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Is it just me who has come across the idea that the sport of dogging is dying???
I have visited my usual haunts and noticed the decline over the years, but even when visiting well known places like cannock and blidworth i noticed that even though people are going there they doesnt seem to be much going off apart from perhaps watching a porn dvd through someones back window.
I'm a bit tired of it personally as it i feel that now days i seem to be the only show as no one else who i have come across either choose not to around me or just don't period!
With well known places i have been to, i have been asked to play or watch, but then nothing happens. As if the thought that i said i would is satisfaction enough and they can go home and still think they are sexy cause someone out there in a carpark was interested.
Is it just me, or have others noticed this?
perhaps im chatting bollocks, but i am drunk!
Is it a sport? maybe if you being chased with a inch of your life then i suppose you could call it that.
All i know is round my way the police are waiting in unmarked cars and have also made sure locked barriers are down over some park so this will make people not bother i guess.
Is it worth a On the spot fine or arrest? i dunno all depends on how much you enjoy never taken part in any dogging but maybe in some places the risks are not worth it.
Hope you get some replys from better placed people than myself.
Take care
Ty.
where do you get the instant fine from tyeracer i think guys like you shouldnt try to put people off with talk about something you ve never tried weve been dogging 15 years and never heard of anyone being fined
The local areas that I visit certainly have been busy lately, friday and sat nights very much so.
I can only speak for myself, I go out at night maybe twice a week and tend to go midweek when its a bit quieter and have found that although there are plenty of nights when i return home with nothing happened, there has also bee the occassions when i have been lucky and patient has paid off and I have had some fun, in fact the most recent time being in the middle of last week.
I first went in spring of last year, end of March, and in just over a year of going infrequently I have had around 25 nights when something has happened, either me watching or being invited to have fun with the female. No doubt going out more would result in a bit more success, but I am happy with how its going as it is.
Sure there are plenty of times when its very quiet and only singles are out, but its the thrill of never knowing whos pulling into the car park when you see the lights.
So dogging is still very much alive and well in this area, of course far more single guys than couples but then its always been and always going to be that way.
CS,
Don't you think that it's part of the problem particularly with some of the bigger sites, that with the influx of the large numbers of single men it's turned into a social gathering rather than dogging.
It's either the men are getting out of the cars and talking in groups to pass the time or couples are sitting round waiting for other couples and won't do anything in front of the hordes of men from the group that's been sitting on a bonnet chatting all night that descend as soon as they park up.
There is still dogging going on and there are couples and singles who are enjoying watching and participating but I believe that it's happening more and more at the smaller less well known sites away from the masses.
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CS,
Don't you think that it's part of the problem particularly with some of the bigger sites, that with the influx of the large numbers of single men it's turned into a social gathering rather than dogging.
It's either the men are getting out of the cars and talking in groups to pass the time or couples are sitting round waiting for other couples and won't do anything in front of the hordes of men from the group that's been sitting on a bonnet chatting all night that descend as soon as they park up.
There is still dogging going on and there are couples and singles who are enjoying watching and participating but I believe that it's happening more and more at the smaller less well known sites away from the masses.

Snerts :thumbup: CS kiss
We have moved away from our usual haunt for the very same reason that CS mentions above (the social club). I do like having a chat, but not going just for a chat quickly followed by all 10 of the social club descending on us as soon as we decide we want to have some fun.
We have been using a new place and the first couple of times, even though it was very busy, a really nice guy :kiss: looked after us and kept the crowds away. But the last twice we have been, we have been swamped with guys, even one who went round knocking on the doors of cars saying that something was going on. It was enough to drive us away, and another couple playing in the car at the side of us. Probably wont be going back there again :cry:
Seems the good old fashioned, no advertised anywhere places are the ones to be at lol
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We have been using a new place and the first couple of times, even though it was very busy, a really nice guy kiss looked after us and kept the crowds away. But the last twice we have been, we have been swamped with guys, even one who went round knocking on the doors of cars saying that something was going on. It was enough to drive us away, and another couple playing in the car at the side of us. Probably wont be going back there again :cry:

