As the most of you got the jist we were out for fun in Bolton last night and had our worst experience so far.......We went to our usual spot which we won't mention and had some fun for an hour or so and gave a couple of guys a nice show.
Then we left and went off for a cool down and drive round......we went back about 30 minutes later to see if anyone different was there or if everyone had left. Whilst there two cars came on the car park together, one reversed parked to our passenger side and the other drove straight to our driver's side. We felt uneasy at this point and so left.
Main problem, the car that drove in to our driver's side followed us. Once back on the main road, we pulled into a layby hoping he would pass us, he didn't, he drove in behind us and turned his side lights on, flashed us then got out of his car and started walking towards us......at this point hubby put his foot down and drove off as fast he could in a residential area. He followed us all the way to the motorway. We eventually had him driving at the side of us on the motorway staring in our car. We pulled off onto the A580 and managed to lose him, this was after about 30 minutes of him following us.
Please, please, be careful and be aware of a white and a silver astra, the new shape, in this area, espeically if they park up like they did with us.
thanks for the warning we have a male in a purple mini that does that at a dogging site we go to near chester these people should be named and shamed they give some dogging sites a bad name joandtim
You should just drive straight to the nearest cop shop .......................if they follow you there tell the cops they have been following you!!!
sorry to here your about your recent incounter not everyone is like the dickheads you mentioned it might be better to arrange a meet on here then at least you got safety in numbers let me know next time id love a good show
Easiest thing to do is call the police. Phone them and tell them that a car is following you and tell them everything. (you don't need to tell them what you have been up to). Hey presto a police should come along and then the following car will be stopped, driver spoken to and asked to explain what they are doing and the details of said car and person recorded. This should be enough to them out.
I'm probably going to get jumped all over for this, but here goes anyway.
I am a very experienced dogger and would like to relate the following 2 tales.
About 6 month's ago I pulled into a site in the North East at the same time as a couple in a car. Unfortunately the site was overun by fishermen, the couple immediately left, and by the time I had turned my car round and also left they had disappeared. I drove to a nearby dogging site and lo and behold there were the couple. They obviously wern't intent on doing anything so I put my feet up and got out my book. An hour or so later they disappeared. After a while I went back to the first site to see if all the fishermen had gone. There were the couple with 2 other doggers in cars. One of wich immediately came over to me and asked me to F**K off and stop following the couple about !!!!!!. As I was somewhat larger than him, I immediately reprimanded him for both his language and attitude, pointing out to him, that although I was not local I had been dogging that site before he was born.
Lst Friday night. Parked in my local dogging area, been there about 10 mins, couple pull up next to me, flash lights etc. Can't beleive this only been there 10 mins. We were in a bit of a public spot so couple drive over to entrance and wait for me to follow. Fine, off we go. Couple park up in another spot half a mile away. I park next to them. They start to play and put on a nice show. After a while it is obvious that they want me to get out and come over to there car. Now, this site is on the top of a hill, remember the weather last Friday.
I got out and the car door nearly took off with me, the rain was coming in horizontal. I stuck it for a couple of minutes and got back in the car. The couple then set off and I followed them, thinking that we would be going to a more sheltered location. We went to one place, they drove round and out again, another place the same. It was only then I realised that they wanted rid of me, and so obviously I went in another direction.
Now the point of all the above is please don't assume that if someone follows you he is automatically a nutter, as I've tried to show above it can sometimes happen in all inocence. Also some couples should realise that if they do not want the atentions of doggers dont go to dogging sites, if they do, it goes without saying that sometimes they will get unwanted atention just like the rest of us
It may seem obvious, but following anyone if they haven't asked you to is mildly stupid, to put it mildy.
And even if they HAVE asked you to, it pays to be a bit suspicious....there are a lot of shitheads out there, not all couples are genuine.
As for the "phone the law" routine....yes, quite. It'll get no action and waste time.
If you are being followed then forget going to another carpark, at least anywhere near to where you are, and drive well away.....the sort of turd that follows usually hangs around a few carparks in a small area...so going to another means that the guy will be there sooner rather than later.
Carparks are full of assholes....if they ain't druggies they are the dealers, when they've gone you have the downright antisocial cretins closely followed by the ones who drive in with a drunk girl they've picked up in town for a quick shag. In daylight you still have the above but with the addition of the turds with an addiction to breaking car windows and stealing anything lying about loose, if there ain't nothing there to nick they'll do the rest of your windows 'cause they're pissed off.
After all that, you have the dogging and gay cruising community also trying to get a shag, and sometimes they get to mix just a bit. Some doggers drive in and park and wait, others drive in and go wandering. Still more drive in, and in, and in, and in, and then drive past SLOWLY with every light that halfords sells stuck on and lit....except the number plate light that doesn't work (just look down when they drive past and catch the front one)
And with all this shit going on what chance is there of a couple driving in and putting on a show without the INEVITABLE plonker who starts insulting them when the (finally) realise that they ain't going to get a shag ?
I think you missed the whole point again JOMU
All I was trying to say is that sometimes we ALL get it wrong. Doggers and Couples alike we ALL sometimes misread or misunderstand the signals, no matter how long weve been at it. It doesn't help trying to tar everyone with the same brush. We all know there are plonkers out there, there's nothing we can do about it, just carry on and live for the good times when it ocassionally all comes together.
Thanks Rick and Jules you've made my point perfectly
:x :x These sort of twats really get my goat!
