Esher - Dogging Quandry | Swinging Heaven

28 Nov 2007

hiya,
Just thought i would ask politley for the male dooging consortiim to sort themselves out, maybe try reading the stickys on here re hints and tips. mad

:x :x
Why???
Traveling back from a meeting on wednesday i was passing a well known dogging spot in esher and thought i would pop in, daytime !!, cold !! , ill be lucky i thought but i could make some WORK calls and you never know.
evil

Well blow me down there was a couple in their car and as i parked and saw them i think they were a bit shocked but me being polite and resprctful i made a couple of calls and waited to see if they wanted to play ... and they did .. well started to anyway ... until
A car parked behind me and didnt switch of his engine and stared at them constantly. Two more cars drove in and the guys started walking round the couples car looking in. Four guys appeared from nowhere and kept walking up and down. Another car came in and drove in blocking the track.
Well blimey is it me or are some people just damn rude, well i had had enough, i felt sorry for the couple and i think they were quite shocked too as they had stopped playing when the first lot of guys walked round and round, all this in around 10mins, blimey, do they have radios connected to each other, well they spoilt it completly. I drove out to the next carpark, giving up what i thought was gonna be a good thing and guess what, the couple drove out 2 or 3 mins later, i guess they had had enough too.
Good luck to the couple, i hope you wont stop the fun for good.
Hope the guys there shrivle, you spoilt it for us all.
Try being subtle, it can help you know

28 Nov 2007

Maybe I can shed a little light on things.
As you know most areas have more than one dogging spot and there are lots of single males hoping to get some action.
So I have know groups of mates work together.. They go out in different cars to the different spots and wait, when a couple etc come alone they mobile their mates that are waiting in the other locations.
So you can start with one car and then all of a sudden other 3 or 4 can come along before you know it.
The competion is so big in dogging for single males that they are trying everything to gain an advantage
I am not say this is right of them, I am just saying this is what happens

28 Nov 2007

Its what gives single males a really really bad name, and erhhhh this was during the day

28 Nov 2007

Sounds just like the idiot doggers in surrey - rude and ignorant and always spoilng everyones fun
They will never change, worst behaved in the whole country - well certainly most impatient!
SC

28 Nov 2007

Do you think it makes a difference if there are more singles males looking in an area for fun than there couples, or is it just down to the local culture?
You know is it due to the more people looking for a very few or just people in some areas are jerks?

28 Nov 2007

Many doggers are active by day by marital neccessity or similar..Couples are relitivly fewer by day which makes their presence even more the causation of frantic activity within the dogging ranks lol

(its also a major cause of carpark closures)
The network issue (mobile phone etc) is a feature of many such venues and is always certain to procure the biblically proportioned crowds you described..(watch a car drive in, then pause..if you see the tell tale glow, leave! its gonna get interesting rolleyes

:lol: )
The pack hunters have their own code of conduct..it's "one for one, one for all"(or something like that) confused

which usually translates to "nobody gets fuck all"..only they do...the visiting girls that do forty a night for foreplay :lol: but its a fanny, so it'll be a result (pack hunters are almost invariably shaggers and will invariably shag anything) wink

...out of neccessity :lol:
The couple might have left, but in our own experience, if they are ow't like us, they'll hang around the area until they get a result :wink: We'll often return an hour or so later, or sit in a quieter spot for a while biggrin

It pays to not throw the towel in too early..we've often returned to a venue only to find not only has the shite slid out of the carpark, but all the good blokes too :shock: always a gut wrencher that :cry:
p.s. you can whisper to the dogging consortium as politely as you like..they'll take no notice whatsoever :wink: they never have, and they never will..as a polite fella, they'll look upon you as a muppet :wink: (i've heard it said, many many times).

28 Nov 2007

we simple ignore the masses until they go off and piss off someone else or its there bed time!
then the fun begins.
the crap doggers all think we are time wasters.
the good doggers have a great time and keep there mouths shut
The laws of dogging are like many in life.
the more crap dogger the less the couples
simple really.
Do the couples stop playing of course not they just get smarter and learn the ropes from other couples who pass on the names or interduce the good doggers. which ends in a few getting almost everything and the couples know its all good becouse word travels fast around a dogging area.

28 Nov 2007

I was at esher last year and was lucky enough to meet 2 women(first time ever), we were playing and loads of guys came over and the girls said they only wanted to play with me so I told the guys to leave us in peace, you guessed it, they took no notice and the girls left!.
I was not happy.
This is why there are more arranged meets now.

28 Nov 2007

It's been like for a while, I forget when I last had something to myself, even if you do get a couple your not alone for long as the ant hill mob normally turn up and spoil the fun.
Don't forget the couples try out car parks and when these are busy they drive off to find quieter ones, thing is because they just drove out of a car park that's busy they will get followed by doggers after the scent and by the time they settle in what they think is a quiet car park they get caught up by the original crowd chasing after them.
It's a shame as it's spoiling it for everyone, if it's not kids or police it's doggers who haven't got a brain and keep driving around all night on main beam, some of them even have the cheek to ask if they have missed anything, that's after scaring the only couple all night off by driving in and lighting them up.

28 Nov 2007

I think couples dogging will become a thing of the past soon, the only people dogging will be gay/bi men.