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Serendipity
Sex God
Having not been around very much this week I've logged on to find several PMs in my inbox. Some were interesting and very nice messages (thanks all biggrin ) but the others appear to be offering me SINGLE MEN on a plate.
So, my question is, what are you guys thinking? Is it that you quite fancy dogging if it falls in your lap but in the meantime if you PM enough women you'll get a few offers of NSA sex and take that instead?? Come on guys, if I was looking for that I'd just go to a bar! Or is it that despite all of the information here, you just find it too hard to believe that some female doggers are voyeurs rather than showers?
There's as much diversity in dogging as in any other form of sexual activity, take the time to understand that and to get to know what people are about here. A one liner to someone you've never conversed with saying "Are you interested in XXXX with me" is not going to get you any better response than "Why should I be?", not unless the latest craze is now Speed Dogging!
Please, please make an effort, the people here are worth it :D
John_Lancs
Sexlightened
Do not want to detract from your post but I still love your avatar biggrin
Unknown User
i understand that, just waiting for someone to reply to my ad. fingers crossed, lol
Serendipity
Sex God
lol Thanks!
Maybe it's the avatars fault John?
Unknown User
No its just the people who want the rewards of dogging without putting in any effort. If people can't put any effort into a pm then what are they going to be like when they meet up for dogging?
Unknown User
Quote by darkstranger
No its just the people who want the rewards of dogging without putting in any effort. If people can't put any effort into a pm then what are they going to be like when they meet up for dogging?

I agree, surely more fun to be had if you have spoken etc and feel at ease and comfortable with someone ..... Maybe some peeps like a cold quick one ? others like myself prefer to make love even in a dogging situation ( which as yet not tried )
Unknown User
Maybe we should all meet for a drink before hand and then had a driver to get to an area? just an idea, anyone fancy starting it up? monthy hair of the dogging session?
Serendipity
Sex God
lol
Well I don't think that was quite my point BeeBeep but you've all got the idea of actually conversing in here and looking at what people are actually into biggrin
Serendipity
Sex God
Ahem... I have registered and patented Speed Dogging (tm) so don't get any ideas! wink
Unknown User
how would you work speed dogging, line the cars up with there respective owners and the groups of watchers get 2 mins a car, at the end you pick the group.
Serendipity
Sex God
lol
It might work Beebeep!
So, now we've got some people talking.......can we find out a bit more about you? Apart from John and Darkstranger you're all new to me, or I'm new to you, depending on who registered first wink
hayleyw2
Sexlightened
Quote by Serendipity
Having not been around very much this week I've logged on to find several PMs in my inbox. Some were interesting and very nice messages (thanks all biggrin ) but the others appear to be offering me SINGLE MEN on a plate.
So, my question is, what are you guys thinking? Is it that you quite fancy dogging if it falls in your lap but in the meantime if you PM enough women you'll get a few offers of NSA sex and take that instead?? Come on guys, if I was looking for that I'd just go to a bar! Or is it that despite all of the information here, you just find it too hard to believe that some female doggers are voyeurs rather than showers?
There's as much diversity in dogging as in any other form of sexual activity, take the time to understand that and to get to know what people are about here. A one liner to someone you've never conversed with saying "Are you interested in XXXX with me" is not going to get you any better response than "Why should I be?", not unless the latest craze is now Speed Dogging!
Please, please make an effort, the people here are worth it :D

