Dogging Thoughts

5 Sep 2005

Hi,
As you can see this is my first post on here! Kinda exciting dont u think ;Â¬)
Well i guess im gonna join the masses who post on here looking for a couple or single person who go dogging....but thinking about it ill post a few of my thoughts instead smile

But in actual fact im kinda used to the of just going somewhere and sitting there waiting and hoping for something to happen! Its exciting by itself.
I often sit there wondering what i would do when something does happen? what would i want to happen? Would i want to be invited to take part or would i just like to watch? All the same it seems like it would be a nerv racking thing to do, first time around! ( I have never had the prividge of being lucky!)
See i also wonder how many times doggers have made the appropraite signals to me, and not being experianced enough not picked up on those signals and joined in.
What was your first experiance like?

5 Sep 2005

Welcome to the Dogging section (shhh, don't tell anyone but it's the best one wink

)!!
I'm pretty certain I posted my first experience around here somewhere, will look for a link.......in the meantime, tell us yours! biggrin

5 Sep 2005

Hi esexBlokes (is than an accidental plural?) welcome to the site and I am sure you will have loads of fun on here, you've certainly made a good start lol

first experience, crickey that seems ages ago, but in fact it is just over a year ago on our way back from a night out. We stopped off in a car park for a bit of fun, not knowing anything about dogging. Before long Mr NWC whispered in my ear that someone was watching us! I think he expected me to panic and get dressed, but I was quite exited by it all and just told him to carry on and ignore the bloke.
When we got home we had a good talk about it, and found we were both very much turned on by it, so the following night we went back to the same car park to see if the same thing happened (and it did). The rest as they say is history :twisted:
If you want some good tales about what goes on you need to look out for posts by some of the regulars. In no particular order (and apologies for anyone who I miss off this list), look out for:
DirtyDoggers
Dogging Two
Silk & Big G
Serendipity (post above)
Single Dogger
Harry Jones (last but definately not least) :lol:
Stick around, join in with the banter, and as I said earlier, have loads of fun!

5 Sep 2005

hiya essex, welcome to the dogging board mate, you've come in with a nice attitude, hope you stick around for a while..
in the past, i've posted loads about our experiences, both early and recent, from our perspective as a couple. however, when we first discovered dogging, occassionally, after work, i'd pop out on my own. mrs dirty was always fascinated by my tales, but due to her own working hours, found it inconvenient to acompany me, midweek. this solo career only lasted a short time, the problem being, i was only ever interested in watching shows, however, more often than not, the couple in question were looking for involvement. this was great for the lads i was hanging around with, but i felt my presence, as far as the couple was concearned, was considered a little irritating, being exhibitionists to voyeurs often wasn't their thing, so i had to respect that, as the involvment aspect was so great at our dogging site, there seemed little point in me going, so after a few short weeks, i knocked the unacompanied excursions on the head.
in saying that, i gained many insights into the world of the dogger from the other side of the fence so to speak, and on many occassions was amused to hear groups of lads discussing mrs dirty and myself, unaware that i was in their midst, my word, the things we were supposed to have got up too!! anyway, i'm straying again and a moderator's trigger finger will be tightning lol

