First time dogging weird as heck.

23 Sep 2005

Ok, prepared to be shot down in flames here like a total newbie. But I went dogging for the frst time ever the other night. When I say dogging, it was more a case of pulling up in a car park "known" for being a dogging spot. Half the reason was I had been driving for hours and hours coming back the day after bluesxxx's party and.... lame as it sounds, i was going to order a curry for when i got home, but it turns out i didn't have the number in my mobile. But it had been on my mind on the way back that if i was going to stop, I might as well do it at this secluded spot on the North York Moors.... just to... erm.... see.. redface

Anyhows while sitting there in the dark, I felt really... weird. Scary in parts but also very odd. Like i was a fish out of water. I love voyeurism, so the idea of dogging shouldn't be that strange, but just sitting there waiting for something to happen was odd. Not knowing and peering into the dark. Were the other cars there for the same reason?
I have read the "rules" on dogging.... brake lights etc, but are these commonly observed dogging rules, or specific to organised doggers?
Anyhow, I guess my main reason for posting this is to ask this: Do you sit there half waiting for something to happen and half wondering if everyone else is sitting there as fellow doggers, how do you know? .. and do you get scared? Cos i was....

23 Sep 2005

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.. and do you get scared? Cos i was....

Not half as scared as I was the night before your 'dogging trip' when I saw that crop coming towards me :shock:
Dogging can be scary, but thats half the fun, not knowing who will be there, if anyone, not knowing if you will have fun (a bit more of a certainty when its a couple, we just play with or without the doggers).
The rules around flashing lights is not something we have seen very often, and most couples that we have seen normally just flash their interior lights. Other times they get out of the car and just start to have fun at the side of the car. We do it slightly different from some of the others, we turn off all the lights lock the doors and take a big blanket so no-one can see us lol

Oh yeah, and we are taking out caravan next time (just to annoy the boy racers) :bounce:

23 Sep 2005

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.. and do you get scared? Cos i was....

Not half as scared as I was the night before your 'dogging trip' when I saw that crop coming towards me :shock:
Wasn't i bracing myself against you as the crop came down??? I do know one thing... it certainly didn't hit you!!!!

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Dogging can be scary, but thats half the fun, not knowing who will be there, if anyone, not knowing if you will have fun (a bit more of a certainty when its a couple, we just play with or without the doggers).

thanks for that, so it wasn't jst me then who finds it a bit , erm, nerve-wracking... may give it another go at some point... probably on the way back from the yorkshire munch this weekend.

23 Sep 2005

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Theres an escape commitee awaiting your attention. :small-print:

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
hijack? :shock: what hijack confused

23 Sep 2005

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Ok, prepared to be shot down in flames here like a total newbie.

Muaaaaaa haaaa haaaaa....hello new boy :twisted:

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Anyhow, I guess my main reason for posting this is to ask this: Do you sit there half waiting for something to happen and half wondering if everyone else is sitting there as fellow doggers,

Yes, every time! And there's a teensy bit of you that wonders if the people in the car park a mile away are having more luck and makes you think about going there, but something might happen where you are........what to do, what to do lol

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how do you know?

You don't until they get out of the car and light up a ciggie.....no-one gets out of the car to smoke unless they're dogging wink

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.. and do you get scared? Cos i was....

Only if a dodgy looking car pulls in or you think you're being watched....then you want to put down the window and shout "Oi, stop staring at me you filthy dogger", then you realise you can't because you're one too! redface

:lol:

24 Sep 2005

BOO!

24 Sep 2005

Oi silk and big G told you no pictures to be shown.....
I`m a nice boy really redface

25 Sep 2005

Quote by postie
Anyhow, I guess my main reason for posting this is to ask this: Do you sit there half waiting for something to happen and half wondering if everyone else is sitting there as fellow doggers,

Yes, every time! And there's a teensy bit of you that wonders if the people in the car park a mile away are having more luck and makes you think about going there, but something might happen where you are........what to do, what to do

I do that evertime I go, part of me says wait it out then I start thinkiing....... Maybe the best orgy ever to happen is on the next car park, it drives me mad mad

Quote by postie
how do you know?

You don't until they get out of the car and light up a ciggie.....no-one gets out of the car to smoke unless they're dogging

This is true, I get out the car and light a cigarette if I feel uncomfortable with anyone on the carpark. Usually a fellow dogger will also get out and come and talk to you (Better than talking to yourself all night) :lol:

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.. and do you get scared? Cos i was....

Only if a dodgy looking car pulls in or you think you're being watched....then you want to put down the window and shout "Oi, stop staring at me you filthy dogger", then you realise you can't because you're one too! :lol:

I was worried the first time I went but now if I don't feel comfortable.... I just move on!
bolt

25 Sep 2005

I feel pretty weird sitting waiting, which is why I walk about.....and since most couples out showing now don't signal it means I tend to et lucky more than most.
Mind you, if you get to know other doggers you may be able to get them to 'phone you when something is going-on.....they will, when they've got to know you a bit and when they're sure you aren't the bill or news-tripe...............

26 Sep 2005

Yes, every time! And there's a teensy bit of you that wonders if the people in the car park a mile away are having more luck and makes you think about going there, but something might happen where you are........what to do, what to do
Ha ha, excellent other people feel like this too!!! I think part of our problem has been not sitting still long enough. Was out on my own over the weekend and sat in the same spot for nearly two hours... TWO BLOODY HOURS!!! Anyway, just as I was about to bugger off a very nice couple pulled up next to me and.....you can guess the rest.
and do you get scared? Cos i was....
We did the first time when three blokes approached the car from behind, out of the bushes and the shadows, that really freaked her out and nearly put her off for life. And I did the other night when a car with a very burly single bloke pulled up on my left, another to my right and a third blocked the exit to the car park. Scared was an understatement, fortunately another car wanted to get in so the other 3 buggered off. The afforementioned couple also arrived shortly after and whisked me away. Was a scary moment tho' and I'm still not sure what was happening. Lots of things were going through my head.
PS. How do I do that "POSTIE WROTE" trick thing in a box?

26 Sep 2005

Welcome to the dogging club postie mate.
I am usually very comfortable at home in my usual site but I have to admit when I tried dogging in a new site last night (waste of time), I didn't know the layout of the place, nor anyone there and it was soo dark I couldn't see my hand in front of my face and yes I was scared :!:
It's a nightmare game to learn but the good nights make it pay off. I have to say personally my last few trips have ended in misery, but the last time I was succesful (bank holiday monday) was so mind blowingly brilliant it makes it worthwhile overall.
Regards
Harry Jones

27 Sep 2005

Thanks for all the replies... clears up some of those wierd ideas that run through your head while sitting there in the dark.
I did return to the original spot on the way back from the Yorks munch, but the car park was deserted... so i ended up with my head hanging out of the window, looking up at the Milky Way, while smoking a ciggy (as the north York moors have no light pollution the Milky Way is clearly visible). Found that quite enjoyable for a bit...