ignorant newcomer

13 Nov 2005

I guess a comment posted today is aimed at people like myself amongst others which is justified (apologies) but being new to the site, and not knowing the general mood of it, things come out not as well as they could have. Point taken.
As for TOSSERS its like you said, lets not tar everyboy with the same brush. xxx redface

13 Nov 2005

Quote by nawtyboy
....lets not tar everyboy with the same brush. xxx

Well said and 'we' absolutely don't.. unless they continue to behave like a 'tosser' and then it's open season :twisted: wink

Just listen more than you talk... at least for a while, take the advice that's given to you as constructive and NOT as patronising and you'll be just fine mate.
And above all.. remember this is not .. that's about it really :P
Good luck biggrin

13 Nov 2005

Again refer to my further comment. We are not tarring everyone with the same brush neither are we calling everyone TOSSERS, it is just getting very annoying everytime we go out.
If you are offended and feel you shouldn't be as you have a just reason then explain. Otherwise I think the previous persons comment of listen before you speak is very valid.
We all want some safe fun.
Lets try and have some.

14 Nov 2005

We were all newbies once, and we've all crashed and burned! Hopefully some will crash burn and learn, others are opening themselves up as candidates for Tosser awards.
But yeah, I do have every sympathy for couples who are facing the trendy dogging generation, with that attitude of a god-given right to a shag. Reminds me of a time a "tosser" on this site put up a post saying it was party night at my local car park, and lo-and-behold the liquorice all-sorts arrived. I even had one BMW full of Asian yoofs pull up besides me (and others, all in turn, parked up minding their own business) asking "where's all the action, where are all the women looking for some boom-boom". They didn't care a toss who might have got upset at what they were alluding to. They weren't goiing to be there the next day to pick up the pieces of a scene that they had ruined. And as for the other mindless tossers with their cameraphones - well see the other thread.
confused

14 Nov 2005

Didn't realise that I had upset so many! redface

Maybe not me, but the subject matter, I have spent many a lonely hour at places and have had my just rewards. I am not a window licker who goes around wankin to the slightest bit of action myself, but I am sure there are plenty of those who do, and can fully understand how the more seasoned dogger wants to stop those who do, or the activity itself. The advice has been well appriceated and taken on board. Again I apologise for any offence caused, will be patient and hopefully make some nice friends along the way. Lots of love xxx. smile

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14 Nov 2005

Quote by nawtyboy
Didn't realise that I had upset so many!

I can't see that so many people are upset by anything you've said.......a little confused perhaps, but not upset dunno

14 Nov 2005

Hi Serendipity,
Thanks hun, yeah a little confused maybe. Think I understand now, patience and good manners eh. xxx
smile

14 Nov 2005

Quote by nawtyboy
Hi Serendipity,
Thanks hun, yeah a little confused maybe. Think I understand now, patience and good manners eh. xxx

And can you learn to use the 'Reply' button rather than the 'new topic' one - I'm dizzy with trying to merge all your oneliner/one post threads into a proper conversation???
cool

8-)

14 Nov 2005

Hi jags
Yeah sure no problem got it now (finally) will do in future mate. biggrin