:lol: one of the things i saw first hand, is how dedicated some of these guys are, and indeed, how some have honed their skills to the extent they could be considered master craftsmen. personally, i could never share the enthusiasm to stand in the pouring rain or freezing fog, night after night in persuit of their hobby as they do, never downtrodden when results weren't forthcoming, as for them, there was always tomorrow, and as you understand yourself, true dogging is the whole deal, only with the acceptance of that, can a dogger ever be content, kinda like the difference between an angler and a commercial fisherman maybe, erm, no, that comparison is flawed, but i'm sure you know where i'm coming from?
anyway, there were a few shows back then, they were the exeption rather than the rule, but i'll run one such gig past you, see if you relate to the feelings involved when you bag you're own result..now, which one shall i do? well, you asked for the first experience, we'll go with that, not quite the first, but certainly early..
it was wet, bloody wet..standing next to puppyfat pete, i really did wonder about my the morning, i had to work, it was now pm and the rain dripped off the tree canopy, onto my baseball cap and streamed down my nose and over my top lip. every now and then, a stray drop found its way into the collar of my jacket making me shudder."they are definatly up for something" whispered pete, ever the optomist..40 feet away there was a car, it was a dark estate car, there were two people inside, we knew that, because we could detect, through the rain smeared screen, two glowing embers. once in a while, a window would open, a discarded fag would land in a puddle and die. moments later, the interior would illuminate as one of the occupants lit up another, then, once again, it would go dark within. this scenario had been trotted out for over an hour, i wanted, needed to get home, but the lure was too great, i was staying put.
in all that time, not a single car entered. pete and i were aware the situation was unlikely to hold out, an innapropiate approach could fuck things up big time, another dogger might be the straw that broke the camel's back, but we had to bide our time. every now and then, we'd take a stroll, our route would be a circular one which, without pausing, would take us past the front of the vehicle. on each lap, in vain, we would try to verify whether the passenger was indeed female, alas, it was too dark, and the dropplets on the windscreen made a casual assesment futile. each time our footsteps crunched and splashed past their car there was a feeling of self consiousness akin to walking across an empty dancefloor, suddenly, paying too much attention to one's composure threw me off balance as i made an undignified quickstep over a hidden tree root in order to keep upright.."fucking hell pete, i've just made myself look a right bleeding pratt, i mean, how fucking cool was that"?
suddenly, there was a noise. pete hadn't heard it, i gestured for him to hush. together we listened, there it was again, unmistakeable this time, in the distance, in that dark, bleak and drenched carpark, there were a couple having sex. no lights, just the faint moans of a woman enjoying sexual stimulation. in that moment, i looked over to pete and shrugged as if to say, "what the hell do we do now"? i felt myself walking towards the car, pete halted me, "wait, let them get into it a bit longer" he said. "c'mon pete, they might bugger off" impatience was getting the better of me, this was too damn frustrating, "fuck it, i'm going over" i announced, pete followed. now, for the first time, my heart was was the act of approaching that had kickstarted this emotional response, a primeval defense mechanism surging blood into the leg muscles to fascilitate a hasty departure if needed, my breathing was more rapid and although consciously unaware, my eyesight, especially the ability to detect movement would have been keener. in that situation, any noise would make me freeze, nature's first defence against being detected by a predator, this was amazing, this is the "buzz" the guys talk about, thank fuck for the trees, i momentarily pondered the significance, whilst pete and i discussed our next tactic.
edging towards the car slowly, i instictively felt myself moving toward the rear window, it seemed less obtrusive. pete and i stood in the shadows straining to make sense of the various bodily parts within. out here it was mild, but wet. my clothes were clammy, my boots having long since lost the battle to keep the soggy, puddled ground whispered, "she is lovely". inside the car, illuminated by the green glow from the radio, a young lady was reclined back in her seat. she wore a black necklace, her bare feet rested upon the dashboard. her partner stroked her inner thigh, whilst she caressed her intimate parts with a small vibrator. we edged closer, now holding onto the roof of the vehicle whilst stooping at the window. for a moment, the girl looked up, she seemed surprised to see us so close, whispered to her partner, then relaxed.
moments later, we were watching the cute, black haired girl, astride her partner. her fingers gripping his shoulders, she thrust upon him with such vigour and enthusiasm, pete and i marvelled at how he could stand the pace. her peachy bottom wobbled on each downward conclusion and her little sighs eminated from within. for a moment, their cheeks rested together, then they kissed. from there, they moved into a missionary position. the tempo had changed to a slower pace, then, the window came down. "shit" i thought, "here we go again", but it was a false alarm. the interior was becoming too misted to see, the figures were only now discernable by their movements, the driver was giving us a clearer view, that was all. for the first time, we could smell her perfume, the fragrance was intoxicating, but no match for her heavenly perfection. beads of persperation ran down her flushed neck, down her cleavage and came to rest on her belly. her face contorted and her small fingers squeezed the small of his back. she threw her legs around him, and he made the noises of a fella near the brink. three seconds later, he collapsed upon her, she looked toward us and laughed, before saying, "phew, its warm, i hope you're not too wet"?..."it was worth it" was the predictable and appropiate response from pete, and he was right, only he'd be doing it all over again the following night..
:shock:

