first time - dogging or club?

7 Jul 2005

Hello
I am very new to this. After years of married boredom, I have now found a guy willing to make all of my sexual fantasies come true surprised

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We are keen to get into the swinging scene but neither of us have done anything like it before.
Where does anyone suggest we start?
We thought of going to a few dogging sites, just to watch or maybe going to a club. We are both nervous but incredibly excited about it but I just wondered what the bvest way to get started was?
All advice will be gratefully received!
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7 Jul 2005

My advice is to try a club. They have rules and plenty of people there to make you feel safe. You don't have to do anything you don't want to and if you wanna join in, you can. Alternatively, you can watch or even just stay downstairs, chat to people and make friends. A social event! The point is there's no pressure on you. If someone comes along and wants to be with you that you're not interested in, just be polite and say no thanks and you'll find they'll be fine about it.
I think for your first time, doggin may be a bit intimidating and put you off.
Thanks
Mark

7 Jul 2005

You could always place an advert on SH in the photo ads and arrange to meet either couples or males, whichever you fancy, outdoors at a dogging site then you are in control of who you meet and how many and then you can vet them before you meet. Whatever you decide to do I hope you have fun and stay safe.

7 Jul 2005

Which do want to do ? Theyre completely different things .

8 Jul 2005

we are a couple who visit dogging sites would love to meet up with you we are in west mids get back if interested