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hello all,
As u can see i'm a newbie round here and i'm politely asking for some advice if anyone can help, we will be very gratefull for anyone's advice and info if they can.
We are a bit of a young couple (dont worry not teenagers). but are very interessted in all kinky things and dogging is high on the list. Now we tried to go local in a known spot but basicly it did'nt go too well were not quite sure how it's all suppose to happen or exactly what it is that we have got to do,
But firstly me and my girlfriend wanted at first just to let people watch us and for us them.
but it always seemed that the guys were only bothered about what they are gonna get which annoyed my girl. they kept tapping on the window asking for a bj while we were busy and it kinda put us off a bit mad
and we have yet to find another couple out either, i must ask is it that couples dont go with other couple's together? or are they there just for the single guys?.And do people discrimanate against younger couples? we are eary 20's. Also how about bi men and women are they welcome either anyways thanks for the help sorry if this is in the wrong place i'm soo new to these forum thingymebobs
P.s we live near cannonck chase if there are any couples fancy to take us under there wings and show us what its about that would be great
hi guys,i'll try and address some of your points.....i'm assuming you are new faces at a venue that enjoys it's fair share of interactive dogging?..we covered aspects of this in a previous thread,you probably missed it being new,no,dont bother trawling through,you'll never find it now.....the guys were out of order,desperation to have first pickings of fresh meat made them act like that,either tell them to fuck off,or find another venue where your show will be appreciated for what it is...if,in the future,you decide to explore further, then,you will have the confidence to deal with that attitude........all other points,age ansd sexuality,fine!!!...the only rules are your rules,plenty of people will only be too glad to play by them,if not,leave,not your problem..........bi guys and bi girls?loads of them,couples wanting to watch you,or be watched,yes,fix up a meet,but dont go to a big site to play.......any quiet place away from passers by is a dogging site,its just that the others haven't found it yet!
Hi Guys,
Take Dirtys advice, you won't go far wrong. The idiots who tapp on windows need to be told to fuck off then ignore them. As a single guy I will wait until invited to move really close, just watch from a small distance.
Happy Dogging guys, don't let the idots put you off. If I am around the area sometime would be more than happy to watch you. lol
regards
DPM
Hi 2big,
You are in luck, Take a look at the "we'll meet again !!!" thread and you will find a group of dogers in your area, they're based round your area, though some of us are a bit further away. Get involved in the thread and get to know a few of them and you won't go far wrong. Most of us have actually met each other and you should be able to find someone to help you out.
In general I know it's been said lots of times gefore but....
For any of you newbies out there getting involved in a thread is a good way of getting to know people and just as importantly letting people get to know you.
With all of the idiots publishing locations on the net; real dogging is moving to smaller unspoiled spots and unless you want to be chased by the press, police, boy racers and the " I'm here so you should shag me " brigade, you need to get them to trust you enough to give the site locations.
Sorry mods if this is a bit long but if it helps another couple enjoy their dogging then it's worthwhile.
Anyway
Good luck 2big
Enjoy biggrin wink
i dont mind guys tapping on my window hehe
Thank's dirty, dpm,snert and kinky girl thats been great, u do all obviously know what your talking about.
our first time was a bit crap but we knew that wud probably happen, we were thinking ppl are'nt going to take us seriously cos were a bit younger but if anything its just made us more eager to try again. My girlfriend is abit insecure at the minute but i think once we lose our 'car park virginity' and maybe get to know ppl it will be better for her. i think what bothers her is that it seems not many girls /couples go but we are willing to be pateint but guys are still welcome too.
your all right tho, i think i would feel more comfortable if we got to know a few ppl from here so thanx for being kind and making me feel welcome to these forums as i would like to stick around.
P.s just another quick question (sorry) but is it alright to go in a van cos thats all i drive at the mo?
again thanx all
2B2H x
cannot see your van being an issue,unless you are using it to flog cheap booze and electrical items.....your point regarding your girls insecurity is interesting.....quite often,when parked up in a quiet spot,couples new to the scene often latch onto relief on the girl's face,when she realises she isnt the only female in the place is often amusing,and what usually follows is a night of reassuring chatter,which isnt a problem for us,as we go out regularly,so one lost night doesn't make too much difference.......people often forget the girl's perspective on all this,especially when new to the game,guys have to appreciate this,but often choose to ignore it,which ultimatly turns it into an intimidating experience...every guy thinks it would be his dream to enter a site,with 40 girls dribbling at his window,tapping on the glass "cmon big boy,give us a lick"!...i wonder how long they would stay......anyways,you sound cool,only a matter of time before you are posting your experiences,to think,only 15 or so months ago,we were like you guys!..and we used a van then too!
Hi 2BIG2HANDLE, welcome to the site! You will very soon become adicted to both the site and to dogging. We are still fairly new to this (you wouldnt think that with all the posts I keep doing) but it can be very intimedating at first, but take it easy, there is no rush to do anything and just make sure you enjoy it along the way!
Take the advice of DirtyDoggers (my mentors) and I am sure that before long you will also be posting your exploits on here!
And if the guys knock on the window, just ell them to F**k Off (I felt so good after saying that to a bloke who had parked about 2 ft away from our car and we had not even got our seat belts off) Just a quick word of warning, if your girlfriend is a bit on the quite side, you will soon find that is a thing of the past!!! I used to be fairly quite and lacked confidence. Since we started doing this, people have commented just how much more confident I am! Look at the avatar, on Friday night I approached a complete stranger and just asked him if I could sit on his bike to take some adult pictures! Would never have done that a year ago!
Good luck and keep posting!
Di
xxxxxxx
everybody above ^^^^^^, you're all being great and so kind and you have done an excellent job in getting my better half wanting to go again (yippie) so i owe you all one.
i'm now looking forward to joining in these forums and making some great new friends.
if i'm being annoying or just asking to many questions please just tell me to shut up no offence will be taken i dont want to be the person known for bugging ppl etc,
but i must say since i've found this website its made me even more looking forward to our first proper experiance and has gave us a bit more confidenceabout it so it cant be long now biggrin
thank u 2b2h xxxx