Well. after numerous attempts to find an active dogging location in SE Kent ( Dover, Ramsgate, Sandwich, Ashford, Canterbury, Folkestone you name it I've tried it) I've finally admitted defeat and will no longer be spending lonely hours in dark car parks!
Where have all the SE dogging coouples gone? Do they exist?There are some great locations in the above areas but never any couples there. I've posted ads, replied to ads all with no luck. So goodbye from me and goodluck to all of you who bravely continue the search for the Holygrail of a genuine dogging couple in SE Kent!
Mike
Hi Mike
Many hours parked up waiting to no avail are part & parcel of the dogging scene I'm afraid. I can understand your frustration when ads that you have replied to end up being from time wasters but I can assure you there are still genuine people out there. Regular police visits, boy racers etc have all taken there toll in our area but it does still go on. Personly over the past couple of months I have only had one encounter which was by more luck than judgement but that experience & the thrill it gave me spurs me on to seek further encounters & excitement. How about varying the hours you go out, I've always found the later the better & believe me patience is a virtue!!!
Regards
Steveo
SteveO,
You're right, patience is a virue, but, there's a limit to everything! Don't get me wrong, I don't expect to trip over couples every time I go out, but, I haven't seen a genuine dogging couple down this way for 5/6 months!
I use to live in the NW and there were sites there which were frequently used by couples, but, since moving to the SE things just seem to be very, very quiet. I'm glad you've had some success recently and I hope you get more, but, I need to start getting some sleep at night!
All the best
Mike
Dirtydoggers,
You name the date and I'm sure we could arrange quite a welcoming party! Go out regularly and always see nothing! I haven't had any replies from single guys disagreeing with me so I take it I'm not the only one in this position.
So you book up the bus and we'll see you soon!
Mike
Well it's been a while for quite a few of us SE doggers, but, I'm sure we could rise to the challenge! It really does sound like we are in the wrong county though! What is wrong with Kent?
Come on all you Kent couples, show the rest of the country what you're made of!
Hiya Mike,
As a couple we understand your frustrations with the dogging scene at the moment and A&L if you have a good location keep it close to your chest! lol.
Kent was a brilliant place to go dogging until about a year ago. Unfortunately what with all the publicity that dogging has received, it seems that the police are hell bent on stamping it out, plus of course all the interest from the boy racers.
We use to go dogging as frequently as twice a week but have only played when dogging twice this year so far!!!
We even found a good site across the water in Essex, a bit of a drive but great guys there and well away from the general public in the middle of no where. We had two great trips there and then the next three, yes you've guessed it, a police patrol turned up and sat there.
On Tuesday night we ventured out to a reasonably well known area near Maidstone. 4 guys to start with which grew to 6, the window down and Sue putting on a nice show, when a car pulls in parks facing us all and two coppers get out! So beleive us Mike, its just as frustrating for us couples.
Luv
Mark and Suexx
PS And do be careful, there are plain clothes couples in unmarked cars, we had a run in with a pair of them at Dartford, not very pleasant!!!
Silk and Big G,
Thanks for your ever so witty and clever response. It really must have taken you hours to come up with , ' He's a whinger'. Have you ever thought of writing comedy, you could make a fortune! If you can't add anything constructive to the thread( and you were the only person who didn't) why not just do us all a favour and say nothing.
If you're having fun dogging and your area is busy, great, good for you. But as you don't know me or anything about the scene in SE Kent what makes you qualified to start slagging me off? Stick to subjects you might actually know something about ( which I'm sure in your case will be a pretty short list).
To every one else who responded to my initial post, thanks for your thoughts. It looks like dogging in the SE isn't dead after all!
Oh dear, such a shame that the chaps who posted weren't around at our local spots when we were out last - And OI YOU LOT IN NORFOLK & essex - what's all this about minbus trips and coming down here to knick the spare geezers? The Kent Hostess will be most hacked off with that !!!
Doggin in Kent Dead ? Not if we can help it !
H&T