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A quick question:
Satin and I are thinking about arranging a late night dogging meet next week (probably Thursday 12th). By late night I mean after midnight. We will most probably go clubbing first and call off at a spot to do some outdoor naughtiness afterwards. We've done that before and had fun on our own, and we've got lucky in the wee small hours sometimes too......
However, the question is.... how many of you guys would be able to make a late night meet if I arranged one on the forum? I don't want to spend a week arranging it and then spend a wasted time at an arranged location when none of you are going to be able to make it!
If I get enough interest from this post I will do an arranged meet, with the help of the photo ads too, but if I don't get much interest Satin and I will just play it by ear as we've done in the past.
Over to you guys!
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We tried exactly that once, Blue, and of the bunch of folk due to show up, only two did, both far too plastered from being in pubs and late-licence bars until 2. a.m. - total wipe-out - do it in reverse we'd suggest.
There again ,the folks in your part of the world might have more endurance - nevertheless beer fumes do not make for a good atmosphere do they ?
T
Good point T - we certainly don't want tanked up people turning up confused . We won't play with anyone who is obviously drunk and stinking of booze no matter what the time of night is!
I'll have to think about this some more :?
Hi
I could say at this time....80% chance I could turn up.. lol
Where abouts in the great county of lancs would you be stopping? cause i might have a go at waiting around for you...not like i have anything better to do at 2 in the morning smile
If we do an arranged meet it will be in the Bolton area.
Thanks to the people who've PMed this afternoon, keep your eyes on this post and I will keep you up to date on whether or not this is happening and what time etc.
If we decide not to arrange a meet, as the club we plan to go to is near Bolton we will probably stick around Bolton if we do decide to play outside. However, we do play in other places too so we might not.... oh, decisions, decisions!!!
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yeah i would come, not smelling of booz lol, i dont know bolton that we so might need directions, i have seen your add but never replyed becouse i think what you are looking for might be out of my depth, new ish to dogging and not sure about cross dressing and the kind of stuff your in to, but i am curiose. as for streight dogging a would love to meet you both and watch you at it,, if i got an invite all the better, but would be happy just watching. let me know if your going to do it, all best dave
Hi Blue
love your site and would love to meet up with you and silk, I have not done the club thing before but am intrigued, maybe a meet in Lancs before may put me sraight(pardon the pun)!! let me knoe? rolleyes
Usefuldibdob, you've no chance of an invite, sorry. You say yourself, you're not sure about cross dressing, so we're REALLY not for you. We don't mind straight guys watching provided they're open minded, but you're not that. You were right first time, what we are looking for is out of your depth.
That goes for any other straight guys who is not open minded enough to be able to cope with bi guys or cross dressers, or in fact any other guy who is just curious. We don't want people who are curious - sort that out in your own time - we are after real players rolleyes
Still not sure whether we are going to do this meet. We certainly won't be playing anywhere for the straight-nervous-curious faction of doggers :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: . If we get people like that turning up, we just move on and go elsewhere.
hi
im very interested
will try and make it
Thanks for the PMs guys. I'll let you know via this post whether or not the meet is on in a couple of days lol :lol: :lol:
What a minute, are you talking about dogging?
I don't mean this in a bad way, but why on earth is this so sturctured and planned.
Aranging it all in advance???? To me dogging is about voyeurism- that is the person being watched, and the person doing the watching have basically met up "by chance." For sure there are agreed places, and codes etc,
But planning an event a week in advance????? Where is the spontaneous urge?
Strictly telling people they can and can't come????? Surely the whole point of any form of puiblic sex is that you DON'T have full control over the voyeurs.
For sure, this is all very safe, but where is the FUN??
I underastand that there is a safety element, but from what you say I completly fail to understand what you enjoy about dogging.
If you want to have some group sex with people who share your specific interests why not just do it at home?
Actually, as the blurb says, dogging goes hand-in-hand with exhibitionism.
Each to their own. Blue and her partner like to do their thing, and you like to do yours.
There's room for all, and everything.
Personally, I like watching people have sex...I tend not to be that particular about things.
If you're intolerant of others, I suggest you stop and think, because you ain't going to like a lot of what you see.
The only bug I have is people who come into the layby and then moan when anyone goes near them.
