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Quote by mart2008
90 views. no reply's. sad really. it shows how bad things have got on the south wales dogging scene
No, it just means we are all too soft to risk going out in this weather
Hope you do find some brave couple to meet and end up finding some nice ways of keeping warm
Thanks NWC. At least its been dry. Given the choice between wet or cold, i'd choose cold every time, (unless we're talking about pussies). Anyway, it has'nt been that cold and go back a few years, dogging used to be a all seasons pastime. The couple kept their heater on and the dogger stood outside in the cold. I think too many people have come to expect windows to be opened and female to be groped. What ever happened to the good old 'show'. I'm more than happy to just watch.
Sex God
Oh yes I fully agree, we do go out all year and often find that this cold weather is much more fun that the hot summer nights. I just got a thermal G-String to keep my bits warm
Very true. Last winter, a regular couple used to insist on our hands being numb with the cold before allowing us to fondle her tits. She loved it. Her nipples went hard as rock. Sadly, yet another couple that seem to have disapeared from the scene.
May i take this opportunity to wish you a very merry christmas and a fun filled new year.
May i take this opportunity to wish you a very merry christmas and a fun filled new year.
Being a "show only" couple can be a bit weird to say the least Mart!
I mean, it doesn't matter if the carpark is full of shagger guys (many now are), if only they'd keep their frustrations un-voiced, or have a wank instead :lol: You see, if they were really horny, and wanted now't more than a damned good shagging...it wouldn't matter to us in the least..But, nowadays, they just can't help themselves, they HAVE to ruin it by asking for BJs and stuff..it kinda lets you know they ain't really that interested :lol: They don't want to rattle one off in case something more charitable turns up, so they bang on the glass asking if you are up for some fun
I thought that WAS fun, but obviously not anymore :lol:
Ahh, I can't knock the fellas, there are some happy go lucky guys out there for sure, but you always get the vocal few that broadcast their displeasure..As you'll know, even a few years ago, a "prickteasing" couple were one that took the piss by acting all flirty, then pissing off laughing their pubes off the fucking rascals :lol: Nowadays, you shag yer missus with the doors locked and you are a "prickteasing" pair of c**nts for not allowing the guys to join in :shock:
We saw a show a year or so back..Young couple, really excited about the thrilling pastime they'd just discovered..All they knew was that there was four guys watching, and to them, that was great..you could see they were revelling in it bless them..so giggly yet passionate..lovely!
However..What they weren't aware of, thankfully, was the conversation outside..One fella turns to me and says "you'd think he'd fucking share it" (obviously assuming he was in like minded company)..My reply was "why, its not compulsory is it?" His face dropping slightly "my mate ere said this place was good, i've fackin drivin all the fackin way from London to empty me fackin nuts, fackin shit innit" :?
Mrs Dirty then got out of our parked car and goose stepped over for a gander..The fella got all animated thinking sense had prevailed and mrs Dirty was about to address his distress by sucking him orrf, which she didn't :lol:
It should be simple being a show couple..We show for anyone, it doesn't matter a fig to us how old, ugly, fat, smelly or hung..they are just voyeurs..BUT some are worse than fucking power supply salesmen these days...A recent show we did down a track was going quite well..The guy asks that i open the window a little, which i did...hand straight in, and on dirty's dirty great hairy twat! I said, "sorry mate, its paws off i'm afraid"...He leered at me like i was a fat twat (which i am, but he didn't have to remind me!)..and stormed off, after calling us a "waste of fucking time" :?
That IS the way you often get treated i'm afraid..We couldn't really give a fuck mind, we're too long in the tooth to be worried about stuff like that, besides, it gives me lots to write about.. :lol: But so many guys expect and demand sexual services that "showing" can just cause frustrations to boil over :twisted:
Then you go in the chatroom..
"hey DD you been out tonight"
"yeah, only an hour"
"cool, how many did she have?"
THAT is a true example, but it is the way many see the game these days :lol: Dogging and free shag have become synonymous really..Mind you, i was saying the same thing five years ago We did get "thumbs up" back then though :lol: now we just get guys trying to give us their mobile numbers in case we change our minds :lol:
Tell ya what..Its less problematic "showing" to members of the public than doggers these days..At least they appear gratefull :lol:
I mean, it doesn't matter if the carpark is full of shagger guys (many now are), if only they'd keep their frustrations un-voiced, or have a wank instead :lol: You see, if they were really horny, and wanted now't more than a damned good shagging...it wouldn't matter to us in the least..But, nowadays, they just can't help themselves, they HAVE to ruin it by asking for BJs and stuff..it kinda lets you know they ain't really that interested :lol: They don't want to rattle one off in case something more charitable turns up, so they bang on the glass asking if you are up for some fun
I thought that WAS fun, but obviously not anymore :lol:Ahh, I can't knock the fellas, there are some happy go lucky guys out there for sure, but you always get the vocal few that broadcast their displeasure..As you'll know, even a few years ago, a "prickteasing" couple were one that took the piss by acting all flirty, then pissing off laughing their pubes off the fucking rascals :lol: Nowadays, you shag yer missus with the doors locked and you are a "prickteasing" pair of c**nts for not allowing the guys to join in :shock:
We saw a show a year or so back..Young couple, really excited about the thrilling pastime they'd just discovered..All they knew was that there was four guys watching, and to them, that was great..you could see they were revelling in it bless them..so giggly yet passionate..lovely!
