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This situation is getting crazy with the profile that dogging sites are getting i think if you dont feel comfortable you should say something. Like most situations people get intimidated when they dont do anything about a situation. If people become abusive write down there number plates. I bet they have more to hide than you which is why there hiding in the bushes. Dont let these people spoil your fun
I've got to admit that the recent press coverage has really made dogging a no go area for some.I myself really don't want to do it,I did go to some sites some time ago but I too found it quite I can gather from others more experienced than I this is par for the course that you have to put up with these idiots.
The problem I found is that there are some men that seem to act like cavemen where dogging is involved, they seem to be very agressive not in a physical way but their demeanor.
I am not,even though it sounds it, trying to put you off dogging it just seems these are difficult times for it! I'd really suggest you try and arrange a meet with people through this site who will be a litle more gentle in their approaches and have the knowledge to maybe try and avoid situations.
Just a quick tip!
If you're in the car and you get surrounded when you don't want to be. Take out a camera and flash it. The crowd will do one pronto. You will piss yourselves laughing about how fast guys can move. It never fails. Try it!
Other problems are not as easy to solve, but that's a good one!
why cant these people show themselves? they appear in a car park with full headlights on establish that a couple is in the car anf sit there in complete darkness. We don't know if theres 1 or 3 people in the car etc.
We have been dogging as a couple around staffordshire carparks for the last 12 months, and have never had problems like that. DONT let it put you normally don't go till after dark, that way we know most people still there are there for the same reason as us, and our genuine. As for the twelve guys and a transvestite, they might have all been on a pre - arranged meet, and you just interuppted their fun, and two weeks ago Ansons was full of reporters, we all know why!. If men come to your vehicle, and your only wanting to watch just tell them so, if they don't dissapear, then just use the trick with a camera like Blue said. As for boy racers , we found they are normally back home in bed by 11,and the carparks all go quite ! But good luck, and be safe, and might see you around.
Yep - probably your way to go would be to get in contact with a few people you know are genuine, meet them for a drink or something first, and then only then arrange to meet them for a dogging session. Choose a location that is not a well known spot and bob's your uncle, you'll have the place all to yourselves.
If you just want to go and watch, another good trick is to make people think there are two geezers in the car - people will keep well away lol 8)
No one has said it , but perhaps if you are so frightened by these guys standing near your car then dogging isnt the avenue for you .
Not having a go at you or owt , but it has confused us more than a little over recent year or so (as dogging has become one of the ticks on the swingers 'to do list') the way folk are approaching the whole car park scene .
As far as we can see a very large part of the point of dogging , is the thrill and illicit feeling about interacting with complete strangers in a strange environment . We know lots of swingers and all of them have their favourite forms of the lifestyle , many of them not even enjoying the idea of dogging similarly many of them enjoying aspects of it that we wouldnt consider .
Weve posted in lots of places over the net about the attempts to create rules and regulations relating to dogging , and it still seems a nonsence to even try to do that . Its about being spontaneous and tacky and wicked . As soon as meetings become totally pre arranged or there are suggestions of 'meeting for a drink first' or perhaps meeting at a car park and then going elsewhere it kinda defeats the object doesnt it ?
If a couple are more comfortable being in a completely safe , non pressure invironment they really need to think about organised clubs or parties rather than the hit and miss world of car parks. Said it before and will again , trying to bring order and rules to dogging is like organised anarchy , and wheres the fun in that ?
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G n Silk xxxxxxx

the only prob as far as i can see with the camera idea is that...
What if someone feels you have an incriminating picture of them on your camera and decides to come and get the camera?. I know if i had a pic taken of me while i was "losing my inhibitions" id be a bit cheesed off!.
But then i guess you could always start up the car and run them over!.. biggrin
Magik
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Magik - they can try to get the cam if they like... but how are they going to get in the car? I suppose they could do it with a hammer, but if they tried it they'd just get run over :twisted: . The truth is this - they panic and don't stick around.... bear in mind that I'm gobby as well, so if I don't want people there they know about it 8)
I think if you started "flashing" a cam in a dogg-ed car park you'd get quite a few guys standing around giving you something to flash AT.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Yeah, the ones who don't mind being photographed will be on my web site once it's up and running again - it's OK, they won't be recognised by the world - cock shots only :mrgreen:
Have put a couple of pms on. :P dog man.