I think your career in laybys and car parks is likely to be short...lets see, so far tonight I've seen about half a dozen gay guys...two tvs' and one couple who just chatted among themselves........pretty normal night again then....mind you, I did wander through a wooded area out in Northants a week ago and came across a guy tied to a tree who wanted to be fucked.....not my type...don't go for blondes. In any case, he was too tall (think about it)
Yeah, i guess your agreeing with me! Surely the whole point of exhibitionism is that ANYONE might see you, rather than hand-pick't and invited guests?
what blue seems to be trying to do is arange a secret, but public, get-together for people that share his/her interests- which is grand- but that ain't dogging!
You've got it totally wrong Crazydonk2002, which I don't find suprising seeing as I've just read some crap from you on a previous thread too.
Actually, I only class myself as a dogger when I go out with the intention of watching some action, then I think I'm more a cruiser, but hey ho confused . This is difficult as I'm female and there are so many guys around who think I turn up just for their pleasure. If this sounds conceited, frankly I don't give a fuck! Just cos I'm female doesn't mean to say that I won't go somewhere known to be a gay cruising area, with the hope of watching two or more guys give each other a good seeing to. I don't go looking for outdoor fun to amuse the guys - get it?
My partner is an exhibitionist, but he won't play if there are a bunch of straight, pushy loonies around. That is his choice and it really is that simple.
The fact is that we have lots of fun. We NEVER used tell anyone on this forum where we were going, we used to turn up at a location and either let people watch us - we'd let anyone watch as long as they were polite, or we'd pick up a guy and Satin would play with him while I watched. I think what we do is more like cruising than dogging, but I guess you are not one to care about semantics?
Actually, I NEVER tell anyone that I often go down to my local park in the afternoon for a spot of cruising on my own. Do I get lucky? Occassionally. Has anyone on this forum ever been invited to my local park. No. I get a buzz out of it that is no-one else's business. And yes, before you say anything, being female and going to a notorious gay cruising area on my own is dangerous. It's dangerous for the guys too (one was gang there a couple of years ago :shock: ). I know it is. I still do it. Danger is part of the buzz :twisted: :shock:
We decided to start letting people on this forum know where we would be some time ago. Hence, we call it "inviting" them to a meet. Maybe "inviting" is the wrong word, but hey ho, semantics again. I put a post on here, guys who PM get told where we will be. That is it. If they turn up, they can come and play with us of they want. Usually we arrange to meet in a busy location, and in fact, usually we get to play more with guys who know nowt about swinging heaven than those we have invited - simply cos the people we invite don't bother to turn up! rolleyes Yes, so I spend a week arranging to meet guys who don't show. The guys who would have been there already, get lucky. Simple as. Now, if that bit sounds conceited, again, I REALLY DON'T GIVE A FUCK.
For the record, I wouldn't consider myself conceited anyway. There are plenty of guys (and girls come to that) that Satin won't play cos cos he considers them ugly - his choice. I, on the other hand, don't give a fuck about looks, if you're clean and polite, I might throw you a bone... conceited, nah, not me! wink
Last time we arrnaged a meet, due to unforseen circumstances, we moved on and had more fun with a guy we picked up at a gay cruising spot that we did with the guys we invited. Does that sound fun to you? It certainly was to us.
Right, so all that said.... are you happy now Crazydonk? If you have nothing positive to say, don't hijak my thread again, start your own one about inaccurate whinges.
Guys, if we do tell you where we are going to be, I'll let you know as I've already said.
I'll let you into a secret, we're going out anyway, it just a matter of whether we're going to tell you where or not. We might well just go and pick up a couple of gay blokes and fuck them stupid.
Conceited, me..... never
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Sheesh - one day on and he's spewing nonsense!
I know rolleyes
I mean, moaning about a couple arranging a meet! :shock: I've heard some moans in my time, the that tops the lot!
What a dingbat! Does he not realise that the dogging forum is exactly for that purpose, and if no-one ever arranged meets, there would be nothing to read.... well, apart from a few whingers moaning to each other about the lack of info on dogging meets!!!!!
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Mark, I think you need to re-name the dogging forum. Re-name it to something like, "The Whinger's Forum"
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To me this seemed a little TOO "organised" to the extent that there would be very little randomness or voyeurism going on.
You started talking about being conceited-why, I never mentioned that?
What I was saying really is where is your thrill>? If you plan something in so much detail and know exactly who will be there then where is the public or voyeuristic element?
