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how many of you doggers who go to venues are over the moon just to watch,do you if only invited by flicker of the light come over approach and if say the windows are shut do you just stand and watch ,do you try and make contact and have you had the bottle to ask for anything extra or just wait and see what happens ,just wanting to see it from the others side of things rolleyes
have been to some venues ,have waited but never any action only other guys wanting same thing :cry:
Got to depend on the situation. I remember sitting in a car park a couple of weeks ago with three other cars, all aparantly with single guys in. Three of us got chatting as we were parked close together. One guy had sat there for over an hour and seen nothing and was off home.
I took a walk over to the solo car to pass the time of night and found that the 'single guy' car had the passenger seat flat, his wife/girlfriend with her skirt around her waist and a large dildo earning its keep. They had not made any signal at all but were keen for guys to watch.
Normally though, I would wait for some kind of invitation, as do most males in my experience. I get the impression these days that most single guys have become very cautious so as not to scare couples, and particularly new couples, off, at least in the places I frequent.
In our opinion it is all well and good for guys to say "we are well behaved" etc but in reality a VAST majority of doggers spoil it for the rest of them.
we have been out on a number of occassions where single men have been milling around only for them to swarm around en-mass as soon as they notice a female in the car forcing us to drive off and spoil a good time for the more considerate watchers (of which there are some wink )
we really enjoy dogging but donot go out anywhere near as much as before because of this. have even had people trying the car door etc.
is this similar to your experiences necoupleuk??
i remember when you would be lucky to see a car or couple all night but now its like tescos car park . i just sit back and wait cant do rugby scrum with all the other doggers. as they say the best things comes to those who wait i think lol
I have only limited experience but very recent. I have seen anything from me as the only person there when a couple pulled up and invited me to take part, to being swarmed by guys just peering into the windows as they stand outside or worse still manouvering their cars with the headlights full on to presumably see who's in the car! mad
I am a regular in the notts area and have seen it fom both sides.
I always park away from any cars that have couples in and normally wait to be invited or if the driver has his windows down and they are sat there for a while i normally say hi and have had some gr8 nights.
I also take my g/f down and put on shows and the number of guys that are new and try and follow u everywhere and don't take the hint when you try and lose then is unreal.
All you guys and you know who you are that have a habbit and seeing how close you can park to a car with a couple in it don't it's my pet hate and you should all be shot, along with the guys that think it's a sprint finish as soon as a car pulls up with a cpl in it.
No one is going to get anything with guys like that around.
Now they are all complaining because they don't see any action and the couples have stopped coming.
WHY could that be, maybe they don't like being mobbed or guys following them everywhere.
Guy use some commen sense if you still have any.
And the guys i do know that behave themselves it's not a dig at you ok.
Being a trucker i have parked all round the country and have had the pleasure of seeing many a good show but i find if you wait a while then the show is better one, couples DO NOT like hordes of men learing at them , and even in this cold weather it great being a trucker cos couples who want to be watched just park along side our wagons and we can wank away in the warmth of our cabs :P
its a nightmare at present.!!!
hardly anyone signals, more boy racers, more undercover police, more nutters . you end up having to induce 'stealth mode' and run the gauntlet of risking approaching the car after giving every indication yourself and turning lights on...standing outside so they can see you ...(i am sure one day i will sing a song or do cartwheels ) etc etc....and i know some will come down hard and say that in that situation (not the cartwheels you muppet)you shouldnt ever approach...but probably 90% of true shows lately were done under that situation. cest la vie!
i so hope things improve
Quote by steanrachy
In our opinion it is all well and good for guys to say "we are well behaved" etc but in reality a VAST majority of doggers spoil it for the rest of them.
we have been out on a number of occassions where single men have been milling around only for them to swarm around en-mass as soon as they notice a female in the car forcing us to drive off and spoil a good time for the more considerate watchers (of which there are some wink )
we really enjoy dogging but donot go out anywhere near as much as before because of this. have even had people trying the car door etc.
is this similar to your experiences necoupleuk??
had a few mate one time we were on our way home ,cause bobbies on the go,and a car followed us for at least 3 miles i had to stop in the end ,hopeing he would but he stopped and buggered off,another time a car with a cpl parked a few yards away ,about ten mins later he had the window open and he said "fucking slut" sped off so i went after ,cause no way was he gona get away with that,any way i only had a clio at the time his was a big vectra so he was away,5 mins later he came back ,remember he had a female with him to ,and it was all headlight loud music the works ,no way was i gona chase him ,hey but what a coward,and yet again out on a trip went thru main carpark passing 2 cars both singles to back carpark a cpl mins later the 2 cars came in parking each side of us,no way would i allow the mrs to put on a show so we just sat there till off they went,i cant really believe ppl think by parking like that would they get a show, any doggers that we did start a show for mate if they tryed our door no way would we finish a show for them ,i think that is really over the top mate ,but then again its there loss,i think the northeast is really coming up for dogging where a few of us cpls could get together with a few trusted doggers and get our selfs a controlled night .we do have a dogging add on here asking certain things ,its not always the same just what we fancy at the time and i have noticed single doggers adds a round the same time and they must have checked the adds and seen what we want and have not bothered us,but you always get a few that dont meet our add but email ya anyway ,i really find that sad ,it show they dont take on what you are wanting at the time ,we call them the chancers ,by that they must send email s out all over thinking at least some one will say yes,and it is them that get the gen single males a bad name. the mrs has a f2f add and she still get emails from males asking for her to shag them with her strapon what we say to gen doggers out there every good dog gets its bone biggrin
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In our opinion it is all well and good for guys to say "we are well behaved" etc but in reality a VAST majority of doggers spoil it for the rest of them.
