I WAS OUT LAST NITE DOGGING AROUND DARWEN / BOLTON WHICH WAS RUINED BY TWO CARS ONE A GREEN ASTRA WITH 2 GUYS IN IT AND A SILVER PER WITH 2 GUYS IN IT , THIS PUT OFF 2/3 COUPLES WHO DROVE ON CAR PARK AND OFF AFTER SEEING THESE PLUS 2 NEW YOUNG COUPLES WHO HAD CHATTED ON HERE WERE ALSO PUT OFF BY THESE TWO TOSSERS , 2 GUYS IN ONE CAR IS A NO NO - POLICE ? PRESS ? DRUGS ? GAYS ? NEXT TIME YOU ARE SEEN ON THAT CAR PARK YOU NOS WILL BE NOTED AND POSTED . I FELT SORRY FOR THE TWO NEW COUPLES IF YOU READ THIS AND PM ME I WILL GIVE THEM DIRECTIONS TO A BETTER PLACE FOR THEM TO MEET UP - JUST MENTION WHAT CAR YOU WERE IN THEN I KNOW ITS U
Paul
I am a Gay TV and I think you should appologise to all the Gays who started off using these sites before dogging was invented.
But apart from that i think you are just a single male arse hole and i look forward to meeting you one evening in Bolton.
TS
Yes I was right Paul says he is 43 str8 living nr Blackburn and obviously single.
I must make an effort this week end to see how many dogging sites i can visit around Blackburn and Bolton.
I would be glad if ppl can pm me with dogging locations in the area
Then we can see how many couple i can drive off.
TS
I agree - gay guys are as entitled to go anywhere - but (here we go), it is offputting for a couple to see 2 guys in car.
1. With one guy you feel happier, safer, no trouble problems etc.
2. What are 2 guys there for if they are not gay? - We have all heard how some deliquents get there rocks off on "gay bashing" - its not the gays fault, but they are constantly persecuted by a minority of mindless morons (including the police).
In my opinion - If 2 gays wanna go dogging or whatever its cool.
If 2 straight guys turn up in a car - I wonder if its trouble - and don't blame anyone for driving off or going somewhere else, it makes sense.
Everyone needs to be cautious with all the problems with police, reporters etc.
So Guys - cmon, if your going out looking - go alone.
Gays, you have the right to do whatever you want and I support you, but you have to be even more careful than the rest of us - I can't see a solution but my point is: I don't blame couples from driving off.
personally we couldnt care who is going to watch us wether bi s8 or gay,the excitement is being watched is it not and maybe joining in???
It's not a problem as long as they are doing SOMETHING.
Two guys arriving in a car deserves a close look.
Safety mainly, ignoring the police/press, they may be just plain crooks.
Mind you, it's easy to tell....if you wake up to find your car and wallet gone you can safely assume they weren't gay, police or press.
If you don't wake up, we'll all chip-in for a wreath.
Safety before shagging !
sorry i was not having a go at gays - these guys i doubt they were gays - these guys drove on to the car parks in question in one car and did nothing - ie they sat in the car went from one car park to the next one for about 2/3 hours making no effort to dog or even talk to anyone flash lights etc - since then i have had some info about one of the cars in question and it was the press ok - what i am saying is two guys going out dogging in one car is not a good idea - i am st8 but i have nothing againest gays and hope they have nothing againest me ok
Following is the PM i sent to Paul.
I may come over all as a bit of evil bitch or some thing.
As one of my present friends is a disabled gay he can tell you that I fight for what should be our right as people. So once people start slagging gays off with out thinking first, about what they are saying that opens the door for me, I hope you can see my point.
BTW I will let you give me a blow job if I am in your area, just so that you can see that I have nothing against straight guys.
PS
I have had a number of people send me directions to dogging sites in your area, so you better watch out "Queers R Here"
TS
this doesn't bold well for poor little car-less me does it??
I never really knew how good it was to have a car until I had mine taken away.
If two straight guys did out in a car together, but obviously made the effort to show that they were genuine doggers, would this pose a problem??
In a word. no. Two genuine doggers dogging together is no problem as long as you appreciate that you will have to convince people that you are genuine - not an easy task!
in my own mind i find if you go with that gut feeling you 1st get when you see a car with 2 guys in it you follow it !!!!! as a cpl i know most of the doggers that are able to give their selfs the title ,i know a few of the bi/gay lads that use the same car parks as i do , and a simple hello nod of the head and a quick chat go,s a long way ,,, in finding out whos the 2 strange faces in the motor opp you or in the next car park ,,, n this can make all the diffrence bit ween a good hiding by the do gooders or a pic in the sunday pappers ,,