5 Sep 2005

Gawd, another fabulous read, I can't top Uncle Dirty and the Wiggies lol

Oh well, here's my first post on here about some night time fun....when I was a fresh faced, wet behind the ears dogger and needing some guidance a few months back wink

Quote by Serendipity
Hi All
Thank for the encouragement, I finally found the courage to go out looking at a couple of spots! Three evenings were spent with just cigarettes, CDs and what looked like innocent drivers for company who had no idea what my naughty mind was up to! I decided to go out again tonight and pulled up nearish to another car, I switched my light on on the pretext of getting my bag (just in case) and looked over, to be met with a smile from a couple when they put their light on too, although they did look a little surprised to see me on my own!
I really wasn't sure if it was just a smile or something else, so I acknowledged it, looked at them a little longer than you normally would then turned the light back off and waited (of course, all the advice that I hoped I'd remember rushed out of my head at 100mph!). Lucky me though, the couple in the started getting it on!
I'd love to say I stood at their car and had a birds eye view but I didn't, I wasn't sure if that was what they wanted and didn't want to push my luck but could see (and hear) enough from where I was and they seemed comfortable with that too. It was fantastic to watch them and SO erotic, especially because it all happened without an uncomfortable conversation or any major embarrassment! I have no idea if they were seasoned doggers or if I just got lucky with newbies/a very randy couple but I put my light back on and mouthed thank you then drove home with a HUGE smile on my face!
I have no idea who they were but I do hope I bump into them again, I guess you might be members here....if you are, thank you so much again! :wink:
Serendipity

5 Sep 2005

A good first post and congrats to eveyone else. worship

It takes us back to the first time we where caught at it so to speak, It was the middle of the day and we had just arrived back to the car from a lovely walk along a river, the entrance being a very small layby with another layby about 20yrds further down the road.
This was a few years ago, and we were still in the early part of our relationship. I had been teasing Mrs hot on the way round and got a bit suggestive about a couple of picnic benches along the way redface

. (later these would be used with much joy).
:twisted: We returned to the car, anyway back to the story, having spent a while enjoying a heavy kissing session (all the time my eyes darting around, still do it now, don't know why as it's hardly hardcore crime, guess it's the kid in me) Mrs hot started to unzip my jeans, and began to massage my evergrowing cock, she put her hair back behind her ears and i was like yipee, it's bj time. After climax we cleaned ourselves up :spit: , put everything back where it should be. And began to drive away, just as we pulled off, about 5yrds away was a large area of tall weeds, when we passed these just behind was what i would describe as an old gent with the biggest smile, he looked like he had just been given an extra pension, and a good chance he must have been former SAS :scared: , as even with my darting gaze, i never even noticed him. Knowing that he watched gave us a number of weeks worth of further fun. :twisted:
:D :D wink

5 Sep 2005

Hya essexblokes......keep looking hun, you never know who you might see doing what :twisted:
And when I'm as brave as you lot I might just relate my first experience .....Last Week LOL
Must go further afield next time though, doing it on your own doorstep isn't a good thing with tattoos that can be recgognised rotflmao