The trouble is non genuine doggers dont get the vibe just the horn.
milkyh
Warming the Bed
i suppose a titfuck's out if the question then.....?
only joking my hobbies are ...dogging....dogging erm driving round..... erm oh yes and the latest craze speed dogging.
good points...would'nt mind seeing them at some time
midnsnow1
Warming the Bed
I thinks that men think dogging is going to be a quick way for a shag!!!!
That is until they find out there is alot of waiting around !!!!! and its not all fun.
Usually these guys give it up after a few months or make posting saying "Are they any cpls in my area!!!!"""
Part of the fun of dogging is the not knowing aspect, u never know who u r going to meet!!!!
happy dogging
Serendipity
Sex God
Ahhh it's Friday, the end of a long and busy week..........so, does everyone have big plans? I am definitely, definitely going to get out of the damned house this weekend for a little drive. It'll just be me, the car, the music.....and hopefully, a very naughty sight worth watching! :twisted: wink
Have a great weekend everyone!
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Unknown User
Well what have i got planned??/?? ermmmm..... this weekend is probaly going to be my busy one for the whole year knowing my luck, and i dont mean with fun stuff! sob sob, my ad is 176105 if you want to know more Serendipity btw! lol. but a nice show would be good to watch! so is speed dogging going to became a new olympic sport for london 2012? so who reckons they could get gold for endurance and skill?? lol,it would certainly be a good spectator sport hehe :twisted: biggrin
Unknown User
I have a nice cosy night in with my partner and a nice bottle of red. I will most likely be out and about next Sat. lol
Unknown User
in front of the tele i bet, will you have a chinese to mix with the wine? i can taste it know. No its the food i taste;-)
So i was thinking about this speed dogging and the olympic bid and really hoping that Mayor Ken Livingston doesn't apply for the UK team!! :fuckinghell:
Unknown User
Yes we did have chinese just about to goto bed and finish the night off. lol
Serendipity
Sex God
banghead
Why won't people read Profiles??? or at least take No for an answer?
After toing and froing by PM this afternoon, a guy who has had this conversation with me before actually said
i no : sad i just wondered if you did anything else thas all :(

Good grief, I'm not a restaurant, I don't come with a menu!!!!! rolleyes
P.S. If you're reading this matey, take note :!:
racer3
Sexpert
Quote by Serendipity
Having not been around very much this week I've logged on to find several PMs in my inbox. Some were interesting and very nice messages (thanks all biggrin ) but the others appear to be offering me SINGLE MEN on a plate.
So, my question is, what are you guys thinking? Is it that you quite fancy dogging if it falls in your lap but in the meantime if you PM enough women you'll get a few offers of NSA sex and take that instead?? Come on guys, if I was looking for that I'd just go to a bar! Or is it that despite all of the information here, you just find it too hard to believe that some female doggers are voyeurs rather than showers?
There's as much diversity in dogging as in any other form of sexual activity, take the time to understand that and to get to know what people are about here. A one liner to someone you've never conversed with saying "Are you interested in XXXX with me" is not going to get you any better response than "Why should I be?", not unless the latest craze is now Speed Dogging!
Please, please make an effort, the people here are worth it :D

Hi serendipity, Sorry, still havnt got the hang of putting the quote in a box. I pretty much agree with all you say. I think that both single males and single females experiance similar difficulties tho for different reasons. I personally am looking for a partner as I think there are greater opportunities for couples and the fact that you may appear to be a couple gives a more plausible reason for being in these locations should it all go wrong or the local police take an interest. from the male point of view there arent many good excuses for lurking round courting couples in car parks. Added to which it is easy to assume we are just dirty old men rather than genuine non pushey dogging types. From the ladies point of view i consider that they stand the risk of putting themselves in real danger if they have no back up. After all, it only needs to go badley wrong once!!! In my quest for a partner I hope I have made it clear that interraction between us is not compulsery, naturally it would be nice as some of us are lovers of the sex act as much as we are voyuers or exebitionists. I have done this post in a hurry so I hope it makes sense. Always interesting to read your posts serendipity, You should try essex for some of your outings, let me know if I can help you with some locations
Unknown User
Quote by Serendipity
So, my question is, what are you guys thinking? Is it that you quite fancy dogging if it falls in your lap but in the meantime if you PM enough women you'll get a few offers of NSA sex and take that instead?? Come on guys, if I was looking for that I'd just go to a bar! Or is it that despite all of the information here, you just find it too hard to believe that some female doggers are voyeurs rather than showers?
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I don't think it matters what you put, in your profile or in a message.
The offers will come either directly, or indirectly.
"Hi, I know you don't want to have a relationship but how about a quick shag ?"
or:
"Maybe we can go out dogging together, we may have more luck and less trouble as a couple"
Same message to me.
And you'll have just as much trouble anyway....I was standing outside a car watching a girl blowing a guy...(yes, it was a show) when in came the law and turfed them out....but said not a dicky to the two guys playing together a few bays down...