just had bit of car fun with wife,park in quiet layby, nearest car about 250yards away,we was parked up,and didnt have any lights on,and with-in 2 mins,someone was at the window,have i got it all wrong,i tought no one comes near your car, only if you have your light on,
That used to be the case but there are so many newbys on the 'scene' now, that either don't know or more than likely, don't care if the couple are up for being watched or not. This is one of the reasons why dogging is struggling to survive.
Not sure i really get this one.
Firstly Mart I gotta tell you, there a so many people dogging in this country these days that its in danger of becoming vanilla and losing its appeal. As long as weve been doing it there have been people saying its dying out. Its alive and well mate.
Secondly, unless you are a pair of teenagers living at home with parents, or youre banging the office receptionist and too tight to stump up for a travelodge - why would you decide to have "a bit of car fun" ?
Surely the intrinsic thing about sex in the car is the thought of being watched, or at least caught out. It cant be the that you like the comfort of the gearstick poking you in the thigh while the missus bangs her head off the glovebox ?
As far as different doggers behaving in different ways, twas ever thus. The net is lousy with pages listing rules and regulations about dogging, most of em based on the list that is on SH to some extent. Rules are, there arent really any, except the basic rules of respect for another persons wishes.
He didnt do anything wrong approaching your car in a public place, you should have just motioned for him to go away, most doggers will if you ask them.
Trouble is if i look down the forum a few spaces there will be a couple complaining that they went to a site and no one took any notice of them. so it works both way.
Relax and just try and tell people what you want and like, and remember that they are there for fun too. It usually works best that way for any kind of sex.
Peace xx
