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G/F fanatsy is to go dogging and also to have sex with vwe men , but when push comes to shove, she backs out. How do i get her to perform her fantasy.
Give her a very large brandy first, works for me
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G/F fanatsy is to go dogging and also to have sex with vwe men , but when push comes to shove, she backs out. How do i get her to perform her fantasy.

You don't 'get' her to do anything. If she doesn't want to do it, that's it. Ever heard the phrase 'no means no'?
Mal
Quote by mickmann
G/F fanatsy is to go dogging and also to have sex with vwe men , but when push comes to shove, she backs out. How do i get her to perform her fantasy.

Got to say this just in case you missed it you dont ever force your wife into anything and if you push it the result will be misery for both of you.
You might consider roll play or as we do when out together pretend you are being watched.
I am hopefull that my partner will come around to full on dogging experience but i will never make her do anything she does not want to do.
Oh by the way if this is her fantasy she will take the initiative and ask you to support her in as far as she wishes to go. Or is it her fantasy......??????????? wink
:welcome: by the way.
shad.
i agree entirly with these other comments never ever try to push as all you will get is grief in the end,be there for her and support but let her make the dicisions, if she would do it maybe come into the chatroom and speak to other ladies ona private
slowly slowly catchee monkey - sorry dogee
best of luck
hi there, i strongly suggest that you take things slow,
a good start would be to visit a well known dogging site
thats if your wife feels comfortable about this,
flash your interior light on and off, guys will come over to your car,
if your wife feels ok she could put on a show for the blokes watching,
leave windows up and doors locked if this is your first time dogging ,
if your wife gets turned on by this "great" you can progress slowly
but if she feels bad in any way or she gets bitter or angry towards you in the days or weeks following your first dogging experience,
never ever do it again ever.
it could ruin your relationship,
Sound advice from u all , Thanks a lot gang