With all the interest which is being shown by the police at the moment, more and more couples and single doggers seem to be asking for arranged meets rather than taking the plunge and going out there on the chance of meeting someone. Everyday there is at least 10 new posts asking for meets. “Where’s all the dogging action taking place? PM me for meet.”
We do not normally do any pre-arranged meets and just leave it to chance that there will be someone about to watch but are we now in the minority? Are pre-arranged meets really dogging, or is it just ‘Outdoor’ Swinging?
Also, if you do pre-arranged meets, how do you start the action? With me being a bit on the shy side (honestly I am shy) I just hate having to make that first move and would prefer to start the action before the audience arrives!.
Would someone you had met, take it for granted they would be asked to join in? Just how would you cope with Satan’s willy? (not my description, but Dirty’s)
Come on guys and gals, advice, comments, thoughts wanted!
W'e're hardly the most experienced couple to answer this but...
We've only done it a couple of times and both times we've just turned up at a carpark on the off chance, if there's no-one there we'll still have sex anyway...if there is, they can watch and everyone has a good time.
I don't know whether we'll ever have a pre-arranged meet until we have a 'bad' experience !!
I don't like pre-arranged meets...even if only because that means that someone knows where I'm going to be, and when.
We have only been 3 times the first time we just turned up at ameeting place as advertised on this website. We waited for a car to turn up plashed on/off the interior light and we had company. As this was the first time we were very lucky.
The second time we arranged a meeting and this did feel like a little of the mystery and scariness had been taken away.
We don't mnd what way we do it as long as it works for us.
To be honest we do prefere the hit and miss approach, but that is what it could turn out to be a HIt & Miss afair.
Most of the "new" people want meets arranged because they can't be bothered to wait.
Hence the "are there any meets arranged" posts.
As in, they just can't believe that people wait for things to happen.
That's why there are loads of "dogging-hotline" sms things about....and even dogging wap sites (plus the per text msg of course, and most sms hotlines don't tell you that you have to CANCEL the texts with another msg)
I've been to arranged things before....but I always have a wander about first....just in case there are people about trying to arrange a collymore on me.
If you arrange anything in Bedfordshire, don't use a dogging site that's in the lists....I've been pulled every night for a week now....and best avoid any gay cruising sites as well, they seem to be getting "hit" too.
Check them out in:
Join the club, then check out the cruising sites in CRUISING (top page)....one of the best set-up indices I know....county by county....town by town.
AND, if there are likely to be problems....well, the gay guys know about it before you will.
Thanks Jomu, some good advice there. I really want to stick to what I call 'proper' dogging and not arranging to meet people up front, its much more fun! We did get caught by the police and even though we didn't really get questioned it wasn't a very nice experience (I was in the back of the car, with very little clothing on, having loads of fun with a plastic friend while Mr NWC was busy playing with other parts) The police decided to drive up to us with no lights on his car and we didn't even hear him approach, he then stood by our car and shone his torch inside leaving it resting on me! Even when we stopped what we was doing and opened the window he still shone the torch straight onto me while talking to my hubby!
Think I just need to buy a flask and take that with me while waiting for all the other doggers to arrive! Or I could get Mr Naughty to keep me warm :twisted:
nice one naughty,another inspired thread to drive a wedge between the banal banter of the disillusioned newbies."satan's sausage" and "the fiendish flange" are but two sides of the same coin of discontent,an industrial steamcleaner the only solution.........our experience of private gigs is limited,i would be out of my depth in trying to offer advice on this are having ample fun with casual dogging,arranged meets are an option we may explore further,with that in mind,we are all ears.............obviously the point of view is different for show couples and playing couples,the outdoor swinging tag wouldn't be appropiate for a private viewing as such,but still goes beyond the traditional definition of dogging............there does seem to be an attraction in being able to select a couple of guys from the forum,knowing,within reason,they are going to be serious about having fun,the downside being that sex on cue may,for us anyway,be too much like alcohol free lager,superficially the same,but missing that vital ingredient?
. We go and have outdoor fun on our own sometimes and sometimes we go on the off chance to meet guys too. I suppose it is different arranging a meet, but at the end of the day, if the meet doesn't work out, there's always guys around to join in :twisted: 
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