Easy realy, come to the Wirral sites, park up for an hour or two and be prepared to chat to one or two of the locals that park up next to you.
You could always try Mrs pretending to be giving you a little head, that will get a response from a dogger, drop your window a little and say hello.
there are plenty of quieter spots to move off to ensuring you dont get swamped.. remember you are the boss, you two set the rules, if a thick dogger cant keep to them then their loss, plenty more will!
good luck! hope I see ya there!
Hi there Mr & Mrs Bonediggers,
If it helps let me try and give some advice that may help you in your quest….
These are from the old doggers rules that were passed on to me and have served me well over the years both as a dogger and if I have taken a lady dogging with me.
From reading your post I have made some assumptions… and the answers are tailored to what I think is your situation (they can change as and per your requirement)
1) that you are new to dogging
2) that you do not know the local layout or etiquette for the place you are going to visit
3) you only want a select few to watch… so these are a few tips to help make your first experience an enjoyable one
Ok… here we go….
I would suggest that Mr bonedigger undertakes a little detective work and makes a couple of quick drive ins to the places you are thinking of going before ‘D Day’, do this at different times of the day / night to get an idea of the amount of doggers / parked up cars / couples that frequent the place, these places will also have busy and quiet days. You now need to choose if you want quiet, medium or busy venues… I would suggest that you go for a quiet one to start.
Before the day
Have a few places on your list so that if one is not right when you get there you can go to another.
There are two more places you should have to hand… 1. is a very quiet place a bit of the beaten track (to be able to go to with a selected few if you want more privacy,) and 2. somewhere like a pub / busy place to go to if you are being chased and want to get rid of unwanted tails. (this is just a precaution).
When you have picked your car park / location / venue and the time of day / night it’s time to start to get excited… think about things like:- what you going to wear, do you want 1, 2, 3 watchers or more, what your boundaries are, how long you want the experience to last, and most importantly Mr bonedigger needs to practice his assertiveness skills.
On the day
Dress to impress, I have always found true doggers are usually more respectful and polite if you do.
Slowly drive in to the chosen place, park up away from the other cars, with your car facing the exit route. Turn your lights off, wind windows up and lock doors. Keep your keys in the ignition.
Take your time and only when your ready proceed… If you get the immediate knob heads who approach the car before your ready and want them too, then Mr Bonedigger needs to be assertive… a Sharp “No”.. or “Go away” should do it! Do not be drawn into conversation (doggers will try this tact)… the ones that hold back are more likely to be veterans and more respectful, if you are really unlucky and they are persistent then go somewhere else.
When you are ready, and only when you are ready you can signal. This varies depending on location but a general signal is two flashes of the brake lights or interior light. Mrs Bonedigger by this time should either be attending to Mr Bonedigger or being attended too by Mr Bonedigger, for example, reclined in her seat, etc… (another way is to start talking to doggers and wittle down who you want to watch etc, but I would leave this for the next time when you are a bit more experienced).
Remember… The couple is always in control !!! Mr Bonedigger uses his assertiveness to control the situation… He needs to say How many, etc… (If you highlight one good dogger and tell him you only want 2 watchers for example he should help control this for you!
If you just want watchers, keep windows up and doors looked… opening a window is sometimes taken as an invite to allow hands in…
When Mrs Bonedigger has had enough, wants a rest, decides otherwise…. Mr Bonedigger again needs to inform the doggers of this… “Thanks that’s it” usually will do it, (genuine doggers like to be thanked and should also thank you) but sometimes you will get the hangers on…. Then the “Enough” or even “I said Go Away” and if all else fails “Fuck off” needs to be emphasised.
At the end of the experience, drive out of the venue without being too slow or flashing your brake lights…. This is taken as a sign to follow by some.
Ensure you are not being followed before heading in your home direction. With luck, you will have had a good night and want to return…
Hope this helps……
Frogster.
xxx
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