pm me to ask what im looking for
Why should people put in the effort to PM you when you can't be bothered to put a little more effort into the content of your posts? You obviously know that this is likely to get locked, so surely you understand why?
Oh, and saying that people can still read your original message even when locked, will only work for so long because they'll probably get deleted if you keep doing it.
You've tried twice and it's been locked because you're not trying very hard LOL. You've also had locations edited out so maybe you need to check the rules?