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Has dogging in Essex really ground to a halt?

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unfortunately have to agree travel across the south east and it appears that there is a blitz going on either by police or local authoritys / forest commission in closing or patrolling areas of interest.
recently visited a site in suffolk (not listed) thats had a police car parked with 2 Pcos in it every day for 4 hrs.
obviously no serious crime in suffolk
We dont think it has ground to a halt but is being spoilt by the usual idiots.
Mrs Medic and myself went out tonight and was once again put off by the numptys that insist on pulling up so close they nearly take the paint off the side of the car.
andthe ones that drive up to the side of the car on full top it all one fecking plank pulled up next to us and got an infared scope out to watch us whats that all about ????????????? we are not shy but was it a scope or a camera ??????????????? and people wonder why there are not any couples out and about !!!!!!!!!!!1
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We dont think it has ground to a halt but is being spoilt by the usual idiots.
Mrs Medic and myself went out tonight and was once again put off by the numptys that insist on pulling up so close they nearly take the paint off the side of the car.
andthe ones that drive up to the side of the car on full top it all one fecking plank pulled up next to us and got an infared scope out to watch us whats that all about ????????????? we are not shy but was it a scope or a camera ??????????????? and people wonder why there are not any couples out and about !!!!!!!!!!!1

Mate i'm surprised the Mrs didn't insert his scope where the Sun don't shine. You have both been to our area and know it's not much different, when will some of you single guys take heed?
typical idiot minority ruining good hearted fun for other people!
you get it with everything but cant help wishing they would just piss off! or have some manners, if they think being brazen disrepectful and forceful is going to get them some fun then theres no hope!
hopefully people wont stop just be more choosey and maybe have to organise more as the spontinaity of it all is going bust due to these mugs!
But it was always going to end this way.
Quite simply: Tell people they get free sex just by going to a carpark (etc) and they will go there.
Nothing in that carpark, they go to another.
Others there when a couple arrive....get in first: Get in quick.
As for the police/councils....there is a national policy being implemented by the police/councils/forest-enterprise/health-protection-agency (and uncle-tom-cobbly) called POLICING PUBLIC SEX ENVIRONMENTS.
Google it, have a read. It's what you can expect in your neck of the woods.
Nothing like having a letter arrive, addressed to the householder,
stating that your car has been seen in a layby/park used for sexual activity to get "her-at-home-alone" clued-up to where you have been...and if it drops through your bosses letterbox when you drive the company car... (it's ok if you're the boss !)
Get used to it...it isn't going to go away.
As its been said already,the prats pull up so close to your motor and just sit there staring at you,they must think we will strip off and offer them ??? whatever,it just anit going to happen.
So instead of realizing they anit getting nor seeing anything why dont they just fu*k off ....
Or if it anit the prats its the gay guys,( please look at the post's about the lay-by on the A120,the gays are complaining about m/f cpls having fun,they think its a lay-by for gays only ).
Then its the benny hill crowd , that if you move to another car park they just follow you and again pull up next to you,dont they get it, if you move away from them, then were not intrested in you,WAKE UP AND GET A LIFE.....
H/way hse has double yellow lines both sides now. I have had some fun there recently, but parinoid about getting a parking ticket.
The A120 nr braintrre; I have only ever seen 1 couple there...
Quote by Islandcpl1
Ok there are a great number of prats and fools out there spoiling it for people like ourselves who like to have a little fun. So how do we go about havin some fun without the idiots?

How about orginise it on here first
Has to be mobiles I reckon, I dont mind giving my number to anyone who asks..... nothing to hide here... Just a canny lad lookin to meet canny people.....
MrD
Quote by Islandcpl1
Ok there are a great number of prats and fools out there spoiling it for people like ourselves who like to have a little fun. So how do we go about havin some fun without the idiots?

How about orginise it on here first
That sounds like a great idea, but we can't mention place names etc,,,, anyone any ideas on hows to set this up discreatly so that people can get together without the pillock elliment getting wind of what we are doing??...Gad does that make me sound snobbish or what

why can't you private message the people you want to meet !!!
Quote by Islandcpl1
Ok there are a great number of prats and fools out there spoiling it for people like ourselves who like to have a little fun. So how do we go about havin some fun without the idiots?

How about orginise it on here first
That sounds like a great idea, but we can't mention place names etc,,,, anyone any ideas on hows to set this up discreatly so that people can get together without the pillock elliment getting wind of what we are doing??...Gad does that make me sound snobbish or what

why can't you private message the people you want to meet !!!
But then surely we end up in the same position that we have now, where seemingly no dogging fun looks to be happening because its all done via pm or mobile phone. Im looking for a way to facilitate fun while at the same time weed out the idiots and time waisters.
Think there will always be idiots and time wasters, unless you start a dogging group with people you know and trust and find a new venue !!!
Havana,
I agree, unfortunately we'll never be rid of them, I'm from up north but now a sponsored southener..... wink :wink:
Islandcpl1
If anyone wants my number just drop me a line... Reliable clean discreet and funny...... what more do you need!!
Speak soon
Gian
most regulars at dogging sites now as soon as a couple pull in they ring everyone the know telling them next thing you know a dozen blokes all over the place we know at least 5 sites that work exactly like this