5 Sep 2005

My first succesful nights dogging was nine years ago now.
It was the night after Germany beat England on penalties in Euro 96 and feeling a bit fed up on my way home decided to pull into a well known site by the M4. Getting out the car and leaning on a fence, I was approached by a very sexy young asian girl and her partner, an older English guy, and she suggested going for a walk in the park. I was somewhat taken aback by her forwardness but nevertheless myself and half a dozen other guys follwed her into the park until we found a nice secluded bench.
Being a lazy git I sat myself down on the bench to await developments. The young lady quickly stripped off and knelt on the bench facing me, giving me a lovely faceful of pert breasts and wiggled her arse in invitation for one of the other guys to fuck her. She wasnt disappointed and one of the guys soon came inside her while I played with her tits.
She then asked if i wanted to be next and I wasnt about to say no!
I thin kshe ended up a bit disappointed overall as only three out of ther seven guys performed with her, the rest either too shy or just wanting to watch.
The only problem is that after that first experience, nothing yet has come anywhere near to being as good as that, but I am still going out and hoping and enjoying what I do see and do.

6 Sep 2005

:shock: My first real contact was with a well known dogger in the manchester area,we chatted whilst watching every entry and exit from the car park till the right one came along .Interior lights flashing ,a stroll up to the car,the couple then put on a great show while we watched. I was grinning like a loon and then my guide told me of another venue we met two ladies ,not in a car park but a lane. These fine ladies wasted no time and stripped off in record time and about five guys entertained them.
I stood there like a spare part totally shocked( in a nice way ) so awed that i had pre match nerves....yes the old chap was stunned.....only a half hearted attempt to come out.
I pulled on him ...both ladies went down on him and he wouldnt rise....shock this is what i`d been waiting for through rain and cold and on a warm night he let me down.
This happens every now and then ...i put it down to nerves the thought of being caught cock in hand by the boys in blue who often frequent these places does dampen my ardour......often thought of following the police as they know all the best sites...lol.
So thats my tale and yes it does improve with practise....helps when someone looks out for us though.
So if you have the same problem don`t worry the more at ease you are the more wood you get....
dont let the boys in blue grind you down :twisted:

6 Sep 2005

Ww! Just wanted to say what a brilliant read - particularly the stories from Dirty Doggers and the beautiful Serendipity!!
I have been dogging now for about 1 year and I'll be honest, i haven't had a great deal of success, but as you will read from many of the regulars on here, the rare moments where something does happen makes it all worth while.
I only really go out sporadically, but my second real encounter happened approximately 6 months ago. I ventured to a spot local to me in Warrington - very secluded and ideal when the boys in blue aren't lurking around. I had been travelling back from work and the time was about on a friday evening.
I had suffered from the usual run of bad luck in the 2 weeks beforehand, so the time being so early, coupled with my extremely low expectations made what followed all the more worthwhile.
I picked my spot, noticing another single male parked up ahead of me and began the wait - promising myself i would only stay for 15 minutes or so. The Gods must've been with me as no more than 3 or 4 minutes passed when a car drove by. Being so light I was able to clearly make out it was a couple and in that split second they passed, i knew they weren't there for a stroll in the park!
They had driven past my segment of the park so I knew I had to bide my time and wait for enough ime to pass for them to start having fun before I tracked them down. Self-doubt started to kick in. Were they really there to play? Where would I park - how close to them should I get? What happens in daylight no flashing of interior lights! Would I be invited to join in and would I get stage fright? Only from reading other posts do you see you aren't alone in having allof these thoughts.....and its comforting.
I started the car and crawled round to the next segment of the car park and sure enough, the head of the passenger had disppaeared from it's usual spot, only to re-appear bobbing up and down over the driver's side!
I took a gulp and decided to park one car space away but in full view of what was happening. The guy acknowledged me and his partner began to put on a show. It wasn't long before the passenger seat was reclined, and they go into the mish position.
That's when things really got going - the guy beckoned me over. The self-dobt ebbed away and i bravely got out of my car and walked over. "She loves it pal, can you see?".
I was quite happy to be a spectator but what i wasn't going to do was get my cock out in the early evening and start playing. Luckily I didn't have to. He ushered me to go round the car and get in the driver's seat - which I did.
"Would you like me to join in?" I asked - and it could've been someone else saying it. His partner looked over to me and nodded - as she was pounded by her man. I started to gently nibble on her breast, stroking her as he continued to screw her. He was quite a forceful chap, calling her all sorts of names (not really my style), but I didn't let that bother me.
"I'll leave you 2 to play with each other. She loves sucking cock and swallowing cum" he told me. And with that, he left the car and she leaned over to the drivers side again and pulled down my pants. I couldn't believe what was happening.
What followed was the bst blow job I've ever had, with me rubbing her clit from behind as she leaned over. Her partner didn't share my worries about wanking outside the car - he seemed quite happy playing with himself as his lady pleasured me. And he was right, she did love to swallow cum!
I thanked them both for a great time, being a saddo asking if they came here often! The small talk soon stopped and I was on my way. i could hardly grip the steering wheel I was so overcome.
I had one experience before that and have had one since, but neither have compared to that. It is the one reason I still go out today, in the hope a similar experience can happen.
Well, I tell a lie - the other reason I go out is in the hope that Serendipity has gone on a crusade to the North West and maybe, just maybe, ends up in the same car park as me!!
Ah well, that's just a fantasy! :inlove:
Good luck to you my friend. Your first experience will probably come when you least expect it.