I am sure had that guy been there the last few times you would have been looked after again :kiss: ... there are some dickheads who always spoil it.... mad
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I am sure had that guy been there the last few times you would have been looked after again kiss

Mr Frogster saves the day
Or should that be saves the car park lol
At least I didn't have to deck anyone.... I find a polite but firm "Fuck Off" with a mean scowel usually works... biggrin
You all have the point (apart from the guy mentioning the fine, dont talk bollocks man!), i shall consider other venues to find something more suited to myself, and get back to you all with my results.
We agree C_S that you can go out & even though theres loads of ppl there, nothing happens :cry:
But at times there are too many single guys there who dont take no for an answer & decide to follow you all over mad we were followed last night by an arse or two who gave up after a mile .
Maybe we should all invest in those gizzmo's you get that scroll a message like the police have when they pull in front & it says "pull over" or "follow me" Maybe doggers can have 1's that say "Cpl's only" or "No singles" or "All welcome" or whatever your looking for (plz dont bite my head off msg box idea just a bit of fun lol)
On the whole C_S maybe your going through a quiet time & come the warm weather they will be worship the ground you walk on begging you to watch/participate :thumbup:
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Maybe we should all invest in those gizzmo's you get that scroll a message like the police have when they pull in front & it says "pull over" or "follow me" Maybe doggers can have 1's that say "Cpl's only" or "No singles" or "All welcome" or whatever your looking for (plz dont bite my head off msg box idea just a bit of fun lol)

I want one, lol
Can you just imagine putting a new message on each time you go into a car park "can the sexy guy leant on the silver car come over here now, the rest of you feck off" :lol: :lol:
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Can you just imagine putting a new message on each time you go into a car park "can the sexy guy leant on the silver car come over here now, the rest of you feck off" lol :lol:

It's a 4x4 not a car... remember biggrin
anyway you dont need one you just text wink ....
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Can you just imagine putting a new message on each time you go into a car park "can the sexy guy leant on the silver car come over here now, the rest of you feck off" lol :lol:

It's a 4x4 not a car... remember biggrin
anyway you dont need one you just text wink ....

It could work with blue tooth n people's mob if everyone buts their ID as cpl or single etc. lol, might try it for a giggle next time lol.
We all know the proper doggers and watchers are very rare at the most popular old sites now as they get just as fed up with the "please post me a letter to confirm the show" types sitting around everywhere now. Dogging has always been thus , and goes in cycles . Since a large part of the fun for old school doggers is telling their best stories ( fair enough when you have sat around without a sniff of pussy for three nights on the trot) then word always gets round of a well "coupled" site . The dickwads then arrive slowly but surely (quicker now with the net as a help) and then the site is ruined -at least temporarily . Folk still love to show though , so the action moves on and the few braver couples start perhaps with an arranged meet or two at a new place - then the story gets told in another place , and so the cycle goes on .
Im sure someone with such delightful attrubutes as Ms Chaos (xx) will soon be informed of a new and less ridiculous venue - the trick is not to ask the watchers CS hun , after all they want you to stay right where you are - ask the players , they will know xx
Keep having fun , we need more young blood in the carparks like you xx
You could always try asking the watchers that are not standing-around with the crowd !
And, Mr G, I cannot resist mentioning the "travelling" dogger. He not only doesn't live locally, but probably not even in the same county !
You can spot them on here asking: "Is there anywhere to go dogging in Beds or Bucks, there are too many people in Herts"
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Im sure someone with such delightful attrubutes as Ms Chaos (xx) will soon be informed of a new and less ridiculous venue - the trick is not to ask the watchers CS hun , after all they want you to stay right where you are - ask the players , they will know xx
Keep having fun , we need more young blood in the carparks like you xx

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Somebody dipped you in red paint then CS?
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