Okay surely all the dogging sites around now started out from a couple of couples going at it, and not minding being caught in the act, then the word spread.
However with police cracking down, and newspapers revealing them to sell papers the number of good "safe" places free of boyracers and such is dropped.
So why dont we use this forum, full of like minded people to create some new places.
Im sure most people here know of a few places local to them that would be ideal for dogging - only you dont know if other doggers know about them, and you dont know any to spread the word to.
So why not spread it via here?
Obviously dont put your places in this thread - I REPEAT DONT PUT YOUR PLACES IN THIS THREAD!!!
But just say your area and if you have some places, then people in a similiar location and PM you and then you discuss your various places amoungst yourselves, and perhaps decide to try one out at some point, and then if its a good spot, spread the word to others?
- Sorry if this thing isn't allowed, not read it in the rules or anything and dont see why it wouldnt be!
Isnt that how they all happen ? :shock:
the same theme runs through several threads...so save saying it again, here is something I said earlier here...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/293918.html#293918
Yeah i see your point, but im sure theres a few couples on here that are well known to be trust worthy, who have been on the scene for a while - once a place has been decided to be 'ideal' then they could pass on the place to a few of their "friends" who in turn will pass on the place to their "friends" - So soon im sure there will be lots of new faces that most people down there wont initially know, and after a few set up meetings, im sure things wont need to be so structured or like a members club, as people will be coming and going like they do in a place thats been going for a long time.
Only with the advantage of the word only having been passed from one dogger, to someone that they have met a few times, and then them only passing the place on to someone they have met a few times, so theres less chance of boy racers turning up?
And yeah i know all these places have been set up through word of mouth in the past, but initially someone has had to go there, and sit waiting for weeks on the chance that somebody else will join them -
Whereas i know that just within 10 minutes drive of where i live there are several places ideal for dogging, if i told a couple of couples one or two of these places, and we all agreed to go down for a couple of nights, see how it worked out, then spread the word to a couple of singles, then they spread it to a couple of people that they have seen in various places before and known to be trust worthy, and then they spread it to a couple of their friends, and then these took down their partners or whichever, then there would be no need to arrange a specified day as quite a few people will know about it, and be going down on all different days?
Anyway sorry, just an idea to promote more places for action to take place, and try and halt the need for people constantly asking for places to go because everywhere they know has been took over by idiots!
If you know of a "few places near where I live" , then they're being used anyway.
The "idiots" you refer to have as much "right" to a place as anyone else.
ALL the places that are "known" used to be "not known" at one time or another. They became famous by people telling other people, then they became infamous by other people telling yet more people. Nowadays, people tell each other their mobile number and then text them if anything turns up. That irritating habit has led to quite a few sites filling-up with cars a few minutes after a couple show-up, then there is the group-texting facility....of which less said the better.
When you've sorted YOUR place out (most doggs favour one place over another and it becomes "home-base"), then try arranging something for yourself.
Yes, I know, "it's better with mates about".
Take it from me, sex and mates don't go together.
Couldnt agree more J , mates are useless as is everything Branson makes . Trojan every time. Have we wished you happy new year by the way ??
No, thanks for the reply partyman, it may have been negative, but constructive nonetheless.
I understand what you mean about getting PMs off people who might be claiming to be something their not, i personally would only give out details to some of the people who i have seen posting on here alot, and seems to be chatting with many of the other regulars, on a slightly more personal level, as this seems to imply they are more trust-worthy, but i appreciate, even this isnt foolproof and may seem selectist.
As to Jomu, perhaps i didnt make myself very clear, by idiots i was referring more to the odd scare story ive heard on here about muggings and such, and perhaps you believe they have much right as anybody else, but i dont. - Also boyracers, not including them in the idiots group, and yes they have their rights, but when out dogging im sure many people would considering them an annoyance!
as to the "few places near where i live" what i mean is they seem ideal, surrounded by trees, not too far from a many road, but not being over looked by houses or anything - of course theres a chance they are already being used, but whenever ive drove past or been in there on the odd occassion with the girlfriend, ive seen nothing.
Of course all of the places that are known now, didnt used to be known, and since they became popular by people spreading the word, then this thread isnt anything groundbreaking just saving time to build up a new place to go.
And again i didnt make it clear, by friends i meant less to do with the sort that you go down the pub with, work with etc.. and more to do with the people that youve met on the dogging scene, and have spoken to, perhaps doesnt make them frikends, but more people that you feel to be trust worthy.
