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Casanova
Hi FunInBrum - I've sent you a PM. Hope it will help.
Hi Fun in Brum,
Read your thread on the Meet up Forum and although details of where you tried were blanked out, am able to let you know of a few spots that are still in regular use, and even a couple of places that you can move to after meeting so that you are not hassled by too many guys/police.
Only just registered on the site so haven't found out how to do the pm's yet so get back to me and I'll tell you more!
BG30
Read your thread on the Meet up Forum and although details of where you tried were blanked out, am able to let you know of a few spots that are still in regular use, and even a couple of places that you can move to after meeting so that you are not hassled by too many guys/police.
Only just registered on the site so haven't found out how to do the pm's yet so get back to me and I'll tell you more!
BG30
Casanova
Most important thing to learn is not to rush things. Take your time, see what others do, copy the good things, and not the bad. A bad reputation is easilly earned and long remembered.
Don't go out thinking that the dogging world owes you one, or that every time you go, you are bound to score, it doesn't work that way. Sometimes you can go for weeks and months without anything decent to write home about, and other times, like the busses, all the shows come at once, and you can only be in one place at a time.
This is even true of couples. Some friends of mine that I hooked up with the other night, had been on the car park for 90 mins, only to have gays* drive by and ignore them. (There was one truck driver who was also there on foot but never got to within 30 yards of their car. So there you are...other people's disinterest meant that it was my lucky day after I arrived, and I got to "christen" their new car to boot! Sometimes it just happens that way.
That said, I know for a fact that it will be 2 - 3 months before they venture out again, as they work crazy shift patterns. So as you may gather, pot luck has a large part to play in all this as well.
* - no it's not a mis-spelling. The only guys on the car park that night had "alternative interests", none of which included meeting a delightful young lady and her husband. Which reminds me, expect a lot of interest from the gay guys if you are out on your own while you are new to the scene. Doggers don't come labelled as such so they won't know that you are not one of them at first. If you have a problem with that (and I'm not suggesting that you do or don't, just putting all the cards on the table) don't let it get at you.
Don't go out thinking that the dogging world owes you one, or that every time you go, you are bound to score, it doesn't work that way. Sometimes you can go for weeks and months without anything decent to write home about, and other times, like the busses, all the shows come at once, and you can only be in one place at a time.
This is even true of couples. Some friends of mine that I hooked up with the other night, had been on the car park for 90 mins, only to have gays* drive by and ignore them. (There was one truck driver who was also there on foot but never got to within 30 yards of their car. So there you are...other people's disinterest meant that it was my lucky day after I arrived, and I got to "christen" their new car to boot! Sometimes it just happens that way.
That said, I know for a fact that it will be 2 - 3 months before they venture out again, as they work crazy shift patterns. So as you may gather, pot luck has a large part to play in all this as well.
* - no it's not a mis-spelling. The only guys on the car park that night had "alternative interests", none of which included meeting a delightful young lady and her husband. Which reminds me, expect a lot of interest from the gay guys if you are out on your own while you are new to the scene. Doggers don't come labelled as such so they won't know that you are not one of them at first. If you have a problem with that (and I'm not suggesting that you do or don't, just putting all the cards on the table) don't let it get at you.