6 Sep 2005

Ok guys
I haven't posted for a while,but on this thread......my first experince..less of a dogging nature as it was all pre arranged but nonetheless stimulating,and primarily what drew me here.
Abou4 mots ago was chatting to guy on the computer who was looking for a group og guys for his girl friend,through the chat an open air location and time were given and I duly (the second that day)trimmed pubes,shaved balls,scrubbed my bum red raw( Didn't want the lady concerned seeing a dirty bum hole)generallypampered and preened..cleaned my teeth twice ,best nice shirt,trousers and went commando.
Arrived early and one or two cars already there,guys like me staring straight miutes later and loads of cars,I'm sweating nervously and chain smoking as the appointed time draws more arrive and others leave.. some are out of their cars chatting. Then a police copter flies over and quite a few leave.
Suddenly someone is on a phone,everyone nods and engines start,the lead car is off, obviously to a nother location, I start my car......nothing. try again. dead as a dodo,shout the guy next to me.. starter has jammed.... tough shit comes the reply and off they go leaving yours truly stranded with a semi...
40 mins later still stranded ,,,no semi (lol)one of the guys returned to try and give me hand..... eventually did get going 2 hours later.

6 Sep 2005

Excellent posts from everyone, especially poor 2 litre Bob!! lol

.......Big G & Silky posted a similar tale of car woe a while ago that was hilarious!!
Ok, everyone is sitting comfortably, EssexBlokes it's definitely your turn to tell us a story wink

6 Sep 2005

Bob - that's awful!
I hope you have had some more luck since then.
That said, maybe it was a good thing your car packed up. You did all that careful preening and shaving to be fresh as a daisy, only to sweat by the bucket load and chainsmoke when you go there!! rolleyes

Have you any more stories?

6 Sep 2005

A week later ,not having spoken to the original contact again, visited the appointed location at the same time again,this time no well I thought, nothing ventured.
However, two weeks later I did speak to the contact again, met him in a pub along with four other guys,we all got on famously had a pleasant drink and went off to an open air location and met a very nice lady who wore all four of us out in an hour, and despite my concerns as to performing in a crowd I was the first to get my trousers off and the only repeater .A fabulously exciting experience I wouldn't have missed for the world, I also made a very good friend who I still have a pint with when we can although his girlfriend has now moved on. Perseverance definately pays and thanks for reading.
2 litre bob

6 Sep 2005

A repeater to boot?
Now you're just showing off!

6 Sep 2005

ger1,did you have a dog with you by any chance(left in the car obviously)just wondering if we've met.