Anyway no worries - just throwing an idea around rather than the typical "male looking for action" or "where can i go" thread
Hi,
let me start the ball rolling. I know two awesome areas with potential in the bournemouth area, surely this will make Bournemouth dogging disrespect Cambridgeshire!
Pm me fast.
It takes time to cat-up with these threads.
Sorry.
Friends. Hmm.
You've got no friends out on the game, you tell one guy and he'll tell another. That's the way it goes.
I was at a site last night...in drove a couple and parked up. There were two guys and me there. The other two guys got on their phones (the light kinda gives it away) and 10 minutes later another dozen drove in....out went the couple, followed by the bakers dozen of fools.
Don't "tell your friends".
You've got a good site ?
Keep it to your self.
There are FAR too many people in the game now as it is, the amount of couples stays the same...so the ratio of doggers to couples is getting a bIt high...hundreds to one and growing.
The best advice to give ?
KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND YOUR EYES OPEN
This isn't a social club, although many would like to start one from it. It can be very social at times, but you've got to remember that it always operates outside the approval of the rest of society...and that the press are always prowling around looking for a page filler. It could be you.
Don't bother trying to flame me either. I've been in this game a long time now, probably longer than you've been alive and it isn't my collar that's going to be felt...hopefully.
we too have noticed the increasing use of mobiles to communicate the whereabouts of of the problems with doggers getting too sociable are (a)the tendancy to form large groups,the thinking being,well,no couples in,may as well have a problem arises when a couple enters the venue,the first thing they see is a dozen guys bunched many couples,its just too blokes could be the nicest,most respectfull doggers a couple will ever have the fortune to encounter,but visually,its an immediate turn off for many,...then (b),some doggers,having made friends with others,make will act as a scout,the deal bieng,if any couples are espied down in another carpark,a text will be sent to the others,and vice problem arises,when,as jomu pointed out,the network only need a couple of such groups before the situation becomes impossible again........
I was chatting to a dogger at sos last year.
He texts other guys when anyone shows up.
He group texts them.....30+ at a time.
We made a last minute decision to go out last night. It was fairLy late so we didnt expect there to be many people around and when we got to the car park there was only two other cars (just how we like it, quietish). Anyway a bloke in one of the cars got out soon after we had parked up and walked past our car at a discret distance, but close enough for him to check who was in it. He then went over to the other car and they chatted for a short while. Very shortly other cars suddenly started arriving and within 15 mins there were at least 15 or 16 other cars in the car park!
Now it seems a bit odd that everyone had decided to arrive at the same time.
It seems a bit odd that a few of them obviously knew each other as they went over chatting.
It seems a bit odd that they all decided to park close to our car (We ended up with cars parked all round us).
It seems a bit odd that everyone of them was guys (no couples). Infact one car had three blokes in it.
It also seems a bit odd that when we decided to move away, that all 15/16 cars managed to follow us to the alternative area!
No wonder we went home after having no fun. Infact, I am starting to wonder if this dogging thing is worth all the bloody effort!
So if you do know a site, keep it quiet. It only takes one so called trusted friend to tell another so called trusted friend, and they then text all their mates as soon as someone arrives.
NEW SITE - KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!
Im not wanting to flame anyone Jomu, and your response was a constructive one, i see your point, and i can appreciate everyones views of driving in and seeing 15 blokes waiting, i know i wouldnt like it either - And peoples opinions are of sharing sites out would just promote this then i agree its obviously better to keep them hush hush!
Point i was making was that these places i know of, im pretty sure that nobody goes that at all, meaning it less of giving publicitity to a perfectly good site, but creating a new one from nothing - but regardless of its current status, if too many people know then yeah i see how it can make it worthless.
I guess the best thing i can is keep popping in with the girlfriend, and hope theres a few like minded couples out there willing to try out new places!!!
), so much so that one weekend, out of 30 guys on the car park near me, I was the only guy who spoke with a Brummie accent. Everyone else had made a weekend excusion to see what the place was all about because they had read about it on the web.
Because we have taken a few people there, others have obviously thought it a good idea to use the same place and have taken their dogging friends to the same place, no harm in that! In fact at first it was great because we would often turn up and find another couple had already gotten there before us and the party ended up better than it would have been! However the last 3 times we have gone to this place we have found half a dozen single guys sitting...The same half dozen every visit ( I think they must camp out there!) And as soon as we have arrived they have muscled in on whoever we have taken, on one occasion terrifying a new to the scene couple that we had just met to the point where they fled in fear (Remember to give couples time to get comfortable rule number 1)
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