Hi,
Their are several relatively local dogging spots listed near us but how accurate isthe location lists?
Is their actually any action going on there?
Is it worth us going for a look?
We are curious and think we would like to watch/ be watched but also nervous and don't want to waste our time!!
The only reason locations are dead is that couples (like yourselves) are not frequenting the places as they used to.
I am sure if you head out that someone else in the same frame of mind will also appear and then you will get your fun without disturbance from the 'The Sunday Sport' doggers who have not quite fully understood the way to behave.
I regulary visit the 'dead' spots up here in Manchester and I have had plenty of fun to start the year off and not into summer yet.
Grab a flask and dont plan for action and see what happens, you may be surprised!!
Dogging is dead for many reasons.
Pushy single males who think anyone who parks in a remote car park during the day or night is fair game. The same arseholes are now turning up at clubs and couples are now going to couples only evenings. Having been followed by one a couple years ago when me and the mrs were out with our little one in the back during the day, just about sums up the mentality of these idiots.
Safety. Would you, as a couple, even with the doors locked, pull into a car park with 10 -12 cars that park 6" off your doors and almost block you in?
First timers would be put off for life.
I'm sure there are the odd spots still going but not many.
I cannot complain..
Been out a few nights over the last couple of weeks and had fun on nearly every time. I tend to go to the quieter places as couples as you rightly say, wont hang around where there are many cars, especially the 8-10 guys stood together shouting and laughing.
I tend to keep myself to myself and keeping a keen eye can usually have fun without anyone even realising until the car leaves or I am asked to follow.
Its amazing how many times I have had fun with couple's and there are two or more guys in cars next to us that are completly oblivious to whats just happened.. They must sit there with thier eyes shut, then again you get the guys who comes screaming in with main beam and fog lights on, parking 12 inches from the car with a couple in and diving in, then wonders why the two of us are left alone in the car park!!
I am from Bolton and was thinking of doing this at the weekend, so is it not advisable then?
If I were to go can I have some info on best place maybe? Saturday night