6 Sep 2005

I'm also new to dogging (new-ish anyway) but, only signed onto this site a few days ago.
Went out last night looking for action (at a site described on this website). Sat in a layby for a while and a car pulled up behind me and flased their lights.
I was pretty sure it was a bloke on his own and this area is known to be used by gay blokes too. But, I thought flashing lights was used by couples only - but anyway, as I'm not into blokes bolt

I moved on.
I still think I have a lot to learn! neutral

6 Sep 2005

There are many of us genuine couples who enjoy the dogging scene. You have to remember it can be quite intimidating for a couple when there are loads of guys. If there are more than 4 when we go out, or loads of uninvited guys swarm the car - We just drive off. Most couples preference is to pre arrange a meeting with 1 to 4 guys.
We have had some good meetings and some scarey moments
:twisted: S xx

6 Sep 2005

Quote by sarah985
Most couples preference is to pre arrange a meeting with 1 to 4 guys.
We have had some good meetings and some scarey moments
:twisted: S xx

I don't know so much, quite a few of the couples on here prefer not to pre-arrange. It must depend a lot on whether your "local" is hugely busy and you've managed to find a little known spot. I'd imagine the swarming can be a bit scary, I'd be worrying about the paintwork!! redface

6 Sep 2005

Hello everyone
Fantastic tale as always Uncle Dirty.
A more recent tale for you all. Went out Sunday evening despite only getting 2 hours 45 minutes sleep the night before (some of you know why wink

), but apart from nearly being run over by good friends of mine and dropping my trousers and pants to get spanked once by her, it was dead all night till I left about 1030pm. As a result of lack of sleep near dozed off at work today.
The moral of this tale? Some days you waste petrol, but other days more than make up for it (I'm thinking the previous weekend which was just mindblowing).
Stick with it and have fun.
Regards
Harry Jones

7 Sep 2005

Quote by HarryJones
apart from nearly being run over by good friends of mine and dropping my trousers and pants to get spanked once by her

An interesting apology for the near demise of our Harry!!! (I wonder if it be worth a try to get out of a speeding ticket? :twisted: )

7 Sep 2005

With folks saying they never see anything, we went out last night, there was only one other car on the car park, not sure if it was a couple or single male, most likely a couple, Had a fantastic time, it was quite warm so we had both windows open. No watchers but both really enjoyed it all the same.
kiss

7 Sep 2005

I've got to agree with the idea that the waiting and searching is all part of the game, so I'm not really sure whether my "first dogging experience" was the first time I saw a couple having sex, or maybe just the first time I looked for it. I had been playing the waiting game for some time before I even realised that there was a name for dogging, but when I finally got to watch a couple enjoying themselves it really did restore my enthusiasm, even if it is a once-in-a-blue-moon experience.
I had been visiting a certain location for some weeks when, one night, I pulled in thinking I would just pass by one more time before going home to put my feet up. There was one other car there and somehow I had the feeling straight away that I was in luck. I parked nearby (not too close) and killed the engine, lights etc.
In the moonlight I could just make out movement in the back. And it didn't stop. So after allowing what I hoped was a fair interval in case I was not welcome, I got out and, heart pounding, approached the car. When I saw a figure in the back moving rhythmically up and down it was obvious that I had to take a closer look. The motion paused and a man's face looked up to me - for a moment I was poised between excitement and fear... then the window lowered and a voice greeted me.
Underneath was a gorgeous woman, bare from the waist down, legs spread wide, enjoying the attentions of her partner and expressing great pleasure. For a few minutes, the couple kindly let me watch. Of course I was also fully engaged with my own enjoyment of the scene! We exchanged a few words and the guy let me know that there was no doubt that my attention was exciting for them.
We said goodbye and for some reason, I sped out of the car park without pausing, although grinning happily. Perhaps I should have stopped for a minute to chat, but they didn't seem to be up for that. We all got what we wanted and left pleased.
This kind of thing certainly makes up for all the nights when nothing happens!
I sometimes wonder how couples or other regulars here feel about the difference between arranged meets and the chance occasions like this. Is there an extra excitement when it all just happens by chance?

7 Sep 2005

Great Post Relais
Refreshing
:thumbup:

7 Sep 2005

Cheers hotcouple - thanks for the feedback!