we have been out on a number of occassions where single men have been milling around only for them to swarm around en-mass as soon as they notice a female in the car forcing us to drive off and spoil a good time for the more considerate watchers (of which there are some wink )
we really enjoy dogging but donot go out anywhere near as much as before because of this. have even had people trying the car door etc.
is this similar to your experiences necoupleuk??
had a few mate one time we were on our way home ,cause bobbies on the go,and a car followed us for at least 3 miles i had to stop in the end ,hopeing he would but he stopped and buggered off,another time a car with a cpl parked a few yards away ,about ten mins later he had the window open and he said "fucking slut" sped off so i went after ,cause no way was he gona get away with that,any way i only had a clio at the time his was a big vectra so he was away,5 mins later he came back ,remember he had a female with him to ,and it was all headlight loud music the works ,no way was i gona chase him ,hey but what a coward,and yet again out on a trip went thru main carpark passing 2 cars both singles to back carpark a cpl mins later the 2 cars came in parking each side of us,no way would i allow the mrs to put on a show so we just sat there till off they went,i cant really believe ppl think by parking like that would they get a show, any doggers that we did start a show for mate if they tryed our door no way would we finish a show for them ,i think that is really over the top mate ,but then again its there loss,i think the northeast is really coming up for dogging where a few of us cpls could get together with a few trusted doggers and get our selfs a controlled night .we do have a dogging add on here asking certain things ,its not always the same just what we fancy at the time and i have noticed single doggers adds a round the same time and they must have checked the adds and seen what we want and have not bothered us,but you always get a few that dont meet our add but email ya anyway ,i really find that sad ,it show they dont take on what you are wanting at the time ,we call them the chancers ,by that they must send email s out all over thinking at least some one will say yes,and it is them that get the gen single males a bad name. the mrs has a f2f add and she still get emails from males asking for her to shag them with her strapon what we say to gen doggers out there every good dog gets its bone biggrin
Blimey, did you pause for breath!? :D
I remember being out with my ex one night. We set off to go home, followed by the guy who had parked too close and upset her. He followed us two junctions down the M1, then turned off with us and only gave up the chase when we kept going round the roundabout. Took about three times around the roundabout before he got the hint!
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In our opinion it is all well and good for guys to say "we are well behaved" etc but in reality a VAST majority of doggers spoil it for the rest of them.
we have been out on a number of occassions where single men have been milling around only for them to swarm around en-mass as soon as they notice a female in the car forcing us to drive off and spoil a good time for the more considerate watchers (of which there are some wink )
we really enjoy dogging but donot go out anywhere near as much as before because of this. have even had people trying the car door etc.
is this similar to your experiences necoupleuk??
had a few mate one time we were on our way home ,cause bobbies on the go,and a car followed us for at least 3 miles i had to stop in the end ,hopeing he would but he stopped and buggered off,another time a car with a cpl parked a few yards away ,about ten mins later he had the window open and he said "fucking slut" sped off so i went after ,cause no way was he gona get away with that,any way i only had a clio at the time his was a big vectra so he was away,5 mins later he came back ,remember he had a female with him to ,and it was all headlight loud music the works ,no way was i gona chase him ,hey but what a coward,and yet again out on a trip went thru main carpark passing 2 cars both singles to back carpark a cpl mins later the 2 cars came in parking each side of us,no way would i allow the mrs to put on a show so we just sat there till off they went,i cant really believe ppl think by parking like that would they get a show, any doggers that we did start a show for mate if they tryed our door no way would we finish a show for them ,i think that is really over the top mate ,but then again its there loss,i think the northeast is really coming up for dogging where a few of us cpls could get together with a few trusted doggers and get our selfs a controlled night .we do have a dogging add on here asking certain things ,its not always the same just what we fancy at the time and i have noticed single doggers adds a round the same time and they must have checked the adds and seen what we want and have not bothered us,but you always get a few that dont meet our add but email ya anyway ,i really find that sad ,it show they dont take on what you are wanting at the time ,we call them the chancers ,by that they must send email s out all over thinking at least some one will say yes,and it is them that get the gen single males a bad name. the mrs has a f2f add and she still get emails from males asking for her to shag them with her strapon what we say to gen doggers out there every good dog gets its bone biggrin
Blimey, did you pause for breath!? :D
I remember being out with my ex one night. We set off to go home, followed by the guy who had parked too close and upset her. He followed us two junctions down the M1, then turned off with us and only gave up the chase when we kept going round the roundabout. Took about three times around the roundabout before he got the hint!aw so you lost him good so must of been the magic roundabout lol
the idea of a controlled night sounds quite good if it could be arranged and sorted!!
we have tried to sort out a few private dogging meets lately and are off outt tonight for one with a cpl we have been chatting to for a good while biggrin This is a good idea for most genuine doggers now as the situation has gotten out of hand and become dangerous at times.
maybe could put out a post im LMU reference interested numbers and sort out from that the people who we recognise the name of etc, or any new ppl that might want to attend and who we could verify by phone, just a suggestion though!!??
We have been reading this thread with interest.
We have had the same sort of problems with determined single doggers as has been stated.
but.. the main thing we have a grouch about is single guys who park next to us and dont put their interior light on to let us see what they look like!
They could be cops in undercover vechicles for all we know,theres no way that kelly is going to put a show on unless she at least sees she is not being ogled by the cops..lol
or they could be homicidal maniacs with axes..lol
Its not much to ask..or is it?
Is it just us?