This situation is getting crazy with the profile that dogging sites are getting i think if you dont feel comfortable you should say something. Like most situations people get intimidated when they dont do anything about a situation. If people become abusive write down there number plates. I bet they have more to hide than you which is why there hiding in the bushes. Dont let these people spoil your fun
I've got to admit that the recent press coverage has really made dogging a no go area for some.I myself really don't want to do it,I did go to some sites some time ago but I too found it quite I can gather from others more experienced than I this is par for the course that you have to put up with these idiots.
The problem I found is that there are some men that seem to act like cavemen where dogging is involved, they seem to be very agressive not in a physical way but their demeanor.
I am not,even though it sounds it, trying to put you off dogging it just seems these are difficult times for it! I'd really suggest you try and arrange a meet with people through this site who will be a litle more gentle in their approaches and have the knowledge to maybe try and avoid situations.
Just a quick tip!
If you're in the car and you get surrounded when you don't want to be. Take out a camera and flash it. The crowd will do one pronto. You will piss yourselves laughing about how fast guys can move. It never fails. Try it!
Other problems are not as easy to solve, but that's a good one!
why cant these people show themselves? they appear in a car park with full headlights on establish that a couple is in the car anf sit there in complete darkness. We don't know if theres 1 or 3 people in the car etc.
We have been dogging as a couple around staffordshire carparks for the last 12 months, and have never had problems like that. DONT let it put you normally don't go till after dark, that way we know most people still there are there for the same reason as us, and our genuine. As for the twelve guys and a transvestite, they might have all been on a pre - arranged meet, and you just interuppted their fun, and two weeks ago Ansons was full of reporters, we all know why!. If men come to your vehicle, and your only wanting to watch just tell them so, if they don't dissapear, then just use the trick with a camera like Blue said. As for boy racers , we found they are normally back home in bed by 11,and the carparks all go quite ! But good luck, and be safe, and might see you around.
Magik - they can try to get the cam if they like... but how are they going to get in the car? I suppose they could do it with a hammer, but if they tried it they'd just get run over :twisted: . The truth is this - they panic and don't stick around.... bear in mind that I'm gobby as well, so if I don't want people there they know about it 8)
I think if you started "flashing" a cam in a dogg-ed car park you'd get quite a few guys standing around giving you something to flash AT.
Have put a couple of pms on. :P dog man.