7 Sep 2005

Ditto, Relais, that made very enjoyable reading biggrin

7 Sep 2005

Thanks. That particular experience made up for the previous time when I called in to the car park for maybe the 3rd time, only to find the couple I had been observing were waiting for me... to have a good laugh before they drove off! I guess being laughed at a bit ain't too bad really.

8 Sep 2005

No dog in car "iluvminis" , i use the well known manchester haunts now and again.
Unlike a lot of the dedicated peeps here.
Hopefully out Fri & Sat :P

8 Sep 2005

Quote by Relais
I sometimes wonder how couples or other regulars here feel about the difference between arranged meets and the chance occasions like this. Is there an extra excitement when it all just happens by chance?

Fantastic post Relais!
Our preference is for the 'chance' meetings, rather than pre-arranged mainly because we dont 'normally' ask people to join in, we are more into the 'chance' of being watched/caught. We have advertised once when we first started on here and did meet a really nice guy who we do 'participate' with but that is not necessarily how we see dogging, that is more swinging/threesome fun. We also feel that with pre-arranged meets, the doggers have higher expectations about joining in than when you meet a stranger in a car park, who has been sat around for hours and is more than glad to watch. I know that is a generalisation, I do realise that lots of people who advertise may be more than happy with watching, but it is just our preference. Also, if we do meet someone, we would expect to have a bit of a chat before we had any fun, and that is what just causes problems for me - I just cant do anything after I have been chatting!!! I need for us to have some time alone, and if someone wanders over while we are having fun, they are more than welcome to watch, but if they appear before we have started, thats it, I just cant do anything :shock:
For us dogging is all about the build up, will there be anyone there, will we get 'caught', will the person want to watch etc. I suppose it is like being a naughty school girl getting caught doing something they shouldnt lol

8 Sep 2005

For us Dogging is always a spur of the moment thing, the idea of pre-arranged meets is a bit of a turnoff . On the whole like planning what you are going to eat a week or so in advance. Who knows if you will fancy a spicy curry or a shepherds pie. To each their own, but too much pre-arrangement isn't for us. With one notable exception (our first time playing with another dogging couple) we have always just gone out on the spur of the moment.
Our first experiences were a little frustrated by the fact that we didnt see anyone else around, although we "made our own entertainment" sitting in empty car parks. Much travelling around the local area ensued with more of the same each time we found another "location". Being chased away from a seemingly "perfect" but dead location by the local police almost dampened our enthusiasm, but later the same evening we came across another couple in a location just over the border in herts and watched whilst they played and vice versa. That kept up our interest encouraging us to try new places and finally arranging a meet with our first cpl. Unfortunately they were delayed and to fill the time while waiting we decided we would "entertain" a single guy parked next to us in a pick up. He quickly grew quite excited which was a turn on both for Jen and I. A few minutes later I was taking her from behind while she helped him out with her mouth and I watched her play with another guy for the first time.
Unfortunately for Mr PickUp the couple we arranged to meet arrived soon afterwards so his fun was cut short and he was a good sport when politely asked to bugger off for a little while whilst we became acquainted with the cpl we were due to meet. We thought meeting others would be quite embarasssing but after negotiating a move to their car (2 seat sports cars not being the ideal dogging vehicle) we quickly established a rapport and started playing with our respective partners before watching the girls please each other. After a while this got too much for the two guys and we proceeded to enjoy our own partners until a successful conclusion was acheived. During this time Mr PickUP had returned and rather than taking a close look at the action (we had the lights in the car on so we could see what was happening ourselves smile

) he appeared to remain in his pick up (or maybe he was an accomplished dogger and watching unobtrusively).
The mood was almost spoiled when the police turned up just after we had exited our new friend's car and Mr BFC was trying to rearrange his clothes. Imagine our surprise when the police told us that the area was notorious for dogging (it was very hard keeping a straight face whilst Mr BFC enquired what exactly that was). After a short check that we were not car thieves we were on our way and the seeds of a minor addiction were sown.