Hey guys,
Went dogging yesterday with GF and came upon other couples twice but neither of them seemed to be really interested in being watched. Both were at popular local spots. We drove in. Parked a little away (not right next to them but close enough for both to watch) They were fucking at the start, then when we came they stopped and drove off lol. Just wondering are we doing something wrong or were we just unlucky?? We didnt get out car and approach or anything like that and weren't pushy.
All of the above is true , and what you are describing is partly why trying to write down 'rules' and 'regualtions' for dogging just makes it a nonsense . truth is no one can tell you what is happening - you have to hoist up your courage and find out . Part of the appeal of dogging as opposed to pre arranged swinging is that it always has an element of uncertainty , and the unexpected pleasure of quite how far thing go is a major part of the thrill . There is every chance the couple in the other car were thinking exactly the same as you guys and you were all sitting waiting and hoping for some sign .
Our advice is totally ignore all the advice on signals , rules and etiquette etc and just go with your gut . As a young attractive couple I am sure the worst thing you will experience is a polite no thanks if you approach or begin some fun so they can watch . Whats the harm in that ?
Peace
Yeah i suppose you guys are right. It was at nighttime when we went out. Yeah it was wierd but never mind. Gonna try again tonight lol.