It strikes me the Dogging Board has been a bit slow of late ( weather a factor im sure) .
There are a handful of established couples here who are pretty obviously genuine , and many who know lots of doggers .
So I was wondering ...................the majority of posts seem to be one liners of the " can anyone tell us where?" variety . Alot of these suggest they are couples looking for sites , often subtely by just using the word 'we' . Most often after that there are at least a couple of replies offering a list of local sites .
Now bearing in mind the almost universal whinge of the doggers about sites being over populated , what kind of measures do you guys take to ensure youre not supplying your treasured site location to just another chancer posing as a couple ??
Just curious
Good mornin silk/big G and redhot.
My penny worth!!!.
INTRODUCTION-:
Ive had quite a few ickle PM's from couples (supposely), saying they are genuine and set a date etc, they stipulate the do's and dont's(to which i always respect).
2nd-:,
On the eve of the meeting, sorry we cant make tomorrow night "something has come up but if we can sort it out we will probs be there later. MY REPLY-: Ok where you thinking of going, "we dont know any good places do you know any"..MY REPLY, meet at ********* or ******** "where abouts are they"," your from the same area"... never here from them again lol, (END OF PING PONG BULL****).
The above is just 1of a few of the scenarios that i have come across from supposedly newbie couples "OR ARE THEY???".
Like redhot, I now keep the good looking places to myself, I just cannot see the point in telling everyone where all the fun takes place, I have never had a fellow dogger informing me of the good places to go, "and besides", more popular place the more Hamshankers will be there, them ones who have managed to escape from the wifey lol.
Giovanni (john)
As a genuine dogger myself it is very hard to get the trust of couples to either arrange a meet or get sites used for dogging. All the well known sites have now been overrun by boy racers or are never frequented by couples due to bad publicity. I had a great time 2 years back but the place I used is now dead thanks to a famous person and bad publicity.
we won't tell anyone ourfavourite spots....nor will the single guys who use them. simple as that. any genuine people will find out the same way as we did, by actually going out and speakiking to other people instead of posting "i need a blowjob tonight" type messages that never get answers except from people to take the piss.
We get loads of pm's asking for details of the good sites but would never ever give out details to anyone we did not know as being completely genuine. We do have one site we visit and I have never given out details of this to anyone. We often go there at very short notice and take a chance that someone may be there, if not, then we just get on and enjoy ourselves without the audience.
If we wanted to do pre-arranged meets (which we sometimes do with another couple off here) we always meet at a well known local site, if we find it is too busy then we move off, but I would never risk telling someone I did not know and trust about new places.
New sites soon become established and dont need anyone to publish them. One place we have used a few times and is not advertised anywhere, well no where that I know of, is also used by another couple on here and it was only by accident while chatting we found out that we both used the same site, its just that we use it at different times!
Who needs the internet to find sites, just get off your bum and have a look at the places right under you nose, you just might be suprised!
I never tell anyone anything, except those I ***know*** (usually doggers from years back)
In fact, disinformation is now the name of the game...."nahh mate, nuffin 'ere fer munfs....orl gorn to clubs nah"
The "old" sites are still going....the newsual crowd....itchy clutch feet....they couldn't tell a car with a couple in it, with a torch and luck....
Crowded is the name of the game.
Sounds to me like dogging is so hit and miss I wonder if any one gets ever meets up? :doh:
Interesting thread - We have been a tad interested in dogging and it has been a bit of a struggle to find what we are looking for. Indeed it's sensible to "protect" your sites. But there's only so much driving about you can do if you don't know where to look. We did our first dogging session last weekend, nothing too spectaclar and not really what we expected..... but it was ok - we did a show for the boys but we where a little suprised at the ammount of cars on the site an only two guys came over to watch.......... Perhaps we didn't have the right lable on the car ??/?
J&A
Maybe some had a thought for how you might feel?
Personally, if I see a couple has already attracted attention from a couple of guys I stay away. Wouldn't want to make them feel intimidated.
