perhaps we should creat another section in this forum with password protection (passwords are given when they can prove they are genuien** ) to keep this places secure for the proper people. so we can discuss time and place and enjoy ourselves without getting disturbed that much. It will atleast save some hustle. It's just a thought. Let me know what you guys think.
Having a password protected forum for "genuine" people only would be problematic because who would verify who was genuine and who wasn't? We have discussed this at length in the cafe more than once. Also, although SH is getting big now and a lot of people log on and lurk every day, I reckon there are many who go and cause trouble at locations who have never even heard of SH :shock: so morons are still going to turn up no matter what we do.
The best advice we can give is to do not put exact times on the public forum - do this type of arrangement by PM, email, or a messenger service.
Blade
I know what you mean, but I think even with a password entry system - you will ALWAYS get the morons and lice breaking in. They will just be more sneaky and appear genuine until they are in. You could try setting up a group though have it on invite only - that would possibly help.
But the best thing is - as has been said many many times before - if people would STOP posting times and exact locations in the open forum and organise the details in PM instead. They could maybe then organise some alternative venue if the planned one is spoilt.
Alex x
Thanks for your replies. Yea i suppose the problem still will be there even thoough if we start a new forum board and give password to certain cpl/fem/gents who we already know are genuine. But if anyone interested a new forum board connected to this one just for arranging time/place for dogging and other things, i am quite happy to do so. I can run a forum from my server and link it to this board and give password to certain indivutuals/cpls/groups who have been veryfied already as genuine ppl.
Yes, but how would you verify your users, Blade?
Quite right as always Mal.
As this is still somewhat of a 'free country' there is nothing that can be done if you go to known sites.
Also this site and forum is open to view by members and guests! So these people who openly state times and places are probably encouraging the lice as well as the genuine. It also helps our boys in blue to focus their targets better.
Maybe restricting view of the forum to members only may help a little for a while. In all honesty though I thing keeping the arrangements in PM is best.
Alex x x
After my partner's experience last night, I agree more than ever! DO NOT publish exact times and locations of meets on the public forum! It is obvious nutters have got the hang of dogging to abuse and steal from people - let's not give 'em a head start!