Has dogging in the traditional sense finally died. Whilst we acknowledge we missed what seems to be the halcyon days of dogging, we have enjoyed some great time over the last 3 years. Dogging for us is all about turning up at a spot, not knowing who would be there and having some spontaneous fun. Guys used to have manners and respect. If they weren't of interest to us they'd wish us luck and let others have some fun. Just recently we've had guys who we weren't interested in chase other guys away. Almost a case of 'if I'm not getting any action, nor will anyone else'. We've had guys who we have clearly indicated we have no interest in pester us, follow us and be a general pain in the arse and the other night we encountered the guy who drove round the car park half a dozen times, each time shining main beam headlights on us, before anouncing to the other guys ' we'll have more chance of being struck by lightning tonight' .
Now we know we could arrange outdoor meets, but that just doesn't seem as fun to us as we like the spontenaity and randomness. If we're going tio the effort of planning things then it'll involve a roof and a bed.
No I dont think its tottaly dead but becoming harder for single males to find couples. Think that there are so many males and they dont really know dogging rules and dont show respect when a couple do show up that it scares them off completely.
Hi
I would love to watch you, join in as well if invited. Never been pushy myself.
The problem I have found is that you go to so many places where dogging "supposedly" happens only to stay for ages and either find only blokes sitting in their cars or nobody appears.
Agree it is nice to be spontaneous but also some planning usually garantees a bit of action!!
Maybe we will get to meet one day.
T.
I fully agree with OP - we also enjoy just turning up. When I went dogging on my own in my single days - half the fun was anticipation - whether anything happened or not.
As a couple - we will never arrange a meet as that can be taken as guaranteeing that something is on offer regardless of the person or situation and tends to make things stressful. We are very much spur of the moment - and it will remain that way. We are there for our pleasure and not to meet the needs of a single guy.
there is a definite shift in what I would call the spontaneity of dogging been out myself and listened to real morons talking about this and that,, the old style respectful dogger seems rarer and rarer now,, we still try though
Im out most sundays north of bolton and it seems less couples and ladies are out.
Can be very busy with single guys some congregate as you say and chat about who they have seen.
I know its better with spontaneous meets but definitely seems to be going to arranged meets instead. If any one is going out in northwest let me know and i will try to get there
I'm an old school dogger, and I stand around in car parks chatting with other old school doggers. That's how we have always shared information about new places and people. Most of what you can find on public forums like this is only going to spoil a site. Traditional methods preserve the good spots among the respectful blokes.
A few weeks ago I had reason to call at a well known spot near the M25, I bumped into a few lorry drivers, who were clearly old school. One shared a west country location with me. Went there Sunday night and he was there in his car! We had another chat and lo and behold a couple arrived, we watched respectfully as they got very dirty and then she opened the door and took our spunk over her tits.
Oh and don't ask me for details about any of the sites or the couple. I am old school, you will need to chat to me in a car park and develop some trust before I tell you, oh and it will usually cost you a cigarette, I never buy any.
Boredom waiting!!
Have even started myself listening to Radio 4 too
HELP!!
Its like Nostradamus only with pussy :-) I predicted this time would come, and I have been looking forward to it.
Dogging has been something of a craze for two or three years , and many swingers old and new have had it on their 'to do' list as just another thing to try. The vast majority put it down as not for them and move on, but in the mean time they have posted here and everywhere else they can with constant whinging, griping and demanding about what the 'rules' should be, what they want dogging to be like and how it should be arranged and so on. Completely missing the point - as J and M mentioned originally that dogging has as one of its main attractions - spontaneity and risk.
I posted here many times telling the folk who would change dogging to something that it isn't meant to be and just politely told them to try something else they might like. That included the so called 'doggers' who whinged just as hard as the couples.
Well now it seems dogging is becoming a rare and difficult to join club , and it is hard to be involved with those that love it unless you know someone that knows. Well good ! Thats how it used to be, and its the only way it works. You know what its still amazing fun, and sometimes all the more fun for the effort - like many worthwhile things.
So heres hoping we meet all the doggers that stick with it for the thrill of the chase and the risk of getting caught, what you are witnessing is its rebirth, not its demise :-)
Peace
G xx
Well said Big G I agree 100% a lot of couples are treating dogging as outdoor swinging pre arranging meets in large groups and chatting for hours on end and then whinging about doggers not approaching and joining in with there chat. Only been dogging for 9yrs and have seen it change a lot in that time and not for the better I might add. Yes it is hard now for genuine doggers and especially single males because of the influx of males who think they can follow and harrass and are guaranteed a shag. Dogging is not what that is about and wish it would return to how it was.
Thats kinda what we said..................
Hi H !
We are lovely ta mate. Hope you had a nice Crmble :-)
. The other reason is that I am so turned on by the fact I'm having sex with no touching. As well as watching couples get dirty with each other in their cars, I love to show off my stiff 7" cock to them when I'm dogging. So I'm looking for couples who want that kind of dogging meet in London & Southeast.