However..What they weren't aware of, thankfully, was the conversation outside..One fella turns to me and says "you'd think he'd fucking share it" (obviously assuming he was in like minded company)..My reply was "why, its not compulsory is it?" His face dropping slightly "my mate ere said this place was good, i've fackin drivin all the fackin way from London to empty me fackin nuts, fackin shit innit" :?
Mrs Dirty then got out of our parked car and goose stepped over for a gander..The fella got all animated thinking sense had prevailed and mrs Dirty was about to address his distress by sucking him orrf, which she didn't :lol:
It should be simple being a show couple..We show for anyone, it doesn't matter a fig to us how old, ugly, fat, smelly or hung..they are just voyeurs..BUT some are worse than fucking power supply salesmen these days...A recent show we did down a track was going quite well..The guy asks that i open the window a little, which i did...hand straight in, and on dirty's dirty great hairy twat! I said, "sorry mate, its paws off i'm afraid"...He leered at me like i was a fat twat (which i am, but he didn't have to remind me!)..and stormed off, after calling us a "waste of fucking time" :?
That IS the way you often get treated i'm afraid..We couldn't really give a fuck mind, we're too long in the tooth to be worried about stuff like that, besides, it gives me lots to write about.. :lol: But so many guys expect and demand sexual services that "showing" can just cause frustrations to boil over :twisted:
Then you go in the chatroom..
"hey DD you been out tonight"
"yeah, only an hour"
"cool, how many did she have?"
THAT is a true example, but it is the way many see the game these days :lol: Dogging and free shag have become synonymous really..Mind you, i was saying the same thing five years ago
We did get "thumbs up" back then though :lol: now we just get guys trying to give us their mobile numbers in case we change our minds :lol:Tell ya what..Its less problematic "showing" to members of the public than doggers these days..At least they appear gratefull :lol:
Hey DD as usual you present the "traditional dogging" point of view in a succinct manner.
The state of dogging in general is somewhat dire at the moment but then again as you well know, it's been the same for the last few years. Things tend to take these cycles, it goes good for a while in one spot then word gets out and the one night shagers reappear.
For you as a show couple and some of us single guys patience is a virtue, somedays are good, some not so good but they are all better than sitting in the office.
My advice to anyone starting off in this game is just stay away from the "packs" and things will come to you eventually. There are many good nights in "dead" sites and "non-recognised" sites but they are not mentioned on here so as not to get the idiots in.
No offence to the OP but if some couple gives you a shout to go to their favourite little spot how long is it till there are car park coffee and smoking clubs there.
That's the reason behind you getting so few replies. If people dont' know you or anything about you they are not going to trust you not to ruin things.
Snerts
The state of dogging in general is somewhat dire at the moment but then again as you well know, it's been the same for the last few years. Things tend to take these cycles, it goes good for a while in one spot then word gets out and the one night shagers reappear.
For you as a show couple and some of us single guys patience is a virtue, somedays are good, some not so good but they are all better than sitting in the office.
My advice to anyone starting off in this game is just stay away from the "packs" and things will come to you eventually. There are many good nights in "dead" sites and "non-recognised" sites but they are not mentioned on here so as not to get the idiots in.
No offence to the OP but if some couple gives you a shout to go to their favourite little spot how long is it till there are car park coffee and smoking clubs there.
That's the reason behind you getting so few replies. If people dont' know you or anything about you they are not going to trust you not to ruin things.