I'm not saying your doing this wrong or anything, but really you just seem way too conservative.
Are you thick or are you just not listening? confused
How is saying to a few guys... we'll be at XXXXXX car park from xxxpm on Thursday night being too organised? It is merely doing what plenty of guys hope couples will do, i.e. tell them where they'll be at a certain time! No, I don't need to organise these meets, we can turn up at several locations in Bolton and we can pick and choose what we do or who we do it with. If I do arrange to meet some guys, it is not in a secret place, any dogger in the area will know where I mean when I say "a busy location in Bolton".
How can you say there is no randomness, even if only the invited guys turn up and there are no chancers there at all, I still don't know the guys, they are still strangers! And so what if one turns up and I know him... the point is?
There will be lots of voyeurism going on. I watch Satin with guys, the guys watch me with Satin, everyone will probably watch me with everyone (Sorry, I just get carried away sometimes rolleyes :roll: :roll: ) ...... how is there not voyeurism? You have never been to one of my meets, how the hell do you know what we get up to?
You didn't say I was conceited, I was following a point made by someone else on another thread, you agreed with that guy's points on that thread and I just ran with it on here. That was just tongue in cheek anyway.
Where is my thrill? Erm....... do I really have to spell this out? It turns me on to watch guys with other guys, it turns me on to suck guys off or get fucked in the open air. It turns me on to have 6 or 7 guys at once. Do you think that is enough of a thrill or have I missed something important? :shock:
I'm conservative???? rotflmao That's one thing I've never been cos I'm being sociable by telling some of the forum members where Satin and I are going to play, it doesn't make me conservative. You are a joker, I'll give you that. Anyone who has ever met me either in a club or while dogging probably wouldn't call me conservative.... but see above.... maybe I'm missing soemthing important.... :shock: :shock: :shock:
SO..... as not to appear toooo conservative for Crazydonk...... anyone fancy a gang bang...? Oh shit, no, that's a bit too organised.... sillly me :doh:
I know this is a complete hunch, and it IS just a hunch, but you give me the impressiont hat you are fantastist who lives out sexual fantasies through internet forums.
Now I could be completly wrong- and screw me if I am- but the ammount of effort you put in to planning this- and the time you spend on my clearly garbage posts- suggest that this forum etc IS the experience for you.
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Someone who has met me, PLEASE do me a favour..... tell this joker that I an not just living out sexual fantasies through Internet forums! I really have done all the things I talk about. Don't you believe me? Your problem, matey!
Have you seen my www - does that look like fantasy to you???????
Jeeeeeez....... I really do have to laugh sometimes :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Here's someone who, by his own admittance, has never been dogging telling me that I live in a fantasy world..... PLEASE tell me this is a wind up :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
If I would you I would be more annoyed that someone had ruined my thread!!
Would you should have said when I first posted was
" Sir, this isn't a thread to discuss what turns an individual on, this is a thread to arrange a meet. Thank You."
A good moderator will make sure that threads keep to the topic in hand, and gently (or indeed firmly) guide rouge and troll posters away.
Now I know you're having a laugh!
I think your time on the forum is quickly running out.......
Yeah, my world is made of glass!
Look out the window- its sunny- go up to the hills, look at the view, log off and realx. I know I would if I could!
Steve
Thanks for the advice. Bye!
"Someone who has met me, PLEASE do me a favour..... tell this joker that I an not just living out sexual fantasies through Internet forums! I really have done all the things I talk about"
It's true 'Crazydonk'. I met up with them amongst a few others at Avon, near Bournemouth, I think it was last year. A very nice time was had by all!!
Dave...
No you didn't, you must be thinking about someone else..... mistaken identities and all that..... I've never even been to Avon! :shock:
Bluexxx, i think u done enough to try to explain what and why u do things your way. if this guy dont like it its his problem, he can go wandering up hill and down dale hoping for a brief veiw whilst u and silk can have a great time with those who bothered to contact you.
As for internet fantasy, yes, ur right your website shows its a little more than that, as does your long standing in the group.
Just another classic example of a limp dick thinking he can join the site and 'get laid' when he wants.
I for one hope u keep up ur great work here. biggrin
BlueXXX,
Sorry, I was thinking of 'Silk and Big G'.
Dave...
No probs Dave lol
Thanks Brightongoblin :lol: . Crazydonk has gone...... I'm missing him already wink :wink: :wink: