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2 be honest what horny 1/2 decent red blooded male or cpl would turn down a drop dead geogous female,dark haired,slim and very very sexy part of a cpl whos up for it 24/7 and hands it on a shall tell u swingingheaven members..weve had more meets in 2 weeks getting out and about than advertising 2 years on here. to be honest we have met a few decent people off here but compared 2 the amount that use and r members its minimal...we r seriously coming 2 the conclusion that most people on here prefere talking about it than actually doing it....p.s and before u mention it yes i cant spell...
point is we get more replys 4 being negative than positive thats swingingheaven 4 u....
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2 be honest what horny 1/2 decent red blooded male or cpl would turn down a drop dead geogous female,dark haired,slim and very very sexy part of a cpl whos up for it 24/7 and hands it on a shall tell u swingingheaven members..weve had more meets in 2 weeks getting out and about than advertising 2 years on here. to be honest we have met a few decent people off here but compared 2 the amount that use and r members its minimal...we r seriously coming 2 the conclusion that most people on here prefere talking about it than actually doing it....p.s and before u mention it yes i cant spell...

Perhaps you should direct your frustration and annoyances at the men/women who have not bothered to respond to your advert instead of making such a sweeping assumptions. rolleyes
As we don't need to advertise, (being of the spontaneous breed), we can't identify with your hostility or if it is justified, so we'll just offer some friendly advice.
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point is we get more replys 4 being negative than positive thats swingingheaven 4 u....

No, its what youmake it. Oddly, we've never expereinced any kind of negativity or lack of enthusiasm. Hmmmmmmm
u are saying in ur experience you have never come across any negative views whatsoever in all the posts being mailed everyday..how do come 2 that conclusion?
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how do come 2 that conclusion?

Because we readthe responses to ours?
Nobody is forcing you to stay. You say in over 2 years but you have been registered less than 1 year? 11 posts in 10 months - wow! you certainly know how to get to know everybody on here, don't you? Admittedly there are an awful lot of people who do just talk about it and don't actually do anything, but then again there are an awful lot of people who talk about it and DO get involved. Then we get those who lurk in the shadows and creep out on a full moon and whinge for the sake of whinging. Which category do you fit into?
Mal
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sorry if we hit a raw nerve,we like 2 be polite sending an invite once a month we would say aint bad also we prefere 2 use the chat which we use most eves as its more direct 4 us..we have obviously picked up on something or we would not have recieved such a nasty responce...all 4 the sake of daring 2 assume its all just chit chat....
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sorry if we hit a raw nerve,we like 2 be polite sending an invite once a month we would say aint bad also we prefere 2 use the chat which we use most eves as its more direct 4 us..we have obviously picked up on something or we would not have recieved such a nasty responce...all 4 the sake of daring 2 assume its all just chit chat....

Yeah yeah, thats it! Raw nerve n all! Dont let anyone stop you being too daring wink The floor's all yours xxxxxxxx
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sorry if we hit a raw nerve,we like 2 be polite sending an invite once a month we would say aint bad also we prefere 2 use the chat which we use most eves as its more direct 4 us..we have obviously picked up on something or we would not have recieved such a nasty responce...all 4 the sake of daring 2 assume its all just chit chat....

The problem seems to be that you have mistaken the forum for the chat room. Why complain in here about what has or has not, happened in the chat room? Lots of us never use the chat - it might as well be another Site for all we care. Raw nerve? Possibly, because you have accused us in the forum of all talk and no action, when you should have directed that to those in the chat room. If you had spent more time in the forums, you would still have got some timewasters, that unfortunately is a necessary evil associated with the internet. However, you would have been able to get to know people better and who you can or cannot rely on. OK?
Mal
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whats ur next move u going 2 ban us 4 being honest...
will take ur advice and spend more time in forum than chatroom and see what we think....
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whats ur next move u going 2 ban us 4 being honest...

Why should we do that? As long as you are not insulting or violate the Site AUP, you don't get banned. But also be aware that if you post something that gets people going, like this, be prepared for us to defend ourselves.
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will take ur advice and spend more time in forum than chatroom and see what we think....

Fine, not a problem. This is a much slower pace than chat and what you post stays visible for a lot longer too!
Mal
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Why dont you both Fuck Off you crying sad arseholes!! mad

This person has been deactivated because of offensive/abusive posting.
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Why dont you both Fuck Off you crying sad arseholes!! mad

Mmmm, Polite ,constructive and very helpful ..... NOT.
A member for a few days with three posts ... that will get you noticed and probably banned for a personal attack.
Everybody is entiltled to their own opinions.
Jackie and Ben
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did you really mean to say that or were you just typing aloud again.......................
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Why dont you both Fuck Off you crying sad arseholes!! mad

A member for a few days with three posts ... that will get you noticed and probably banned for a personal attack.

God I hate it when im right.
lol :cry: :lol: :cry: :lol: :cry: wink
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Jackie and Ben
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We are into full swapping with couples but also like scenarios with multiple guys - depending on our mood wink . To be honest we haven't met one couple through our ad since joining swinging heaven. Our ad is directed to couples and we have been quite specific in what we are looking for. We have had a limited response and most of those have not read the advert properly. We have tried to encourage phone contact from a number of couples who we thought appeared compatible but has never happened (not through our lack of trying). However, having said that, we have met some great single guys and that is why we like Swinging Heaven hehehe.
taking all your negative points into consideration i can only conclude it's YOUR own fault...
last week we chatted in the chat room , then on msn...i sent some pictures( now i dont claim to be Brad Pitt, but i go to clubs and have met some great couples...got a wife and 2 girlfriends....yes i know...i'm a dirty bastard)....and all you could say to my pics were my cock was too small...well i'm only 7.5 inches....so i hope you find what you're looking for or change your criteria...lol
seriously though, you seemed a bit crazy on msn , so chill mate and BE HAPPY !!
sure u have right cpl,if its us ur actually talking about,if u have a 71/2 in dick then lucky 4 u as female is not usually into rejecting a dick of that proportion,but we do have tastes in what they r actually attached 2 which could have been the main reason proberly, as there more to what us and cpls like and dont like than a 71/2 in ch dick..
im not saying anything rolleyes
Just my 2p worth, but I'm a user of many sites that have forums/threads and so on. I have to say that of the swinging ones, this does seem to be one of the best, the postings are either useful, or witty, and with a lower percentage of idiots. The chatroom is also one of the most welcoming too.
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