Yes, this board has been slow, some I'm sure is the weather, but you can't discount the idea that so many newbies are on fishing exercises. Again, personally, I don't advertise and I don't fish for details of sites. If I can't find them myself then it's just tough on me.
That's said, I have responded to a couple of ads, one a piss take and one serious. The srious one involved a very cold night on the Kent coast with coffee provided! Other than that all my meets have been by chance and I guess that's how it should be...
Some haven't the patience to wait, or their lives are so busy the have not the time.
So they arrange a meet with interested parties.
It saves all the boredom !
I've also noticed that, having had a good time one week, they are back at the same place and the same time and day the next week, but with a mate along.
Bad move.
An answer to a previous comment: about only a few guys coming over to the couple.
Some of the guys waiting will be into other guys, not women. And some will only be interested in "distance" dogging...
You meet all sorts out at night...
I suppose I am a contributer to the "slowness" here, not having posted anything for a while. That I think is down to the lack of stimulating threads in my opinion though.
As has been mentioned, 95% of the threads are "Gimme a BJ tonight" types, which I feel unable and uninclined to respond to. So what is left? I can't really contribute usefully to threads that are specific to dogging in the bottom left hand corner of the country, or to dogging in the Outer Hebrides, so I don't bother with them either. Only when something worth exercising my brain cell over springs up am I motivated to contribute, so many thanks to Silk and Big G for providing one at last.
Thanks to all five doggers who responded . It didnt tell us an awful lot except that perhaps the guys who answered on here make up possibly 50% of the doggers who actually post here . Thanks also to the couples who answered ( incidentally any wanna be doggers who are reading this all the couples here on this thread we'd bet our farm on them being the real thing so take note of who they are ) .
We asked the question out of genuine interest , and the reponse we got was from the same die hard folks who take the time usually. Is it any wonder then that when poor apprentice doggers ask questions that they dont get any answers , I mean to say fair exchange no robbery , if you want to get information from the site ..put some in FFS !
Peace xx
I have had an email in the last few days reportedly from a "couple" who saw me on here asking for sites since they have just moved here.I asked for more info giving the reasons why(too many dickheads,media etc),and they/he replied saying that they are both bi and come on where can we much chance of me telling them owt with that kind of you want to know where to go at least play the game and arrange to meet for a drink on neutral ground to show you are genuine.
i like the response given to your question. however i just have one point to make.
i am new to the dogging seen and been to the sites listed on the adivce page. however when i have been nothing seems to be happening. i would like to get to know people and never do expect anything but how can we get to know you if you are not willing to trust us. i understand you get messed about etc. i am just trying to get peoples trust but at present it seems nobody wants to talk or discuss anything or possible times etc..
sorry to be a pain and dont want to offend anyone but pleaselet us know there is some light at the end of the tunnel.
we have learnt from previous expereinces that we do not use the sites that are listed on the doggin sites as these are usually the ones that are overun with boy racers, full beam brigade etc. we usually speak on the phone to whoever we are going to meet to make sure that they are genuine and then take them to one of our quiet spots the only prob with this is the more people we introduce to them the more likely other people will start to use them its a catch 22!
We got fed up in Bournemouth as all the places we knew were taken over by the idiots. On the rare occassions we go out now we just drive around the smaller car parks in the forest. It's amazing but you usually find someone to play with in the most remote spots.
Heres an example of why we asked the question in the first place , you can bet yer boot this asswipe got some PM's with locations before he was banned again !
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/38382.html
Look on the dark side, he could have got someones car, wallet or worse.
Hi everyone,I agree totally with silk and redhot,it is about going out and seeing who's out and about,it is hit and miss, observing the ettiquette is very important,being patient and polite and most definately not pushy in any
i have read all the posts on here and it has really opened my eyes to the dogging world, me and my hubby have been talking about dogging for about a year now and we have only been to the sites that are published on here, i think that tomorrow i may suggest to have aride around as the places we have been to are full of idiots and boy racers. We haven't actually done any thing yet but would love to so thanks for all the info cause it has now made me think about the places we go to vic x
And since then we haven't told anyone else of any place at all.
