Dogging rules and formalities

28 Sep 2006

As someone who is very new to the whole concept of dogging id like to ask a few questions and get a feel (pun intended) for how things work.
At the moment a girl im seeing on and off is interestd in the whole idea as am i (worcestershire anyone?) , however despite searching the net it seems hard to find out how to know when to approach a couple or not.
Whilst away on business last night i went to what describes as a hot dogging spot in its list, to be honest the whole thing just left me confused :P
Whilst there were 2 cars with couples in obviously getting amourous and going for it, it was impossible to tell if they were actually into dogging or just a local couple come up for a quickie. In the end the 3hrs i was there seemed to consist of lots of single guys in cars driving around and parking up near these couples- then waiting 10mins and driving off to another part of the car park. No-one got out or joined in etc
Aare their any rules or procedures (ok it sounds alittle OTT but you get the gist) to be aware of so that you dont embaress yourself or anyone else. How do couple sgo about initiating things etc and what is the norm.
Sorry if that all sounds alittle inexperienced but there you go, if you dont ask youll never know eh....and im sure the majority would prefer it that more people were aware of how it worked than just doing what the majority of the single guys (me included) were doign last night.
Thanks
Matt
PS: Anyone know of any good doggins spots a couple could go to in worcestershire?

28 Sep 2006

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/dogging/index.html
And other posts in this section.
Good luck!
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28 Sep 2006

The trouble with the directory though Jags, is that it's very out of date, especially in the Hants and Dorset areas.

28 Sep 2006

Well if couples are parked in a dogging site, one assumes that they are up for being watched and possibly more but don't make assumptions! Normally they would flash their interior lights if they would like company but if you're not welcome, they will let you know!!
Good luck!

28 Sep 2006

Quote by wolseleyplumb
The trouble with the directory though Jags, is that it's very out of date, especially in the Hants and Dorset areas.

Yep!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/5700.html
We have a policy about that now to ensure safety.
lol

28 Sep 2006

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
You will find the above post will give you some idea on what you can expect when you go dogging and the type of things to be aware of.
I dont want to say it include rules or anything because not everyone sticks to the so-called rules (us included). I would just say take it slowley and if you are watching another couple and it seems like they are not 'encouraging' you to watch, then do a runner wink

Seriously, most couples will give some sort of signal that it is ok for you to watch, but it is not always the flashing of lights, it could be something as simple as not telling you to feck off.
As for locations, the link Jags gave you above will give you some ideas on where to start but the best dogging places are the ones which are not advertised on here or on any other site, the ones which people normally find during their day to day business and nip back at night for some naughty fun.
Good luck with it all, and again, the most important bit of advice I would give is to take it slowly and only do what you/your girlfriend feel 100% comfortable with lol

28 Sep 2006

Once again.... good advice from the wise one .... Kudos NWC!!!! biggrin

29 Sep 2006

Thanks again Jags. Don't you think that the "Directory" should actually be scrapped and all the locations deleted, so that undesireables stop visiting those places?

30 Sep 2006

Quote by wolseleyplumb
Thanks again Jags. Don't you think that the "Directory" should actually be scrapped and all the locations deleted, so that undesireables stop visiting those places?

And what about all the other sites with the same locations ?
Practically all the locations given on each site are the same, cribbed from the old "doggers guide".
Take tonight...good night with two shows...but both after midnight....that means the married numpties are long gone to bed and plod is busy wading through the blood and vomit in town.
This game is the same as life....you get out what you put in...so if you expect others to turn-up at a park for you at 13 minutes past ten...forget it.
Some couples get a lot of fun from driving into a place, waiting for the crowd to head over, and then driving out....fair enough, it's their fun too......others pick one/two or more and then leave....doubtless followed....there are plenty out there who think they're owed something....
I don't really give a shit if there's nowt about tonight, there's always tomorrow night !
Noticed two cars parked in a layby at the side of the A6....I knew one of the cars (old-time dogg).....he was standing at the side of a vectra with the passenger door open....I knew he was getting a blow job, but all the other cars driving past (4 feet away) obviously didn't !.
Point of that last comment ?
The old sites are too well known...most of them are full of shitheads (and worse).
Better to find your own....
Oh, as that old dogging pair have said many times...."there ain't no dogging rules...just so long as nobody gets hurt" (dirtydoggers, 1925 onwards)

30 Sep 2006

Quote by jomu
Oh, as that old dogging pair have said many times...."there ain't no dogging rules...just so long as nobody gets hurt" (dirtydoggers, 1925 onwards)

our advice, actually quoted by the jedi-master of carpark perving :shock: we are honoured wink

1925 is starting to feel about right too..its been a long road with many a winding turn lol

we can't really add much more to whats already been said..well, we probably can, but it'll just go on and on... :cry: :lol:

30 Sep 2006

Yeah.....
You can give advice forever, and ever....but until you get some action it's just hot air...and you'll only get that by being out there.......
Mr and Mrs DD....I keep trying to get over your way....I'll make it again this year...but I gotta get a change of motor...mine is too well known about here....in fact, when I drive IN most others drive OUT....
Maybe a change of deodorant as well ?..................who knows.......I tried it underballs instead of underarm.....never again....