Is This Dogging Thing Really Real?

31 Dec 2004

puddle
I am supprised that this thread has not been locked like the other one.
People have tried to help you but all you do is throw shit back at them.
Climb back out of the mess you got yourself into, look in the mirror and see where you went wrong then Bow out of SH gracefully.
Bye
Fred

31 Dec 2004

i'm not thinking straight this morning,new years eve,and i cannot decide where to dirty will be away visiting family,aaarrrg...........well it is true that some couples go dogging,swapping or swinging for the wrong is also true that some couples get married or have children for the wrong reasons,they feel there is something missing,in dogging,swapping,marriage or childbirth there is a temporary feeling of completeness,which,when faded,leaves the couple feeling even more do they turn,more children,more money,more cock or bigger cock,nothing works for long......but puddle,do not get that confused with the liberated sexual freedom enjoyed by the happy couples on the scene,be it swinging or dogging......some couples enjoy sex with others,but make love to eachother. it is also true that many doggers think that couples who share partners are essentially finished,they cannot imagine how someone could allow another man near their woman,there must be something wrong,he cant get it up maybe,cant last,cannot satisfy me give you this statement,made by such a man,whilst bragging about his recent encounter,``well,if that prick of a husband was cunt enough to let me jump on it,i wasn't going to say no,was i``?.....we too have encountered guys trying to impress mrs dirty,with stories of holiday homes in spain,the size of their bank balance,its true,some of these guys really think that the female partners are so dissatisfied with their lives they will dissapear with the first man to dogg the car. the majority of guys that go dogging are married,or in a some of those men,something will be missing in their own sex lives,they will seek excitement in carparks,for some the experience will be fulfilling,requiring only an occasional fix,for others,to witness liberated couples at play,will reflect his own boring sex life,making him feel even more frustrated,this could lead to arguments at home or resentment of the couples that one gave him his excitement,maybe it would become an addiction,he would spend too much time in carparks,when confronted by the wife,his reply would be ``well if you wasn't so fucking frigid,i wouldn't have to``..shall i give you 400 more examples?,thought not.......it was my intention to bore you puddle,the point being,for you,it doesn't matter what the agendas of couples,or doggers has his or her own journey to shagging a woman at a dogging site,as long as she is up for it,ends a relationship,is it your problem, are not their as a councellor,just as we are not interested in the private lives of the guys that enjoy our one of the blokes gets rumbled,by mrs dirty's perfume,then that isnt going to lose us too much sleep,cause whilst the geezer is nagging,we'll be shagging.

31 Dec 2004

My experience has been the opposite but saying that I don't have a one liner problem i.e. 'single guy desperate for sex in the UK' or 'I want a shag tonight'
I spend some time seeing these ads and laughing because they are DESPERATE ads if their sex life is as bad as there chat up lines than some Girl is in for a crap night. Know wonder those ads are just ignored or slated they are comedy not reality.
I still say there is an excellent bunch of people on here - single guys, woman and couples and then there are the ones who are probably best saving up and buying a rubber doll biggrin

J

31 Dec 2004

I was going to post a long drawn out reply to this thread but in the end decided on this.......
1. I dog because I enjoy it (even the long, cold, lonely carpark waiting sessions!) for my own reasons.
2. Other single men do it for their own reasons.
3. Single females, bi-men, bi-women, gay couples, gay men TVs etc etc do it for their own reasons.
4. Couples do it for their own reasons.
I don't need to know anyone elses reasons, the fact is we are all there to enjoy the experience.
Everyone I have met while out and about are only there because they enjoy it. I've gained some good friends, had some great times and intend to continue dogging until I decide (for my reasons) to stop.
Talking of stopping, I'd better do that with this post before it turns into that long drawn out one that I was trying to avoid!
Happy New Year to you all by the way.
All the best,
Chap

31 Dec 2004

you what really makes me laugh about last night in chat ,puddle you said "i have a g/f " well why dont you take her along dogging and you sit and watch her have some fun, oh oh hold on then ya babble on about you being a single .. come om make your mind up are you a single male ,the cheating part of a couple (something must be missing) mm think you are digging a bigger hole.

31 Dec 2004

I don't think that many doggers make derogatory comments about the women in the game, or their men.
Probably many of the "single males" new to the game do, but they're not really doggers anyway...no talent, no patience and no respect.
If you haven't got respect for the others in the game, you're not a dogger.
LOADS of the guys new to the game make me cringe....they pull-up alongside a car with a couple in, and then stare....except when looked at, when they turn away...in at the deep end without a lifejacket and not much hope.
Anyway gals, and guys......................................
HAPPY NEW YEAR

31 Dec 2004

Happy New Year J mate

1 Jan 2005

I am disgusted with some of puddles remarks....the bit about problems and splitting up etc.....all i can say is if i ever come across you on one of my nites out dogging...you WILL NOT be invited to join or watch.

1 Jan 2005

You just need to be patient...
You have to realise that in this activity differne tpeople want different things. You can't expect everyone to do what you want.
Patience is the key

1 Jan 2005

Quote by jomu
I don't think that many doggers make derogatory comments about the women in the game, or their men.
Probably many of the "single males" new to the game do, but they're not really doggers anyway...no talent, no patience and no respect.
If you haven't got respect for the others in the game, you're not a dogger.
LOADS of the guys new to the game make me cringe....they pull-up alongside a car with a couple in, and then stare....except when looked at, when they turn away...in at the deep end without a lifejacket and not much hope.
.......................and a very happy new year to you jomu.....essentially you are right,of course,the majority of the guys are example i gave was one i used to illustrate a point,months ago,the reason being,i haven't got too many degrogatory anecdotes at my disposal,which in itself confirms your point..obviously such remarks wouldn't be made in front of couples anyway,so on that basis,your thoughts on the matter are more valid than ours