Snerts
Quote by Snertsmate
My advice to anyone starting off in this game is just stay away from the "packs" and things will come to you eventually. There are many good nights in "dead" sites and "non-recognised" sites
Sound advice too Snerts
There is a strange dogging psychology amongst the newer participants of our pervy pastime in that they'll enter an otherwise empty carpark and not linger for fear of ghosties or in the notion that somehow it must be a "dead" carpark Whereas in truth, as you know, and we know,(experience) should a couple turn up out of the blue (and why not?) then pretty much,if you are alone, or share the venue with only one, maybe two others then all things being equal its gonna be a result..Guys are more inclined to stop in a carpark containing thirty other doggers then wondering why the action (if any) tends not to hang around :lol:
The hardest thing to convey to the newer perv is the waiting factor. Many find this aspect all a bit strange, an unproductive waste of perving time, so they attempt to pull the corners in and get something organised going (time wise), or offer "private carparks" :lol: The fishing anology is such an old cliche, but i guess, not without good reason..As recently as Sunday we saw a fella sat on a frosty riverbank with his lamp and accessories.."fuck me!" i thought :lol: "all to catch a fish and then lob it back in" :shock: ..I just didn't "get it", like so many "don't get" the waiting aspect of our game..Of course, it isn't for everyone, but those that kinda get a buzz from the waiting and the "bushcraft" (the psychological edge honed from experience and instilled subconsciouly into what some term as dogger's intuition, and used to gain the advantage in an encounter which is essentially down to good ole "lady luck")....(i luv writing shite like that because i just imagine everyone gritting their teeth and muttering "who does that fat c**t think he is?) :twisted:..like i was saying
Those that "get" the waiting bit are always going to be more "content", therefore more "enduring" and ultimately more "productive". But like you say, the productivity can wax and waine so we all have to weather the storm :lol: Some will rember referrences to "The Master" who's forte was to sit in busy carparks in order to weigh up the situation..There was little chance in encountering any "fun" at that stage (other than the gangbangers which were never his thing anyway) but that early reccy was more to assess the "vibe"..After watching the mob and fixated shaggers driving or running around in circles and flushing any fanny away in the fenzy..he'd locate to a very quiet location and wait..Sometimes it paid off, if the couple knew the area..But usually he'd rely on returning when the dust had settled and everyone else had given the night up as a dead loss :lol:..For he knew, couples intent on fun are FAR less inclined to give up than single guys :wink: ..Couples can more or less guarantee fun of sorts if they hang around long enough, whereas most single fellas cannot, so lose moral real quick! :lol:
I always go for the quieter car parks. We have a choice of four in our area, all with-in 2-3 miles of each other. I usually sit and sit and sit, and it can be quite entertaining at times to watch the same cars come in and out, racing back and for, just in case there is something going on in one of the other car parks, and they are missing it. Or maybe, they have passed a car on the road that contains a couple that are just going about their daily buisiness and joe dogger thinks "better check all the car parks to see if they are going to one of them".
The one thing that will make me move off and it really bugs me is when a 'gay' guy parks next to me, gets out, walks around my car, peers in, then get back into his car, drive around to get a good view with his full lights. Then parks a little closer to me, gets out again and proceeds to get his cock out and start wanking. WHY do gays think that all other guys must be gay or at least bi? Leave me in peace to do my dogging.
The one thing that will make me move off and it really bugs me is when a 'gay' guy parks next to me, gets out, walks around my car, peers in, then get back into his car, drive around to get a good view with his full lights. Then parks a little closer to me, gets out again and proceeds to get his cock out and start wanking. WHY do gays think that all other guys must be gay or at least bi? Leave me in peace to do my dogging.
Quote by mart2008
WHY do gays think that all other guys must be gay or at least bi? Leave me in peace to do my dogging.
Tunnel vision
It's not just the gays, its the swingers that assume all other couples are swingers, the shaggers that expect all women are there to have sex with them and a minority of doggers that assume because a carpark is listed as a "dogging site" then everyone within, must by definition be "up for dogging"The minority of gays, and doggers wanking up against windows are a major source of carpark closure and police complaint..It never ceases to amaze me how assuming these fellas can be..I myself pulled into a carpark for a tiddle about three years ago :lol: A fella strode right up to me and asked if he could play with me owd chap :shock: When i assured him this ole dog wasn't for turning, he asked "are you sure?"
:lol: Some of the expectation comes through familiarity..IE, in our local, 98 percent of the action is "involvement"..There is a kinda evolution process which would be too long winded to talk about here
suffice to say, involvement is all the guys get to see, so therefore come to are still changing, and couples "charging" are becoming increasingly evident..Soon the guys will habitually ask "how much?" on approaching a car :lol:The levels of assumption from the newbies can often be worse..They have a fixed idea of what dogging is, but that idea comes from what they want it to be..Swing couples often become most dissillusioned as the posts regarding "single men hanging around in the carpark" testify :lol: Erm, they'll be the doggers :lol: Give five people of differing religions a copy of the Bible and they'll all be as equally convinced the text backs up their viewpoint and dismisses everyone elses (hence some of the crazy antics within the God game) :lol: (refer to Richard Dawkins "the god delusion" for a better explanation) :lol:
Much of the problematic encounters stem from couples or guys not accepting there might well be people in the same carpark with differing desires to their own..Your experience with the gay fellas isn't any different than our's with the shaggers really
Quote by mart2008
I always go for the quieter car parks. We have a choice of four in our area, all with-in 2-3 miles of each other. I usually sit and sit and sit, and it can be quite entertaining at times to watch the same cars come in and out, racing back and for, just in case there is something going on in one of the other car parks, and they are missing it. Or maybe, they have passed a car on the road that contains a couple that are just going about their daily buisiness and joe dogger thinks "better check all the car parks to see if they are going to one of them".
Could not agree with you more!
On th odd ocasion I get out, it's now become a joke to see the guys that race around several car-parks, just in case.
And god help any couple coming into a car park, instant group of cars surrounding them, and more coming in with main beams on!
The fun for me was always the apprehension, is there a couple in the car? will anything happen? if there was a show, great! If anything else was offered, bonus!
That style of ad-hoc dogging is now obviously over, with the arranged meets more the norm. Just wish I had more time on my hands to get to know people and meet!
I do have one question regarding a south wales location, if anyone whe feels that they are in the know around the Newport area, I have a question!
Sorry to ramble on!
Gav
