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Hi - Can anybody help me out with the gen on the site on the A!4? I'm new to this and made my first visit last night but the only people about were sad single guys (like me!). Is there a pecific day/time for couples to show or do i have to take pot-luck? (Of course, if a sympathetic couple who are not averse to a 50 y/o saddo would like to PM me......)
Cheers,
JC
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Hi - Can anybody help me out with the gen on Haughley Bends? I'm new to this and made my first visit last night but the only people about were sad single guys (like me!). Is there a pecific day/time for couples to show or do i have to take pot-luck? (Of course, if a sympathetic couple who are not averse to a 50 y/o saddo would like to PM me......)
Cheers,
JC

It's been said many times before that there are far more single men than there are couples. As you have stated above POT LUCK is what dogging is about lol wish you luck though.
:welcome: To the site by the way.
Shad - Thanks for that (and the welcome) - I won't give up just yet. Hopefully someone local will chip in tks again JC.
hiya jc..first, a quick lecture lol even if a site is mentioned on the locations list, it is against the rules of this website to mention it on this open forum..with that in mind, you may wish to edit it out of your post..
what i can say, is that most venues that have guys waiting around them, do see action. sometimes its mainly straight, sometimes mainly gay, often a combination of both. dogging is a game of waiting, thats what those fellas were doing, if you cannot do the same, then carpark dogging, in the traditional sense, isn't for you.
let me tell you about my mate "the master". rolleyes :lol: you see, he gets a lot of results, and i mean a fucking lot..i've written about some of his encounters on the dogging board, which are usually followed by pm's exclaiming " i went to that site, and i didn't see anything, when are the best times"? ok, lets look at the arithmetic.."the master" is single, and dedicated to his art, i'll explain that first. his idea of a dogging session involves waiting around in likely locations for up to six hours at a time, often three times a week, sometimes more. to most guys with comittments, or other, more consuming hobbies, this might appear to be dedication to the point of obsession, but if you look at how much time you spend on the pc, in front of the telly, playing golf, fishing or in the pub then it isn't really so different maybe, and the results speak for themselves..
all too often, blokes complain on the board "dogging must be dead, been out twice, half an hour, and nothing"..therefore, someone who spends two hours a week dogging, is going to have to spend nine weeks "in the field" to get the results "the master" attracts in a week, and nobody is saying he gets action EVERY week :lol: the point is, when i wax lyrical about his frequent conquests, i ain't kidding, i'm just talking about a flesh and blood dogging machine. :lol: not everyone can put the time in, and those that don't, simply aren't going to get those results.
its because of the sporadic nature of dogging that those who's desire to sit in front of the screen is greater than the desire to sit in the carpark have sought to compress the game into an "event" for some couples, especially those that seek large audiences or numerous cocksmen, this option is also preffered, which in turn has given rise to a sort of dogging "happy hour" :lol: so to answer the question of whether there is a "best" time, yes, probably,depending on what you are hoping for, and at our venue, its often so extreme we call it the "dogging circus", and it ain't for the feint hearted :lol: its also the time that the police and boy racers are most likely to pay more than passing attention.
having said that, traditional dogging is more likely to happen at such times that the crowds have dispersed and a sense of sanity has returned to the carpark..as an individual, you have to decide what you seek from dogging, and play the game to say, "the master's" most memorable and erotic conquests are always well away from the madding crowd, he prefers the intimacy of such encounters, but that approach is a long way from the "form an orderly queue with yer pants around yer ankles" brigade..its each to their own wink
DDs - Thanks for the timely lecture - loads to learn, but i'm not gonna give up! Post duly edited. JC
good on ya jc, stick with it and the rewards will come..by the way, being 50 doesn't resign you to the dogger's care home in this game.. lol
Warming the Bed
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hiya jc..first, a quick lecture lol even if a site is mentioned on the locations list, it is against the rules of this website to mention it on this open forum..with that in mind, you may wish to edit it out of your post..
what i can say, is that most venues that have guys waiting around them, do see action. sometimes its mainly straight, sometimes mainly gay, often a combination of both. dogging is a game of waiting, thats what those fellas were doing, if you cannot do the same, then carpark dogging, in the traditional sense, isn't for you.
let me tell you about my mate "the master". rolleyes :lol: you see, he gets a lot of results, and i mean a fucking lot..i've written about some of his encounters on the dogging board, which are usually followed by pm's exclaiming " i went to that site, and i didn't see anything, when are the best times"? ok, lets look at the arithmetic.."the master" is single, and dedicated to his art, i'll explain that first. his idea of a dogging session involves waiting around in likely locations for up to six hours at a time, often three times a week, sometimes more. to most guys with comittments, or other, more consuming hobbies, this might appear to be dedication to the point of obsession, but if you look at how much time you spend on the pc, in front of the telly, playing golf, fishing or in the pub then it isn't really so different maybe, and the results speak for themselves..
all too often, blokes complain on the board "dogging must be dead, been out twice, half an hour, and nothing"..therefore, someone who spends two hours a week dogging, is going to have to spend nine weeks "in the field" to get the results "the master" attracts in a week, and nobody is saying he gets action EVERY week :lol: the point is, when i wax lyrical about his frequent conquests, i ain't kidding, i'm just talking about a flesh and blood dogging machine. :lol: not everyone can put the time in, and those that don't, simply aren't going to get those results.
its because of the sporadic nature of dogging that those who's desire to sit in front of the screen is greater than the desire to sit in the carpark have sought to compress the game into an "event" for some couples, especially those that seek large audiences or numerous cocksmen, this option is also preffered, which in turn has given rise to a sort of dogging "happy hour" :lol: so to answer the question of whether there is a "best" time, yes, probably,depending on what you are hoping for, and at our venue, its often so extreme we call it the "dogging circus", and it ain't for the feint hearted :lol: its also the time that the police and boy racers are most likely to pay more than passing attention.
having said that, traditional dogging is more likely to happen at such times that the crowds have dispersed and a sense of sanity has returned to the carpark..as an individual, you have to decide what you seek from dogging, and play the game to say, "the master's" most memorable and erotic conquests are always well away from the madding crowd, he prefers the intimacy of such encounters, but that approach is a long way from the "form an orderly queue with yer pants around yer ankles" brigade..its each to their own wink

total agree i have spent hours and hours with nothing but that excited feeling in your gut that today may be the day, i love it when a new car pulls up....could this be it ....in honestly i have only had a handfull of pure full on fun but i have enjoyed the antisipation so very much
keep on going
fry