Ok - I've been emailing a couple who want to meetup tonight for my first dogging experience. I've got the usual butterflies etc, and these people have a van.
It was initially another website I contacted them on, and they seem to have two adverts under the same email address. One is 6 months previous and has a different female name. I asked about this, and the adverts suddenly conform.
There is another thing that makes me a little uneasy - there's another advert (no pic) with a very similar advert - looks like a typo - advertising a similar age couple in the same area with a difference of the female of 10 odd years.
They've told me she's into giving head and splitroasting (safe).
It's an hours drive to a place I don't know, but is a particularly well known dogging location at a reasonable hour (not late about 9)
I've got a mobile number which I could ring - but apparently for directions only.
Does this sound mildly suspicious for any reasons?
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Sex God
If it's your first time and you have *any* feelings of unease, I would say you should go with your gut feelings.
If they have provided you with a mobile number but told you not to call it unless you need directions, I would say you are probably right to be suspicious.
I understand that they may not want you to call when they may be at work, or having dinner with the kids etc when it could be awkward to chat properly, surely there must be a slot in their timescale in which you could just have a short chat with the female to confirm any details you may have arranged?
If we make arrangements, I *always* chat to the guy before hand, just so I can get a feel for him and also so he can be reassured that I am indeed female! It is not uncommon for single guys to pose as a couple and this is where it can get out of hand
Casual dogging on the other hand is entirely different in that you never know who will appear, which adds to the fun :twisted:
Take care in whatever you decide to do and I hope it works out well for you
Tracy-Jayne & Jon
If they have provided you with a mobile number but told you not to call it unless you need directions, I would say you are probably right to be suspicious.
I understand that they may not want you to call when they may be at work, or having dinner with the kids etc when it could be awkward to chat properly, surely there must be a slot in their timescale in which you could just have a short chat with the female to confirm any details you may have arranged?
If we make arrangements, I *always* chat to the guy before hand, just so I can get a feel for him and also so he can be reassured that I am indeed female! It is not uncommon for single guys to pose as a couple and this is where it can get out of hand
Casual dogging on the other hand is entirely different in that you never know who will appear, which adds to the fun :twisted:
Take care in whatever you decide to do and I hope it works out well for you
Tracy-Jayne & Jon
Sex God
i would be a bit reluctant to drive an hour to meet someone i had doubts about.
perhaps you can send them a message asking if it is ok to call them as you have a couple of questions.. if they are genuine i cant see them taking offense to that.
perhaps you can send them a message asking if it is ok to call them as you have a couple of questions.. if they are genuine i cant see them taking offense to that.
Sex God
Ask for a phone number and ask to speak to both members of the couple. If they refuse they are not genuine - simple as. Genuine people will always be willing to give some sort of contact number. Even if you do speak to them, of course they could be just on a wind up, but that's the chance we all take.
My advice would be to go with your instincts every time.
My advice would be to go with your instincts every time.
First thing im thinking is that loads of folks on here may not use there real name. annonimity might be the primary attraction to Dogging after all.
The ad with the different age however? Did it have the same photo? Im not saying its a big thing to lie about a ladys age but Im not sure this sounds like a good idea. Couples can give whatever stipulations they like as there are loads of us and few of them but you should be able to check them out. The mobile number is encouraging though if they hadnt gave you that I wouldnt give them the benefit of the doubt.
I think that you might be left meeting a guy on his own "the wife couldnt make it...how about it anyway?". After all there are loads of amature sites it would be easy for a wank to save some pics even off someone elses ad and try to pass himself off as a couple or a girl.
A good way round that is to ask for a normal clothed pic...if he pinched the photos he wont have one. If they r a couple with a home computer they are almost certain to have a "clean" pic. you should be abl to recognise the girl from the sexier pics and then there is a good chance they are for real.
Up to you though...hope if you do go you have a good time.
The ad with the different age however? Did it have the same photo? Im not saying its a big thing to lie about a ladys age but Im not sure this sounds like a good idea. Couples can give whatever stipulations they like as there are loads of us and few of them but you should be able to check them out. The mobile number is encouraging though if they hadnt gave you that I wouldnt give them the benefit of the doubt.
I think that you might be left meeting a guy on his own "the wife couldnt make it...how about it anyway?". After all there are loads of amature sites it would be easy for a wank to save some pics even off someone elses ad and try to pass himself off as a couple or a girl.
A good way round that is to ask for a normal clothed pic...if he pinched the photos he wont have one. If they r a couple with a home computer they are almost certain to have a "clean" pic. you should be abl to recognise the girl from the sexier pics and then there is a good chance they are for real.
Up to you though...hope if you do go you have a good time.
there doesn't seem to be a safety issue here,mainstream venue,early evening,if all you have to lose is an hours drive,i'd chance it 't get too hung up on the age or name issue,name change is par for the course,ten years may be generous,so long as the later age isn't 21,i wouldn't concearn myself too much!!..assuming they dont know your vehicle,get there early and see what happens,you can always make an excuse for not making yourself known immediatly,dont leave it too long though,(a) its rude,(b) some other dogger may get lucky,(c) they may leave!! good luck,let us all know how it turns out?
Couldn't get through on their mobile number, turns out they'd made a very small mistake writing it down. By the time served up their new number, it would have been too late to meet them. Apparently they're off this weekend, so no matters, maybe we'll meetup when they get back.
If you're going to change your name, shouldn't it be mildly consistant? I mean three different names in three different adverts is a little excessive I think.
If you're going to change your name, shouldn't it be mildly consistant? I mean three different names in three different adverts is a little excessive I think.
Sex God
It doesnt smell a bit Tim ill grant ya mate . However its one of those 'only one way to find out' situations .
Good Luck
Good Luck
