Edinburgh/Fife Dogging 12th July

How many times has an organised 'meet' never happened ?

11 Jul 2003

Hi.
I will be in the Fife area on evening of Sat 12th July. Anybody going to be around for some dogging fun ? I am more interested in just watching at first, maybe participating if the opportunity presents itself as the evening goes on. Would be happy to take photos or video of couples, but, of course, only if asked. Get back to me by PM or email to .
Thanks for reading !
Doug biggrin

11 Jul 2003

Sorry we are not in that area but as an answer to you poll we find that the only way to get some fun is to get to know people well and then arrange organised meetings as in the past we have had lots of problems with idiots or have never found anything when we used to go round in search of fun so have given up that style
So nowadays we always organise meetings with genuine people and that way it is garateed when the action starts there is plenty of it aswell as everyone having tons of fun

11 Jul 2003

In reply to K&W, yes but how do you get to know people if they never reply to posts, e-mails etc? Do you arrange just to meet with people at first, eg the pub, then progress from there?

11 Jul 2003

We get to know people through their posts in the forums or the groups we belong to or run .....BUT mainly through chatrooms in our groups as this is not the only group we belong to .....
AND no we dont do Question answer sessions but we like to chat normally to people and thats how we find out as over the coarse of time as no-one can hide their ways forever and in the end the true them comes out..
When we think we know someone and we have things in common we then arrange a meeting outside based on chat only so we can meet each other without the preasure of anything happening ....BUT i must add if all feel comfy that night things can happen or if it doesn't and we like the person we arrange a meeting again and then have some fun...... And we always go on the lines that K will start things as she gets very nervous before any meetings and at the end of the day my priority is her having fun so thats why i leave it to her to decide when things start and we always make that clear to anyone we arrange meetings with
If a person is truely genuine or intrested that person would leave messages aswell as when they do they would leave plenty of info about themselves as we never answer messages on the lines of """ hi im **** when can we meet"" as we always try to make it known that we only seek to meet people we have got to know well due to meeting too many idiots and plonkers other ways in the past
We might not meet as many new people as others but i CAN guarantee that when we do meet someonewe have ten times more fun than those who go and meet any Tom , Dick and Sally as we know we are likely to have lots in common with those we do meet and we will get on wink

We do things this way as in the past we have met people we had just got to know and not knowing to much about them they have turned out to be weirdos aswell as met someone who has tried to split up our marrage and when K told him to F***OFF he has turned agressive and abusive to her in person aswell as through texts etc

11 Jul 2003

Can I just say, K & W, that your post (above) is perhaps the most sensible thing I have ever read on this website ? Shame your in Bucks... Thanks for adding to the thread... can you email me details of other groups, web-sites, etc, that pertain to dogging and/or swinging that you know of ? Many thanks.
Doug

12 Jul 2003

Im sorry to say that we have cut down the groups we belong to from about 50 to around 10 so we can spend more time in the ones we do and not overdo ourselves by trying to keep active in them all and that most are for people around the bucks area ...BUT try (sorry for posting link here) as that is a great group run by an extreamly wonderfull lass and has members from all over the uk aswell as some further afield and in my opinion is one of the best in the MSN groups listings

12 Jul 2003

OHHH thanks for your kind comments on our post as we thought it might have been alittle to long and no-one would read it lol

Our group is primary for people in the bucks area and we are real choosy whom we allow entry to as we are fed up of letting anyone in and then they dont read our rules and take part and at the presant time we are trying to bring it back to life as we was offline for some time and whilst we was things died a bit in there :cry: :cry:
Feel free to press the link where is says our website but i must warn you that our assistant manager does all the entry procedure and if people dont put their asl the reason they would like to join and what they think they can offer the group he refuses entry wink

How many times has an organised 'meet' never happened ?

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