Dogging manners in Exeter where have they gone?

4 Jul 2005

We went to Exeter last night and arranged to meet a single guy at about , now we asked him to follow us from a discreet distance and watch as we played. Now this guy was great, listened to our rules and abided by them, a real gentleman dogger, kept his distance and would have had a great show. This was spoilt by a prat who came storming up past him, he asked the guy to keep a distance and let us settle, and the guy told our dogger to fuck off, came storming up by the side of us, and naturally put us right off our stroke. What we are trying to say guys is stop, look and listen, if a couple enter into a car park, dont go driving around the car park so as you can flash your headlights on them, do give them 10 mins to settle, if they wish you to come over they will signal you, we always say if we settle we are too busy to worry about you outside the window, if we havent started i doubt we will if a hairy arse guy shows up at my window after 10 seconds. Dip your headlights as well when you come in dont as they do in Exeter put them onto main beam tis is sure to cheese people off, and finally if we decide not to stay in one car park, do find us 10 mins later dont start a convoy of about 8 cars following people, if that doesnt get the police attention what will? This is not a knock guys but just step back and slow down a bit. I will finish by saying not all guys are like this, and not all couples will agree with how we do things its just our opinion but please Exeter guys slow down and calm down cheers

4 Jul 2005

well help us out folks, we are stumped

4 Jul 2005

It doesn't matter how many times you say this, the ones who are missing the manners don't read it........however, I feel quite sorry for the guy who was behaving, assuming you were put off enough to leave?

4 Jul 2005

We found the same the one & only time we went to exeter, our car was surrounded before i even turned the engine off mad

4 Jul 2005

yep same problem

4 Jul 2005

Or not as in this case we've had exactly the same there ,we were there two weeks ago with another couple when a prat in a bmw parked facing the other couple with his headlights on time we were the same as the originator only this time an old boy parked his car so close to our car that i couldn't get out the back seat what a on guys play the game then we'll all benefit

4 Jul 2005

was it the chap known as piss the bed, about 80 and drives a rover, or was it the other fool in the rover or scorpio, we give up with the place

4 Jul 2005

no it was a guy in an old 3 series bmw

5 Jul 2005

hey guys,i totally agree with what your saying,im a single guy from devon (bideford/barnstaple way)who travels to this location when i can and when i get there i dont get to see any couples who like to put on a show and maybe let me join in cos of the typical assholes you've talked about. banghead

they dont only ruin our day/night but our time and travelling to. Funny thing is though is that i have a silver rover but its not me whos ruining these nights and now if i drive into this location your gonna think oh here cums that prat wihtout even looking to see whos driving,i know the rules of this game and am totally respectfull of all boundries but the prats are spoiling it :small-print: for all of us genuine peeps who just want a bit of extra fun. :wanker: :spit: hump

if any of you guys no of any other locations where to go i would more than appreciate a love to meet you guys sometime wave

but but if the assholes continue like they are then it mayb a while,take care all,happy and safe dogging,jimxxxxxx wink

5 Jul 2005

We got so completely fed up with Exeter after dark that we now only go early evening when the place is quieter and safer. Exeter later in the night is a farce....
Too many pushy old men and increasing amount of inconsiderate watchers who think that even following you home is within their allowances.
Most of all it's the old guys who have deterred us from going to Exeter when it is dark, one old fart even tried our door handle one night.....
We find that anyone who is prepared to show their face in the the light of early evening is generally more trustworthy and less creepy. We have even witnessed one guy who wore a ski mask one night in the spring....Just imagine having a guy who looked like the Yorkshire Ripper gazing through your car window late one night!....
So no more Exeter after dark for us....
There is a far more friendlier and safer venue just six or seven miles away down the A38 (South) that seems to attract far more decent and courteous watchers.
So that is the only place we venture once the sun has gone down....

5 Jul 2005

hey miss j could you pm me as how to get to the other venue cos as i travel from barnstaple area would be nice to go to a differnt location if theres no action at the other (if you know wot i mean).perhapes nx time you venture out you could let me know and ill pop along to non pushy and will only cum over on your say so ...excuse the pun...jim wink

5 Jul 2005

have had many a good time spoilt by the above named guys!
Any one go out in the daytimes? a lot quieter then and plenty of places to go!
jay, 30 m clean discreet and v respectful!

5 Jul 2005

Hi Jay,
I agree about daytimes whilst appreciating that the liability of work stops a lot of people from indulging. Maybe I never quite got over my fear of the dark when I was a little boy but to me there is someting even more exciting about daytime activity: quite a few places close to me (Chelmsford, Essex) which are deserted and ripe for action during the day...
(Sorry to move off subject from the discussion about manners guys)

5 Jul 2005

Have to agree with the above posts. I am lucky enough to have had fun at this site, before it became popular. Them were the days biggrin

Like all good things, word gets around. I very rarely go there now sad